Female orgasm secrets...keep them coming!
A woman's orgasm builds and needs to be coaxed out.Relaxed, especially if you are using toys. I am not gonna lie, I like a little porno on in the background. I prefer the ones that PRIVATE makes.
Usually I find I have orgasms easier with older men, someone who knows what they are doing. If my breasts a getting a lot of attention then its way more likely to happen. Usually a good combo of oral and digits will give me an orgasm or riding with my tits in your face. I usually find it harder to come when someone is fucking me really fast, although that is also nice and something a girl needs every once in awhile as well, orgasm or not.
Lately I have had the company of a gorgeous and hung younger man in my personal life and I have to say his gorgeousness and size is no comparison to his more mature and more robust counterparts who know what they are doing !
Refreshingly straight talk from BC_Babe who's beautifully in tune with her sexuality...love it. And hear, hear—she'd take an older man who knows what he's doing over a "hung younger man" anytime. Music to my ears!
One thing is certain: male-female relationships in this world would be in much better shape if more women experienced great orgasms during sex with men.
But a man can know pretty much everything about "the female orgasm" and yet fail miserably to make it happen with a particular woman. A man's orgasm is usually as reliable as clockwork, I guess because there's a biological necessity behind this—whereas a woman's orgasm is, for reproductive purposes, more or less an evolutionary frill.
Some women (a relatively small percentage, in my experience) are easily orgasmic. A larger percentage can't seem to have an orgasm during sex, no matter what. Most women can have orgasms with a male partner, but often require lots of patience and finesse.
So I've decided long ago, for a lady to get off during sex—and telling me how to help—is largely her own responsibility. If she can't come with my best efforts—even when I use that old standby, licking her clit while digitting her G-spot—I'm not going to let it make me feel inadequate as a lover.
The operative word here was used by Vannessa:
coaxing. Most women need to be coaxed to orgasm. And as I've found, a clear majority of women need to be coaxed to do almost anything sexually interesting.
A BC_Babe-calibre lady is clearly a precious rarity...and probably not many men could keep up with her.
