Wedding Band
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He has brought this up a few times. I think the OP is talking about bringing his ring to a session.
I gotta say, Punt is not a jewellry guy. No oh. Nah Uh. Just don't dig the feel and weight of it. Having said that, I have found that when I wore a band decades ago, a lot more women hit on me. First, I assumed that meant I was safe and predicatable. But having talked it through (over many tequilla shots), it seemed to boil down to female competitiveness. Yes! Men are not the only competitive overlords on the planet, although we are constantly reminded that it is one of our many masculine failings. We best each other in sports of any form whatsoever. If I can flip a maple leaf six metres and have the stem land in the neck of a Moosehead bottle, then my buds won't rest until they hit seven metres with a half-twist on the trajectory. But women? Holy cornhole batman! They are not satisfied until the they fuck the hottest guy on the planet, ipso-facto making them better than all other women who have fucked him before. (sorry, the truth is not always pretty; the dna speaks volumes though).
Once, in our twenties, my buds and I went out to the clubs on a lark. Jimbo found a craft store with fake gold wedding bands. We bought a gross, split the rings with a band-saw, and went out with ten gold rings each--one on each finger. It was sick, but we all got laid and had phone numbers for the next three months. WTF? We certainly weren't any safer or sexier, but something said 'I got my claws on this one, so you better bring some serious game to be worthy of his interest--if you get him, you are a slut 'cuz you sure aren't better than me...". Testosterone is predictable--Estrogen freaks me out!
Vive La Difference!
No, office gossip almost got me fired when I went back at the married creeps who hounded me about my personal life. I remember there was a cute Chinese girl at the office and they gossiped about her like it was high school. All of the gossip came from married people. Office gossip is a serious problem so bad, I never want to do office work again. That's not a problem now since I was laid off last year, a computer does my old job now. I am in the mist of trying to find a so called man's job.
I hear you about the office gossip. I would try to slip in just two minutes before shift started and did my best to be first out. It took months to learn everyone's names. Another reason why I prefer not to be in that environment either.
I have a beautiful Haida native ring that I used to wear on my right hand...I got endless gossip from all the bitches at work, so now I don't wear any jewelrly....not sure why you would make any judgements about anyone.....Just like the mafia gangsters wearing a crucifix.....It means nothing....just some portable wealth in case you need to bribe a border guard
So... do the SPs that see couples feel any different when the couples both have their wedding rings on?
i usually feel compassion for them. in some cases their wife is ill or they are going through a rough patch in their marriage....i respect that they have chosen a discreet method of finding the intimacy they need and don't want to hurt their spouse's feelings
i don't judge. you never know what a person's reasons are for buying our services. it could be as simple as being horny, but then could be much more complex also.....
love susie
i don't judge. you never know what a person's reasons are for buying our services. it could be as simple as being horny, but then could be much more complex also.....
love susie
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Thanks for thinking of me : )I've been wondering how your job search was going.
My severance is over this coming week, going to check out some jobs that have me moving and active, my days are over in a cubicle. I came home with the worse backaches in that stupid chair 8 hrs.
