Looks: most so are just normal looking

[peacectryguy]

Plain, average, hot, pretty, whatever word you want to throw out there , it's all subjective and seldom will 2 people totally agree. As for me, I am more attracted to somewhat curvier ladies and the facial looks are not really all that important. It seems that a lot of providers don't post face pics anyway so I'm not sure how much weight the facial looks carry anyway.
Not sure if I've posted this before but rarely do I go straight to a providers gallery when looking at the webpage. I read the words on how she describes herself and really try to get a sense of what she is like. Intelligence, wit and a down to earth quality are huge turn-ons more so than looks, boobs, ass, etc. A GFE experience for me must be more realistic. This is not to say that a fine lady can't have it all going on. Several very beautiful women are also humble, kind and caring and extremely intelligent.

 

[nickcan]

I read the words on how she describes herself and really try to get a sense of what she is like. Intelligence, wit and a down to earth quality are huge turn-ons more so than looks, boobs, ass, etc..

Most of the girls on erslist arern't independent so you will see lots of similarities in description (written by someone else).
I guess you stick to girls who have their own webpage?

 

[nickcan]

My favorite little Dolly. I helped her when she was just getting started. She's really come a long way! Isn't she just the sweetest? And so pretty too...

She's like my ex-wife, knows she's pretty so not much effort into sex.
Haven't seen her when she was getting started and not arguing how far she has come.
A good thing for me otherwise I would have to see her at least once a week and overspend my pooning budget.

 

[Cami Parker]

I think sexy is more of an attitude, and an energy than a specific look. Sexy is something you can feel more than it's something you can see....

 

[peacectryguy]

Most of the girls on erslist arern't independent so you will see lots of similarities in description (written by someone else).
I guess you stick to girls who have their own webpage?

Yeah, nickcan, I prettty much do or at least, screen out the generic ads. I also rarely, if ever call or email a provider on first look at the ad, website or whatever. I really take my time before making that call to make sure it is indeed, what I am looking for.

 

[peacectryguy]

I think sexy is more of an attitude, and an energy than a specific look. Sexy is something you can feel more than it's something you can see....

I agree completely, Cami. Attitude is everything, imo. I've known all kinds of women( not necessarily sexual, some just friends or acquaintances) and it's all in how they present themselves. I've chatted on the internet with some ladies that come across as extremely sexy and yet I've never even seen a picture of them. Like I said earlier, intelligence and a great sense of humor turn me on more than looks. Not that I don't appreciate a great looker and a nice body( I am just a simple man, after all). lol

 

[sevenofnine]

I was at a hockey game last night,
oh my god there was a yummy mummy there, milf cougar, older but so am i,


To be honest I was quite dissappointed, when I started to see hookers, they don't really look all that great and don't take care of their body that much. There are some exceptions.
A few like seriously, pay for that, are you kidding me,

To be truthful I have not sampled a lot especially lately.
The sp I see, is older, but she fits into that deliscious catagory, not to everyone's taste for sure, simply because of her age,

But she is a good looking women.

Its not simply about looks, its about body touchable etc, some look great you get naked and her boobs are fake and not a good job, rough skin, bad hygiene, and not to be rude but an ugly sort of ho hum pussy.

The women I think is a complete package, looks body attitutde everything, we pay a lot,
I have been told I am critical, very critical, ,

But you know what a certain threshold is met, I am very forgiving.

 

[mounty]

I agree its not only looks that counts, its the attitude and the way you dress up and the way treat others make you more attractive.

 

[BORKO]

If all providers looked the same there wouldn't be variety for the men that prefer something other than the conventional 5 foot 10 brunette with DDs.

I have personally met "average looking women" who are hugely successful in this business because of the way they look and what they create during the time they spend with clients. Having worked for a popular agency, I've met a lot of girls some I would call stunning and some average, and my opinion would sometimes be different from that of a client.

I love women and can always find something physically attractive in them, but first thing I would look for? The things I like, such as long wavy hair down to the waist, blue eyes, full lips, toned legs and ass, and especially the way a woman moves her body. But of course not every woman looks like this. Every woman is beautiful in her own way, and there are men that will find her beautiful, and there will be some that will think she's average. Human nature.

I know right? I totally prefer the 5'8" blonde with Cs.

 

[Cami Parker]

It's true. I find myself to be far sexxier now, at 27 than I could have ever dreamed of being at 19 or 20.

I agree completely, Cami. Attitude is everything, imo. I've known all kinds of women( not necessarily sexual, some just friends or acquaintances) and it's all in how they present themselves. I've chatted on the internet with some ladies that come across as extremely sexy and yet I've never even seen a picture of them. Like I said earlier, intelligence and a great sense of humor turn me on more than looks. Not that I don't appreciate a great looker and a nice body( I am just a simple man, after all). lol

 

[EuroSZabina]

It's true. I find myself to be far sexxier now, at 27 than I could have ever dreamed of being at 19 or 20.

Lol, no kiddin

Just wait till you are my age, I'm szexier now when I was in my early thirties
As long as you take care of yourself)

 

[nickcan]

I enjoy sex with SP's who are 20-25 because their bodies are usually tighter, no wrinkles, softer skin and out of my league in real life.
Nowadays lots of girls want younger guys, check out online dating sites and many profiles where a 30 year old woman is looking for a guy who is 25-32.
Sucks to be a guy and want to find a woman to marry and have kids with if you are older than 35.

 

[masterblaster]

I used to see an SP in Calgary that was extremely good looking. So much so that she had her picture in Playboy before she got into the business.

 

[nickcan]

No way, at least where I am. You have to be kidding. If you are a guy older than 35, reasonably good looking and fit, don't swagger like someone older than you are,have an income stream, you got a fat target on you from the 25-35 set for sure. It is busy that way, and I personally have been keeping myself offline dating sites for now for personal reasons, but even then you meet women at parties, business, just out eating, etc. In fact the one issue is if you possibly are not looking to run right into a family track with them, that is one of the things many in that demo are hot to focus on, and you have to be careful about that.

In real life it's easier but I am talking online dating.
Girls can be picky because tons of guys message them.

 

[DiscreetOG]

There are many clichés that come to mind with respect to this topic..."Beauty is only skin deep"..."Beauty is in the eye of the beholder" etc.. Speaking for myself, it's never been about an SP's looks... I agree with Natasha that you can usually find something physically attractive in a woman, whether its her eyes, hair, mouth, laugh, etc.. But aside from that, does she make me feel at ease? Is she fun to be with? Is she laid back and easy going? Being an older guy, I find the body of an older, mature woman sexy. it's hard to explain, or to put into words why. I know you young guys are looking for tight, firm, wrinkle free....maybe because I'm no longer looking for that perfect female form, but rather a companion, someone who'll laugh at my corny jokes, and for that short period of time, make me the centre of her affections ( And, for that I'm thankful ).

 

[BrokeBastard]

Most of the time I go to see an SP I pass by a few civilians along the way and I end up being a bit disappointed when the door opens. Rarely do I find an SP that is very physically attractive. IMO the best looking girls do not do this type of work. I've lowered my expectations and realized not to find a stunner. As long as they are young, good attitude and service, and at least decent looking that will have to do. Good looks is a bonus.

 

[DiscreetOG]

You are exactly the type of client any woman would be happy to spend time with!

Thank You.

 

[Tugela]

Most SP's are just average to slightly above adverage looking. With the exception of a few exceptional good looking SP's most are just normal looking.

Is it an ego thing that reviewers describe them in a way that widely imply model looks? It's simply not true. Maybe to win favour with the SP.

I hear Sasha Carmelle is cream of the crop. Can anyone confirm?

The vast majority of models are "average looking" as well (go and look at model mayhem if you doubt), what makes them models is that the are modeling.

 

[Cami Parker]

That's ridiculous. You must be a bargain shopper

Most of the time I go to see an SP I pass by a few civilians along the way and I end up being a bit disappointed when the door opens. Rarely do I find an SP that is very physically attractive. IMO the best looking girls do not do this type of work. I've lowered my expectations and realized not to find a stunner. As long as they are young, good attitude and service, and at least decent looking that will have to do. Good looks is a bonus.

 

[Vanman1979]

Ok, let me put it this way. If you are expecting SP's to look as good as almost any of the girls we see in porn, you will be disappointed most of the time.