didn't think booking an appointment would be this hard

[Ed69]

I'm fairly new to the Vancouver hobby scene. Contacted 4 sp's this past week. All under 23. They've either stopped responding to my texts, respond a day later, or never answer in the first place. It's like Plentyoffish.

I've found the older ones less flakey, but I want something young and fresh. Do I need to attend a game workshop to learn how to convince one of them to follow through? Just lol at being born male.

 

[take8easy]

I'm fairly new to the Vancouver hobby scene. Contacted 4 sp's this past week. All under 23. They've either stopped responding to my texts, respond a day later, or never answer in the first place. It's like Plentyoffish.

I've found the older ones less flakey, but I want something young and fresh. Do I need to attend a game workshop to learn how to convince one of them to follow through? Just lol at being born male.

It does happen a few times. Sometimes, it takes an SP even two-three days to respond. They have social lives too and some of them don't even carry their "SP phone" when they are out and about socially.

Do some research here first. Once you know you have decided to see someone particular, just send a simple text or email. I usually just send a simple message first like "Hello, are you free on .. such and such day for an hour." You can add some simple phrases to praise her. I usually do.

Also, don't bombard them with texts. Personally speaking, I just send them a message and wait. If, and I mean IF, I really really want to see them, I would wait atleast two days before sending my second message. I would NOT send more than two messages. Also, give them benefit of the doubt and besides if someone doesn't respond to you and/or you think they have stopped responding, then 'get the message'. Why would you want to see someone who doesn't want to see you.

Also, don't be explicit and vulgar. Try to use the pooning lingo. You are right that Older SP's (well reputed ones) are almost ALWAYS reliable. I have never experienced flakiness with veteran ladies. Having said that I have never really had that issue with younger ones either.

I am sure other members would be glad to give you more tips. Good Luck.

T8E

 

[PierreCoeur]

This is a perplexing but real fact of booking appointments. It has happened to me a few times too. Some respond with rates and services and when I tell them that I'd like to book an appointment for later in the day, they stop responding.

Three weeks ago a girl agreed to a booking time, gave an approximate location and told me to come. She also stated that she would provide the exact location after her current next appointment ended. I showed up to the approximate location, and texted her I had arrived and no response. So I thought okay, perhaps her last appointment had arrived later, so five minutes later I texted again, but this time stating for her to text me when she was ready. 15 minutes after my scheduled appointment, I texted again stating that I would hang around for another 15 minutes before I would leave. Half hour after the scheduled appointment, I left with no further text from this person.

I guess there really isn't a moral to this story other to say, that some of the girls might be so busy that they don't give a fuck. Now I could have posted a warning about the girl but I didn't. It really wouldn't have hurt her business because she was hot as hell and for every warning or bad review she'd have three good ones because she was a sex pot and could get away with disappointing an old fool like me. The other reason I decided not to post about the experience is a lot of the guys that come to Perb are just lurkers and don't contribute diddly squat or they are ready to attack or criticize my post because I didn't reveal a girls name.

So the message to the OP is . . . it is going to happen to you and it won't occur just with the young ones. Live with it, move on and try again.

 

[Caramel]

You guys need to know about common sense.

Most of these younger fly by night girls want a booking NOW, and they don't want to send 50 texts back and forth answering annoying questions, they will double book because last time they waited for a guy, and he pulled a no-show, she learned her lesson. So now, she will double book a bunch of clients, who ever shows up first - wins! Any other guys who bother to show up and find themselves getting no response, that is the reason why. It's just smarter to do it that way, so the lady's time doesn't get wasted again, she doesn't get burned again.

Put yourself in her shoes, you are desperate for cash and you need it ASAP and can't afford to loose business. If some stranger you've never met wants to book an appointment say 2 hours later, and during that time, one of your regulars or some other dude wants to come within 30 mins, and he shows up, books the time slot and pays you the money, its a much better option...instead of saying No to that regular client, and then risk getting stood up by mr. 2 hours away guy (happens ALL the time! HUGE slap in the face, but when this happens its a good idea to notify Mr 2hr guy to cancel...but some women will just double book all within the same time slot and are too busy with cock in their mouth to get to the phone and cancel with the other ones)

For most SP's who do this to get quick cash and don't have time or patience to wait around, its the sensible thing to do. Unfortunately it's due to the massive amount of flakey guys and no-shows who ruin it for the nice guys who do actually show up.

Girls have brains, if they get burnt once, they will avoid the same situation again in the future. It's like the lab mouse who avoids getting tasered and looks for ways to get the cheese reward.

 

[poonmiester]

Girls have brains, if they get burnt once, they will avoid the same situation again in the future. It's like the lab mouse who avoids getting tasered and looks for ways to get the cheese reward.

And then I suppose that these girls" With Brains" are also the first one to bitch and whine when pooners write negative reviews of their attitude......

In my opinion ....doing business this way is not acting with Brains...... it's behaving simply with greed.... being selfish and not giving a shit about the guy that may have drove 30 or 45 mins to get there ...and waited another 30 or 45 mins before giving up....and leaving....
If double booking...and taking the first 1 that shows up at the door is SMART ..... well in my books...they are not worth spending my money on...no matter how hot they are.....

 

[SolidSnake]

I always ask for a timeslot only, never say anything else in my texts. Yet it took me 6 tries to be "vetted" and get an appointment with an indie SP popular on this board (not that young either.) She was always fully booked or not answering texts. I finally made the trip to downtown, only to have her cancelled on me. I never had such trouble booking anyone or anything in my whole life.

 

[MrBrown]

Now I could have posted a warning about the girl but I didn't. It really wouldn't have hurt her business because she was hot as hell and for every warning or bad review she'd have three good ones because she was a sex pot and could get away with disappointing an old fool like me. The other reason I decided not to post about the experience is a lot of the guys that come to Perb are just lurkers and don't contribute diddly squat or they are ready to attack or criticize my post because I didn't reveal a girls name.

I've been through that. If she's not an advertiser here there's no harm in sharing her name and last 4 digits to save others the trouble.
Many of us pooners go through the trouble of getting ready and driving to location and have no backups or enough time to find an alternate.
SPs should learn that if they pull a "no show" people will know about it.

 

[voodooking]

I agree that when going to see a new young SP that you should always a have a back up plan ready to go.
I used to never do this but i now keep another SP's number on hand in case the one I set an appointment with bails

It is becoming more common that the young SPs will flake on you when you get to their location and go silent because they double book or just don't give a fuck.

 

[sdw]

I agree that when going to see a new young SP that you should always a have a back up plan ready to go.
I used to never do this but i now keep another SP's number on hand in case the one I set an appointment with bails

It is becoming more common that the young SPs will flake on you when you get to their location and go silent because they double book or just don't give a fuck.

Or see you outside and go "ewww, he's old and ugly". I've stood at doors knowing full well that she's looking through the peep hole, trying to decide if she needs the money that badly.

 

[westwoody]

A lady I know does this. I am not a client but know her socially.
Her condo faces the visitor parking and she scopes them out before giving her buzz code.
Surprising how many insist they are in the visitor spots when she can see they are not LOL

 

[MonaBardot]

I'm fairly new to the Vancouver hobby scene. Contacted 4 sp's this past week. All under 23. They've either stopped responding to my texts, respond a day later, or never answer in the first place. It's like Plentyoffish.

I've found the older ones less flakey, but I want something young and fresh. Do I need to attend a game workshop to learn how to convince one of them to follow through? Just lol at being born male.

Not referring to us as "things" is a good place to start.

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

Phoenix Prize for best answer to a PQ*

Not referring to us as "things" is a good place to start.

DING DING DING! Miss Mona gets the Phoenix Prize in this thread; my fabulous duo partner Tanya gets the runner up prize.

Here's an idea guys. In your phone or text app, set up an auto message like : "Hello there...I'm looking for a GFE hour sometime today, & I've seen your ad. Are you available in the next while? If you can't reply in (x) minutes, please don't. Have a great day."

This might get you a lot more traction than any of the following:

1. U avail?
2. Location? Rates?
3. $?
4. How much
5. U free rn

You don't need game; you may require a brush up on communication etiquette. You're not asking your buddy if he's free to go for a beer & a blaze; you're also not renting a car. You are inviting a woman to get naked & intimate. Finesse it a little; it will pay off in spades.

xo
Ms E

*Pooner Question

Mona, PM me to claim your prize!

 

[voodooking]

Some Sps have told me that if they don't like what they see behind the peephole it is not happening. lol

Also some of the younger SPs can be high on drugs and just can't handle their bookings.

Or see you outside and go "ewww, he's old and ugly". I've stood at doors knowing full well that she's looking through the peep hole, trying to decide if she needs the money that badly.

 

[Claire Monet]

Not referring to us as "things" is a good place to start.

lol

No shows and flakiness happen on both sides... I had recently been communicating with a fellow from out of town over the course of a couple of weeks via email, we set a date and time, he confirmed in the morning then... radio silence. Not even a simple text or email to explain. Heaven forbid something horrible happened (like a sudden death in the family *ahem* or personal injury -- both of which have happened to me shortly before an appointment and which information I relayed to the clients...) but even days later (the appointment was set for last Friday) I still haven't heard anything. I like to give people the benefit of the doubt before angrily running to my computer to verbally puke all over them because really I don't have all the information about this guys circumstances, but by tomorrow if I still haven't heard from him (4 days grace seems reasonable to me) I will post his info in the blacklist section to warn other ladies that he could be a WOT NS.

Even just yesterday I had a short notice appointment booked with someone new and there was a family emergency... he was polite enough to send a simple text letting me know.

Tanya brought up the question of what the OP is texting which is important. One liners rarely receive a response from me and I'm going to wager I'm not alone here. Respectful communication is key and every lady has her own screening process.

If she isn't answering texts maybe try email. Many ladies such as myself don't always have their work phones turned on all the time. Also marathon texting with a stranger isn't fun (which is one reason I prefer emails, more can be conveyed without the back and forth that some text conversations can turn into). Read her site and get to know what method of communication she prefers. Like someone else said, too, don't bombard her with texts/emails, that could be off-putting for her having not even met you.

Double booking, imo, is a really poor way of running one's business. Just shows lack of respect and poor time management skills. Sorry to hear this has happened to some of you.

 

[badbadboy]

I'm fairly new to the Vancouver hobby scene. Contacted 4 sp's this past week. All under 23. They've either stopped responding to my texts, respond a day later, or never answer in the first place. It's like Plentyoffish.

I've found the older ones less flakey, but I want something young and fresh. Do I need to attend a game workshop to learn how to convince one of them to follow through? Just lol at being born male.

I am uncertain who or what type of SP you attempted contact with this past week.

If they are from a younger group, who may be higher volume, you may have run into an issue of wanting to book an appointment later vs the pooner who is readily available to the SP now.

I usually like to book a minimum of 24 or 48 hours in advance. Anytime I have attempted to prebook with younger / higher volume SP's; they have almost always texted back saying book with me on the day you want to see me. They don't like to keep track of some guy who contacted them for a date 2 days away.

Mona and Erica did get one aspect correct that referring to a young SP as "something" rarely wins you points with the SP's. Polite, succinct date requests are the best way to interact with a potential date in advance. That is not game its just being polite.

 

[Riza]

Almost once a day I get a text from a new client that goes like this:

1. Rates?>my answer: my normal rates and restrictions
2. Is your pussy tight?> Answer: Is your dick small?
3. Blocked

You might want to use a different strategy than this when booking :doh:

 

[EuroSZabina]

Almost once a day I get a text from a new client that goes like this:

1. Rates?>my answer: my normal rates and restrictions
2. Is your pussy tight?> Answer: Is your dick small?
3. Blocked

You might want to use a different strategy than this when booking :doh:

Awful ((

Keep forgetting what I'm missing out lol

 

[Elmore]

Some women want the most brief communication possible and others want you to complete an application and include a resume with references.

Many prefer booking by phone and that's my preference so I see those ladies.

I think many younger women prefer brief communication but brief doesn't have to be impolite.

 

[summerbreeze]

a lot of service providers avoid txt messages

think you will find a phone call works better

 

[SolidSnake]

Some women want the most brief communication possible and others want you to complete an application and include a resume with references.

As seen in this thread.

Both sides can have flakers and no-shows. Blacklisting works both ways too. I'm sure fellow Perbites appreciate warnings about bad booking experiences.