I must have hit some sensitive spot. I think you're reading a whole lot that isn't there my friend.
Hey, Christmas is coming.
morning after pill the responsibility of the customer or escort?
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I must have hit some sensitive spot. I think you're reading a whole lot that isn't there my friend.
Hey, Christmas is coming.
Using your comment to make a general note!
When I started this business, I was working out of an incall location, and then I found that every corner of that house was equipped with sophisticated cameras, including bathrooms. The guy claimed it was mostly for the protection of the girls, in case of any robbery, rape, assault, and such. I decided to find another place only to find the new place was not much different either!
Some guys may screw up and walk thinking they are safe as they have used prepaid phones and fake email accounts and information, without thinking that their face could end up on 6 o’clock news if not their naked butt!! Just saying!
By the way, I was not referring to this case!
Just out of curiousity,could I go into a pharmacy and buy a morning after pill even though I don't have a uterus?
Yup, I just called Safeway and they said to "make sure your boyfriend gets here by 9pm" when I asked about "him" picking it up. I called anonymously.
I was kidding, but usually pharmaceutical products come in foil packaging that is clearly labelled and comes in a sealed box.
I haven't taken pills from strangers since I was at a rave!! LOL, good one PG!!
Cool,thanks for the info.I don't see the type of providers that I can picture trying to scam $40 out of me unnecessarily but if it did happen with a reputable provider I'm with and she tells me that she's not using any BC,I'd be willing to do what it takes to make it happen so it's good to know that option is there.
I don't think I want to have one in my pooning bag,though,it might look a bit too convenient like I might have planned it to happen.I'd imagine the pill would have an expiry date as well and how many pooners are going to remember to keep track of that?
Well, maybe not to carry one around with you. But not a bad thing to have done your research on where to pick up, what if any hassle is involved etc. Have been through the broke condom thing myself - at the time everyone is a little shocked and upset - good to have a plan (including follow-up testing) and some facts so everyone can get some sleep - eventually!I am sorry guys, but maybe you all should add the morning after pill to your pooning bags!
And, yeah, I don't think $40 is too much to shell out - call it your dues to humanity or whatever. A lot of women may not be on the pill (smokers etc) and may be using condoms as a primary birth control - if this shocks you, might be time for a chat with your regular.
well it seem .. that .. if a comdom breaks .. very few are worried about STD.
And those SPs that dont use birth control.. .. and see multable parters.. dont seem to be concerned about
a condom breaking.. and that they might get pregnat.. Who cares.. and has to plan for those accidents.... or even god forbid .. and just having BBFS
After all there is the morning after pill.. and they can get the guy to buy it
.even though he is not concerned about any if the before mentioned . risks..
No he is more concerned about the threat of having to pay child support.....which basiclly amounts to black mail
This question should not even come up when dealing with a profetional..escort..
Every one knows about safty.. and should act accordingly... Not leave it up to chance..
And those SPs that dont use birth control.. .. and see multable parters.. dont seem to be concerned about
a condom breaking.. and that they might get pregnat.. Who cares.. and has to plan for those accidents.... or even god forbid .. and just having BBFS
After all there is the morning after pill.. and they can get the guy to buy it
.even though he is not concerned about any if the before mentioned . risks..
No he is more concerned about the threat of having to pay child support.....which basiclly amounts to black mail
This question should not even come up when dealing with a profetional..escort..
Every one knows about safty.. and should act accordingly... Not leave it up to chance..
Yah that sort of struck me as odd too. STD's would be the #1 issue to me and that is why whenever a condom broke I always got checked asap.
Now if a SP is not on birth control using the pill or IUD etc in addition to condoms why would she already not have the Morning After Pill in her possession for her own safety? There seems to be a lot of emo about the pooner heading out to the pharmacy right away to spring for a $40 pill. IMHO it should already be in the SP's kit if she is concerned about accidentally getting pregnant. I am not posting this statement because I am cheap. Many SP's would say that I am generous so its not about the $40; its about the principle that SP's want to keep safe, want to be able to work and does not want to get pregnant from a client. At least I hope they are not motivated that way; it would be quite disturbing if one were thinking that way.
A number of years ago I had a condom break with a new client. I did not want to make a big deal but thank god I had the foresight to save his number.
I went to the clinic and when the results can back positive I was so upset, I called the client and I don't know if he was acting dumb, but he was like who is this? To which to responded something along the lines of what the heck, you fvk chicks without condoms everyday!?!? I was horrified and upset. That is the one and only time I ever needed treatment and it was horrible explaining it to my then bf. Just horrible.
I went to the clinic and when the results can back positive I was so upset, I called the client and I don't know if he was acting dumb, but he was like who is this? To which to responded something along the lines of what the heck, you fvk chicks without condoms everyday!?!? I was horrified and upset. That is the one and only time I ever needed treatment and it was horrible explaining it to my then bf. Just horrible.
This is the sanest thing written on this yet. Thanks for having the guts to say it!
I would do the same, buy it for her and make sure she takes it. Keep the receipt as a record of transaction.
Though I wonder what would actually happen if a paternity case were to come to the courts in this regard?
Yes, he fucked her but is he responsible for the child if it was a transaction? Would she have to take responsibility for the pregnancy because she might be deemed as a self-employed person responsible for her own occupational health and safety? Shouldn't she bear all risks of the enterprise as the owner of the business?
A lot of you may scoff at my suggestions, but I'll tell you one thing: if prostitution were legalized, these matters would be looked at seriously.
Pregnancy the main concern? Really? I would think disease would be the biggest concern. Like others have said, get to the clinic asap and let the other know if there is any reason to - nothing to report means nothing to say to each other. Each can simply go by themselves and get checked. No need to know each other beyond our aliases.
There is chivalry where THE MAN pays, opens doors, buys morning after pills, etc which is what many are saying ought to be done.
There is business where the seller of services takes on the responsibility for all things related to the transaction in the normal course of a transaction and foreseeable events. Condoms break at times simply because they break, good ones, bad ones, expensive ones, cheap ones, they all break. This is a risk we all take and the providers take this risk more than pooners, simply by volume (maybe not all but certainly the majority). In this case the service providing business would be responsible to repair the damage to themselves (morning after pill and check at the clinic) and pay the costs to the customer to have them put back in the same condition as prior to the transaction (pay for the check up at the clinic for the customer).
It seems to me that some providers want the chivalry and the distance the business transaction provides, but not the responsibility of business to care for themselves and their customers when an accident happens in the course of the business transaction.
Go ahead and harsh my mellow if you like but it comes down to what we do when we poon/provide. And ya, a guy can be chivalrous in a business transaction. In the instance as initially wrote I would pay the 40 no questions asked and race down to the clinic too.
I distinctly remember a condom breaking but I had no fear I would make her pregnant because I was pounding her ass. Thing is she was pushing her ass back and even though I was trying to pull out she sat right down on the big bad bone. When we did part there was blood. I fucking near died right there. My life flashed before me, you can imagine everyone you know, your family, loved ones, friends, relationships, all of it flashing before your eyes. Nothing was more important to me than getting tested and finding out the results. I cancelled business meetings, delayed my flight home, and got tested. My heart raced the whole time until I found out the good news. Clean! Safe! Alive!
So, to relieve my stress I went out on a 5 girls one after the next pooning night.
In short, 40 bucks. You shouldn't have to pay it but I can't think of a reason that would stop me from paying it if the chick didn't, at first opportunity, say she would pay for it.
There is chivalry where THE MAN pays, opens doors, buys morning after pills, etc which is what many are saying ought to be done.
There is business where the seller of services takes on the responsibility for all things related to the transaction in the normal course of a transaction and foreseeable events. Condoms break at times simply because they break, good ones, bad ones, expensive ones, cheap ones, they all break. This is a risk we all take and the providers take this risk more than pooners, simply by volume (maybe not all but certainly the majority). In this case the service providing business would be responsible to repair the damage to themselves (morning after pill and check at the clinic) and pay the costs to the customer to have them put back in the same condition as prior to the transaction (pay for the check up at the clinic for the customer).
It seems to me that some providers want the chivalry and the distance the business transaction provides, but not the responsibility of business to care for themselves and their customers when an accident happens in the course of the business transaction.
Go ahead and harsh my mellow if you like but it comes down to what we do when we poon/provide. And ya, a guy can be chivalrous in a business transaction. In the instance as initially wrote I would pay the 40 no questions asked and race down to the clinic too.
I distinctly remember a condom breaking but I had no fear I would make her pregnant because I was pounding her ass. Thing is she was pushing her ass back and even though I was trying to pull out she sat right down on the big bad bone. When we did part there was blood. I fucking near died right there. My life flashed before me, you can imagine everyone you know, your family, loved ones, friends, relationships, all of it flashing before your eyes. Nothing was more important to me than getting tested and finding out the results. I cancelled business meetings, delayed my flight home, and got tested. My heart raced the whole time until I found out the good news. Clean! Safe! Alive!
So, to relieve my stress I went out on a 5 girls one after the next pooning night.
In short, 40 bucks. You shouldn't have to pay it but I can't think of a reason that would stop me from paying it if the chick didn't, at first opportunity, say she would pay for it.
I'd say that several are likely concerned about STDs if a condom breaks. This leads smart folks going to get tested, if only "just to be sure".
Then there are those who would blow it off, and think, it'll never happen to me, and go on to their everyday.
But....
This OP's post initiating this thread is about who pays for a "morning-after" pill, the sole purpose of which is to prevent pregnancy.
Actually, that is not true. It depends on a bunch of things. For example, it loses effectiveness as body weight increases, and over a certain weight it doesn't work at all.
Just an observation, but, if an SP is not fully prepared for every eventuality when it comes to birth control, she is probably in the wrong business.
If for some reason she can't/won't take the pill and only uses condoms as a guard, you would think that any sensible SP would have something like a morning after pill on hand in case of a situation like the one the OP described. The fact that she wasn't prepared for that, and had a panic attack is disturbing. It means that she is probably unprepared for a lot of other things as well.
If for some reason she can't/won't take the pill and only uses condoms as a guard, you would think that any sensible SP would have something like a morning after pill on hand in case of a situation like the one the OP described. The fact that she wasn't prepared for that, and had a panic attack is disturbing. It means that she is probably unprepared for a lot of other things as well.
the crime in all this is the pharmas charging 40 bucks for the dang thing
sheesh... 45 minutes of poon can cost as little as $120 to $140 - the friggin' pill costs 30% of a piece of tail? :doh:
sheesh... 45 minutes of poon can cost as little as $120 to $140 - the friggin' pill costs 30% of a piece of tail? :doh:
