Do you consider making out as the most intimate thing you can do?

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Not all the SPs I'v seen kiss or DFK, and in those instances I simply press my lips against hers without opening the mouth. I consider DFK with things like tongue sucking and nibbles more intimate and hot than LFK so I still get a little disappointed when she says "not too much tongue please"

do you consider DFK more intimate than everything else ?
 

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Do you consider making out as the most intimate thing you can do?

Not all the SPs I'v seen kiss or DFK, and in those instances I simply press my lips against hers without opening the mouth. I consider DFK with things like tongue sucking and nibbles more intimate and hot than LFK so I still get a little disappointed when she says "not too much tongue please"

do you consider DFK more intimate than everything else ?
No. Of course it depends on your definition of "intimate", but I think things like BBBJ, BLS or FS are more intimate than kissing. I can see why someone might not want to swap spit but might be comfortable with CBJ. Obviously DFK is more intimate than LFK or closed-mouth kissing (is there an acronym for that?) though. We all have different preferences and comfort levels with different activities of course and it depends on the other person's hygiene and kissing technique.
 

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Yes, making out is intimate, very intimate. Again, it all depends on the individual.
In absence of DFK, there has to be atleast LFK for me. Just brief touching lips on lips is not good enough.

Without Kissing (and BBBJ it is a no go for me). Having said that only kissing is not part of make out. I find foreplay much more pleasurable than the ... final act itself.

T8E
 

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Kissing especially nice kissing is uber hot to me. Not sure what its called but the sucking of a lower lip is sexy to me.

Beyond that very sensual oral giving and receiving is probably as intimate as one can get with a female. Daty, and 69 are hot, period.

I tend to repeat with the SP's who also enjoy this type of intimacy. They are golden in my book ;)
 

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:thumb: Totally agree

Kissing especially nice kissing is uber hot to me. Not sure what its called but the sucking of a lower lip is sexy to me.

Beyond that very sensual oral giving and receiving is probably as intimate as one can get with a female. Daty, and 69 are hot, period.

I tend to repeat with the SP's who also enjoy this type of intimacy. They are golden in my book ;)
 

Lo-ki

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Check your closet..:)
Greek is the most intimate activity in my world. Can't even put a price on it...huge part of the reason why I no longer offer it professionally.
Spending time with Tanya is very intimate to me.
Greek excluded. :)
 
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No. Of course it depends on your definition of "intimate", but I think things like BBBJ, BLS or FS are more intimate than kissing. I can see why someone might not want to swap spit but might be comfortable with CBJ. Obviously DFK is more intimate than LFK or closed-mouth kissing (is there an acronym for that?) though. We all have different preferences and comfort levels with different activities of course and it depends on the other person's hygiene and kissing technique.
Balls don't have bad breath.! :) (well maybe stale ballsack smell but nothing like bad breath)

Kissing is very VERY intimate to begin with and I think there's a serious lack of understanding in people out there about what a proper oral hygiene regimen entails. They think if they chew a Certs or some Dentyne before they see somebody that will take care of it. Wrong. You have to brush, gargle, brush/scrape your tongue, floss daily and rinse with mouthwash.

I think DFK is actually the most intimate thing you can do and whenever I've started with a new lover I know instantly from the first kiss if the sex is going to be good or not. I'm sure a lot of women feel the same.
 

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When things go sour in a relationship, what's the first sexual activity women typically stop doing as they withdraw from intimacy? Blow jobs. I've heard that complaint from men over and over again.

I've experienced some incredibly intimate bodyslide massage moments with no kissing or sexual activity involved.

;)
 

hornygandalf

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Deep intimacy for me goes beyond the physical acts of DFK, DATY, FS and whatever other acronyms or terms you want to use.
It entails a connection on a spiritual and energy level that I have yet to experience with an SO (and may only come after repeated visits), and rarely experienced with anyone for that matter.
Damn, it is something I really crave for though...
 

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Greek is the most intimate activity in my world. Can't even put a price on it...huge part of the reason why I no longer offer it professionally.
Ah, definitely agreed, I wasn't even including Greek!

Balls don't have bad breath.! :)
How many balls have you smelled/tasted? ;)
 
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westcoast555

Ah, definitely agreed, I wasn't even including Greek!


How many balls have you smelled/tasted? ;)
Hahaha... you got me there. I have not had the pleasure of smelling/tasting balls... but I can't imagine anything that is worse than bad breath.
 

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I think that emotionally (intimacy really being about emotional closeness, IMO), the most intimate thing is revealing things about yourself that you believe someone close to you will judge you negatively about, and that you feel vulnerable about, and maybe that you believe they might leave the relationship with you as a result.

Sexually, I think it's definitely Greek. I think that from my perspective as a man, and I believe from a woman's perspective, this is something that has a lot of vulnerability for the woman, and for it to be done "well", I think the man must be very attuned to the woman. Both of these things make this very intimate.
 

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Forehead kisses for sure... nothing like a forehead kiss to affirm trust and respect
 

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Greek is the most intimate activity in my world. Can't even put a price on it...huge part of the reason why I no longer offer it professionally.
I can only imagine and would absolutely love going greek on you Miss Tanya :) I guy can always dream :)
 

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I always say the biggest intimacy is reserved for my SO...he gets to call me by my REAL NAME. He gets the person, not just the persona. As the saying goes, 'for better or worse, warts & all" or some such. The intimacy to be exactly who I am, as opposed to being a projection of who a visitor wishes to believe I am...
 
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