Are you realy open minded

[johnsmit]

It amazies me how so many people in this business. ...lady and the guys.. that are not very open minded.

i am talking about something totally different then open minded in a session
I am talking about open minded in what you accept in every day life.

Nudity seem to be a big one for so many people.. . One comment that is commonly heard.. even from escort.. .and that is when they see some one dressed so scimpy.. "They are just asking to be raped..". now if they are naked.. some men think that it is an open invitation
.Sorry it is not and it's the guys problem that he has no respect for others space or. expression...Nake does not mean i want to be f****.. and people have to have control over there inpulsess

But hereing girls that are escort say the same thing.. i find odd
My perspective.. is i can control my self.... i appreciat girls that are .confortable with their body.. and know that nake does not nessisarily excite all by it self .you need alittle more.. to insight sex
And rape has very little to do with how some one is dressed or not.. but .is about..being a social path..wanting to .. control and degrading people...

 

[Man in Submission]

You are probably making a good point but is difficult to follow with all the grammatical and spelling mistakes. I think you are saying just because a lady dresses sexy and seductive it doesn't mean it is an open invitation to grope and harass her, which I couldn't agree with you more. Unfortunately there are a lot of 'old-school' men out there who objectify women and view them as creatures for their amusement.

 

[bcneil]

So poorly written that I stopped a couple of lines in. If there is a red line under the word you just typed, 99% of the time it means it is spelled incorrectly.

I think its just being careless. Like inpulsess the n instead of m is a typo or spelling mistake, but ended with 2 s's is just carelessness. Conttoling, come on max, you know that word has an r somewhere.

But yeah, I agree, rape is wrong in all situations.

 

[johnsmit]

Sorry that I was so careless how I posted on this tread..

I had only the one point.. but being open minded is a lot more than just talking about the dress or nudity

Open-mindedness means acceptance of a lot of things society in general does not accept so readily.
Definitely escorting would be one of them and associating with escorts then your regular people seem to be what I enjoy more.

It its not that I agree with everything they do other store to people in this business but I still free she ate a little freedom of thought and actions don't hurt anybody.

Of course sometimes too much freedom and very little thought can be very dangerous to some people

 

[VanessaofBC]

Sorry that I was so careless how I posted on this tread..

I had only the one point.. but being open minded is a lot more than just talking about the dress or nudity

Open-mindedness means acceptance of a lot of things society in general does not accept so readily.
Definitely escorting would be one of them and associating with escorts then your regular people seem to be what I enjoy more.

It its not that I agree with everything they do other store to people in this business but I still free she ate a little freedom of thought and actions don't hurt anybody.

Of course sometimes too much freedom and very little thought can be very dangerous to some people

+1. Even myself included sometimes I am like "OMG, I cannot believe...." Then I have to take a minute to re adjust my thinking. I do think of my self as an open minded person. I have been through a lot in my days. Fought many personal battles, so I am reminded of a saying when I meet someone who's beliefs I do not share or whos story I do not understand and that is " Everyone if fighting their own battle". ANd i kinda just leave it at that.

And no offence to anyone but if you know he is a bad speller, then why read his posts? No one is forcing you too and he has apologized many times for his spelling.

 

[CLUB78]

Hi MiS,

I must strongly disagree here.
Old school men, "Real Men", are in control and accountable for their own actions and chauvinistic to the point of protecting women that insist that they can defend themselves against four men in a dark alley.
An old school man would offer a naked lady his coat to cover up if she wished.
I am old school and would never consider raping someone because of clothing or lack therof.

I can think of many names and terms for men that would confine, abuse and rape a woman, but old school is certainly not one of them.

I read this and my brain applauded. Raping a woman because of her clothes is like killing someone because they are wearing argyle socks, neither are a justification for a violent act.

 

[Man in Submission]

Hi MiS,

I must strongly disagree here.
Old school men, "Real Men", are in control and accountable for their own actions and chauvinistic to the point of protecting women that insist that they can defend themselves against four men in a dark alley.
An old school man would offer a naked lady his coat to cover up if she wished.
I am old school and would never consider raping someone because of clothing or lack therof.

I can think of many names and terms for men that would confine, abuse and rape a woman, but old school is certainly not one of them.

Yes, I hear what you are saying LIJ. Was just suggesting there are a lot of men brought up to believe they are the 'boss' and with a sense of entitlement where women are concerned. When they don't get what they want, they take it.
Old school was probably a nebulous and generalized choice of words there. I guess I am old school in some ways in that I like to open the car door for a lady friend, make sure she is seated first in a restaurant, etc. I was surrounded by women growing up, so needless to say I am very protective of them and actually way more comfortable around them than men.
I think we can agree any form of rape, violence, intimidating and threatening of women is flat out despicable.

 

[Man in Submission]

Hi MiS,

The bolded is also what I consider to be old school.
As for the controlling, entitled, rapist type I would go with Asshole, Bastard (new meaning, nothing to do with paternity), Cock, Douche, Egoist, FGHI….

Anyway, I hope you didn’t take my post too hard or as being directed at you.
It was not directed at you, just the way things that femnazis don’t like become Evil through misrepresentation. Things like being old school, old fashioned, a gentleman, a lot of things that are actually good and helpful in a society get wisted by myopic feminist agendas.

Speaking of which, I’m sure that there is a woman near you right now that needs to step all over a man, go find her buddy, and report back with details :eyebrows:

All good brother, and I will definitely have a full report on my next training (sub)mission with Goddess