Question for the Women on what gives you the best orgasms?

[mimi]

I know a woman who can cum anytime, with anyone. I asked her the secret, cause sure as hell, I was having trouble.

The trick, she says, is just to block out the other person and focus on what you are feeling. Men can cum with anything, she says, haven't you noticed it doesn't matter, even if they think the girl is ugly or whatever, they still manage to cum?

I have a hard time blocking the other person and focusing on my own feelings. I am always third person in the room observing how my feelings are affecting his feelings...that is very distracting.

I am currently doing a small workshop of my own on fucking men while blocking them from my mind...I think I am getting the hang of it

 

[Cami Parker]

I'm that way... I can cum anywhere, anytime, with anyone as many times as I want. It's not exactly about blocking the other person out, but more about focusing on your body and what you're feeling. Not for the entire encounter, but just for those moments prior to your orgasm(s)

 

[VanessaofBC]

I'm that way... I can cum anywhere, anytime, with anyone as many times as I want. It's not exactly about blocking the other person out, but more about focusing on your body and what you're feeling. Not for the entire encounter, but just for those moments prior to your orgasm(s)

I think Cami is a sex addict!! And I mean that in a good way!!!!

 

[Elmore]

Vaginal orgasms seem a bit more elusive for women than clitoral orgasms.

But for the above average guys the CDS (cul-de-sac) orgasm is one that seems most pleasurable to many women. Jack hammering and pounding a womans cervix will get you a knee to the groin from most ladies though surprisingly some say they like it.

But if you're slow and gentle you can actually slip past the cervix into an area of the vagina that gives many women an amazing orgasm. It feels weird and different in a good way for the guy. I obviously don't know the physiology behind it but I had to look it up and that is basically what I gathered from it. Every woman is different and even lightly touching some ladys cervix might kill the mood but it's worth trying.

 

[sbill]

You BASTARD!!!

Somebody killed Kenny?

 

[Caramel]

My bottom line is that if you are unable to stimulate my mind chances are slim that you will be able to stimulate my body... However, lessons are available upon request! Lol

I totally agree!!! although hard and fast pounding that hits the right spot usually does it too lol...

 

[Caramel]

Vaginal orgasms seem a bit more elusive for women than clitoral orgasms.

But for the above average guys the CDS (cul-de-sac) orgasm is one that seems most pleasurable to many women. Jack hammering and pounding a womans cervix will get you a knee to the groin from most ladies though surprisingly some say they like it.

But if you're slow and gentle you can actually slip past the cervix into an area of the vagina that gives many women an amazing orgasm. It feels weird and different in a good way for the guy. I obviously don't know the physiology behind it but I had to look it up and that is basically what I gathered from it. Every woman is different and even lightly touching some ladys cervix might kill the mood but it's worth trying.

you are enormous, and thick as my upper arm lol...it would probably take a lot of tender loving care to find a good fit with the right woman

 

[Elmore]

you are enormous, and thick as my upper arm lol...it would probably take a lot of tender loving care to find a good fit with the right woman

In all fairness I think, for many women, most orgasms are ideally achieved with a more lengthy session. Lube allows for penetration but a woman is not really ready. She really should be fully aroused which is dependent on many factors including time to allow for full penetration. And those factors could never be achieved regardless of time spent if there is no compatibility and attraction (not only physical). Every woman is different but I am skeptical of claims that a woman orgasmed once, never mind 5 times, in a 30 minute session.

how far up is it in relation to the bellybutton?

I really have no idea but like the name implies, it is the end of the vagina when a woman is fully tented. I guess there are sensitive nerve endings there that don't often get stimulated unless the woman uses toys. Most think the cervix is the end and it can be uncomfortable to have pressure to the cervix so most don't go any deeper but I think it's one of those pleasure/pain type of situations where if someone is OK with some discomfort initially, then there is great pleasure.

 

[J.O. Henson]

Someone suggested to me that perhaps, similar to the class for woman to learn togive themselves an orgasm...how about a class for men to learn to GIVE orgasms!!

I'd love that class. Lots of out of class study I would hope.

 

[kauffman]

You know when I am with an SP, it gives me as much pleasure to give an orgasm as much as I receive one from her. It is also good to educate yourself on new experiences as I have always asked an SP what gives her the most orgasms in terms of DATY techniques, sexual positions etc.

So my question for the women is, what gives you the best orgasms?

There is nothing more attractive than brilliance, confidence, a guy who is comfortable alone, who isnt needy. A guy that has a style and as presence that are completely his own. Orgasm for me to be really good is about 95% psychological because I can get off super easily when I'm turned on. It doesnt matter how hot a guy is or what "skills" he may feel he has in bed. if he doesnt fascinate me, I can get off better on my own. And a person is either fascinating to me or s/he isnt. This is not something that you can learn or emulate. I can't even describe exactly what it is because all those in my past ( and there havent been many) that fit the bill each stand in a category of their own. Once the clothes are off and there is a clear mutual passion that is going to be sex, there's no stopping the vibrating explosion that reverberates through every cell of my body. At the point we touch it rarely matters what the two of us do... i'm pretty much there when I CANT't hold myself back from him/her any longer. THere are definetey things that I can say I "like" and things I dont like when it comes to sex but with regards to a screaming orgasm, all that goes out the window and pretty much anything goes when I meet this person.
THis is why having sex with anyone that doesnt possess this quality at this point in my life, doesnt interest me.