Actually I am more of an active traveller, so I tend to avoid touristic hotels and neighbourhoods. I do things like visit remote wilderness areas, rural communities and when in cities, go to 'real neighbourhoods'. My starting point isn't to be afraid, but to be careful. In the time I spent in Colombia, I only met one couple that had been broken into and no other traveller had been or knew of anyone that had been robbed or a victim of violence. And people were talking about safety a lot and for locals, especially in Medellín, changing the reputation of their city was an ongoing project. Maybe you were there in the past when FARC still was a real threat. I was there in 2015 and had no problems. Even went to soccer matches.There are safe areas in nearly every country where tourists are generally safe. When I was there a security detail was non negotiable. Do remember going looking for pussy in a place like that is different than soaking up the sun at a hotel. You may not know the customs and the language. You can take a wrong turn walking and end up where you don't want to be. The real complicating factor is the police can be very corrupt and gringo = money. That's the case of many countries in Latin & South America.
If one insists on Latina females Costa Rica is a much better choice overall & also much safer. Or roll the dice and just drive across to Tijuana, Mexico. If you do drive just make sure you really research driving your car across the border especially if you have an outstanding loan on it.






