Question for the SP's: session start / end and what makes you a clockwatcher?

[badbadboy]

IMHO it's the higher volume providers who need to keep to a schedule and therefore are mindful of the time. They will expect the exchange of funds once you are in the door and then motion you toward the shower. This is typical of touring SP's who may see more clients than the average local SP in one day as a way of covering all their expenses and maximizing their profit.

The lower volume providers that I tend to visit are not real sticklers about the time issue. A short get reacquainted conversation is pretty much off the clock and the appt really starts once I am out of the shower. I keep my showers short since I always shower before traveling to their incalls. I book longer sessions so it's usually me who asks what the time is so I can get back to my real job :nod:

 

[Cami Parker]

It's tough to say.... most of my appointments are at least 2 hours. Nobody comes to see me and showers alone, so yes that accompanied shower or bath will count. No, we are not going to do 2+ hours if straight penetration. We will usually chat a bit and enjoy a glass of wine together. Mental foreplay is big in my books. If we have a 4 hour date and go out to dinner yes it counts!!! Lol I would say it counts from our first physical interaction....? And no, time is not deducted unless my girlfriend (I share) needs the space shortly after, in which case I will a) inform him before hand so he can make a concentrated effort to be on time and b) apologize if he is late (things happen!) and offer a discount along with time reduction...
I don't have an alarm clock, but my music stops playing at the 5 minute warning mark. I think it's a more comfortable way to wind down a session. And yes, if course I'm more comfortable with my regulars!

 

[CorriGuy]

I don't have an alarm clock, but my music stops playing at the 5 minute warning mark. I think it's a more comfortable way to wind down a session.

That's actually a really good way to do the wind down to a session. It's one I'd appreciate. But what if I request different music

 

[kauffman]

I tend to watch the clock more closely when I am uncomfortable with the client. Either something specific they say, if they become pushy, or if they give me an uncomfortable "vibe", something I cant quite put my finger on but women should pay attention to. Instincts are a gift many of us have. With others I could easily go overtime. However I have encountered countless issues doing this. Clients begin to expect this and some take advantage of it and it's difficult to scale back . Also the lines get blurred regarding business and personal. Sometimes they do for both of us and I've found sticking to the times and the rules fairly strictly is important as this is a business. The nature of it makes it easy to forget how quickly things can become awkward if it is not treated as such

 

[kauffman]

IMHO it's the higher volume providers who need to keep to a schedule and therefore are mindful of the time. They will expect the exchange of funds once you are in the door and then motion you toward the shower. This is typical of touring SP's who may see more clients than the average local SP in one day as a way of covering all their expenses and maximizing their profit.

The lower volume providers that I tend to visit are not real sticklers about the time issue. A short get reacquainted conversation is pretty much off the clock and the appt really starts once I am out of the shower. I keep my showers short since I always shower before traveling to their incalls. I book longer sessions so it's usually me who asks what the time is so I can get back to my real job :nod:

When you say "so I can go back to my real job" does that mean that you are at a job when visiting an sp? are you like a "mystery shopper?"

 

[Peyton Anders]

If the pooner is late 5 or 10 minutes *but he calls ahead to let you know* - do you deduct the minutes from the session? No, not for 5-10 minutes. Life happens, parking is hard to find, whatever. Anything longer than 15 minutes late and I will take 5 mins off for every 5 minutes that pass (with notifying them, of course). I think being more than 15 minutes late for an hour long appointment is quite disrespectful, just my thoughts.

If the pooner has shower solo before (because you ask him or because he asks) - do you deduct the shower time from the session? Absolutely not. Donation is received before the shower, timer starts when they get out.

When you have good chemistry with the pooner or actually like him - how do you remind him the time is up? I set a timer because I would constantly forget to look at the clock. I don't generally mind if we go a little over time talking about random things, but usually I have classes or a pile of homework so I just mention that I have to get to studying and it's all gravy.

Does it make a difference for first visits vs repeats? No, I treat all my clients with the same amount of respect.

Do you put the timer ring when you actually reciprocally enjoy the session AND you don't have anything else coming up next? Yes. If you don't hold every client to the same standard of treatment every time it generally is how wires get crossed. I love seeing every one of them, but when you book for an hour, pay for an hour... I don't think it's a good idea to extend that hour into the 90 minute range just because you have nothing to do after.

 

[Cami Parker]

No problems! Well find it on my iPad and it will still end according to schedule! Or you can always have a certain song, knowing that when it gets to that point it's been 55 minutes, or watevr... I think an alarm is grating and "breaks the magic spell" so to speak...

That's actually a really good way to do the wind down to a session. It's one I'd appreciate. But what if I request different music

 

[VanessaofBC]

I have a biological clock i roughly know with in 5 minutes without looking my phone is always turned to silent in another room and i have no clocks in the room as I find them to be a distraction and I prefer out time together to be enjoyed with out the clock ticking right in your face. If a client is late for whatever reason no that is not taken out of the time booked. And neither is your shower time ever. There are never other appointment right away so time I am relaxed about. Some stay a bit longer and some pay for the hour and leave in half happy and content so in my mind it all evens out in the end. That's why I don't offer a 45 minute rate. As I just don't understand them. How can you define the difference in a session with in those 15 minutes. However never take kindness for granted. A few habitual late ones and and over stayers who I threatened to never see again unless they smartened up are dog housed with alarm timers.

I missed this comment before.

45 min is for Gentleman who need only one release, but like to spend a little extra time getting there or a little extra time chatting.

Hope that helps.

 

[Elmore]

I missed this comment before.

45 min is for Gentleman who need only one release, but like to spend a little extra time getting there or a little extra time chatting.

Hope that helps.

There are many women who offer safe services and guys who seek them (no DATY or kissing) which limits foreplay to touching and a CBJ. 1 hour seems excessive for those services since most ladies are not OK with 20 minute BJs nor do they want to have sex for 30 minutes straight. 30 minutes may seem rushed even for those services so sometimes 45 minutes is ideal.

 

[VanessaofBC]

There are many women who offer safe services and guys who seek them (no DATY or kissing) which limits foreplay to touching and a CBJ. 1 hour seems excessive for those services since most ladies are not OK with 20 minute BJs nor do they want to have sex for 30 minutes straight. 30 minutes may seem rushed even for those services so sometimes 45 minutes is ideal.

It is also industry standard for 30 min to be 1 shot, 60 minutes 2 shots. Not everyone needs or wants msog. So 45 min is a client's way of saying that they want to spend time with you but do not need msog.