Preference for sp, newbi or an old hand at this.

[sevenofnine]

Just curious but who do you prefer to see in this, someone relatively new to this profession or an hold hand with a long history you can check. Maybe even looking at retirement or should retire.

I think both can have ups and downs, newbi's might be prone to drama and miscue's an older sp might be looking at burn out..

But a newer sp might have more energy want to please go that extra mile.
An older sp having years of experiance, I find they take the time to fiqure you out, the sessions are more tailor made to me.


Do you think an sp has her peak years then its all down hill from there.


Me personally I prefer long time pros'
I wonder if I am giving up something in freshness, maybe am I.


But there is a comfort level there. She knows how this is done, Im not exactly a newbi either,
It can be a wonderful amazing experiance, uninhibited experiance,


Any thoughts.

 

[VanessaofBC]

I find most newbie clients need at least an hour to get the best experience possible. Because I prefer to cater to gentlemen seeking shorter sessions, if they tell me straight up over the phone they are new/virgin/first timer, then I usually recommend one of my GFs in the biz to take care of them. I just do not want anybody to feel ripped off and I find nerves play a big part in a mans ability to perform. Nervousness helps no one!!!

So if you are new, try spending (at least) an hour with a lady who enjoys seeing first timers so they can chat with you, give you the time you need to relax & calm down (once you realize there ain't 20 cops ready to take you down )!

As you said, 7of9, I prefer experience(d clients), there is a certain comfort level that I have knowing this isn't their first time, either.

 

[johnsmit]

As a client . looking for an SP...it all depends what your looking for... Young or older... GFE...PSE
or just a quicky...sex only..

When it come to who will provide the best service/experiance.. yoi never know until you try them Some .. love sexuall adventures and are all ready very experianced .long before they ever become SP's....Others are not...
The older SP ..usually has seen it all and done it all.... and definetly .. know our type.. and know how to


please .. but allso may know how to manipulate us very well too....but that is common. and not just agd relivent.
You just ndver know... when you click ..you click... and it has very little to do with the SP e
xperiance.... but maybe does have to do with the clients experiance.. and their addidude and respect for wnomen...That makes a big differance how you get along with any one...SP or clients.

 

[badbadboy]

I used to stick with late 20's to 40's and found some awesome ladies in that age group. Lately I have seen a few younger ones like Blonde Brynn and Talisha Cruze who both turned out to be amazing.

It's a YMMV scenario for everyone

 

[johnsmit]

Of couse it me... .
and as usual i did not read my post befor posting... sorry..

But it is the smart phones fault...really..lol

 

[V1Rotate]

I prefer the newer ladies versus the hardened pros. I think the optimal time to see SP's is between their 2nd month to about their 4th or 5th.

My reasons - they're new, fresh, generally full of energy and aren't yet jaded by the industry. I'm not referring to age. The first month is too new, they're not quite experienced enough and need a little aging like wine. By month 2, they're more adept to what's required, but still have that unique non pro vibe that makes your time with them seem more special.

Anyone who's been doing this for a year or more is of less interest to me. Once you hit a year you've become a full on pro in my opinion and your experience is less personal and more along the lines of just another number.

This is not a slag to long time ladies or guys who prefer them. To each their own and thankfully we have choice!

 

[BORKO]

See the experienced ones, more professional and I think they'd be better at sex after all that practice.

If I wanted a special experience with emotional connections and what not.. that's what girlfriends are for.

 

[Caramel]

I prefer the newer ladies versus the hardened pros. I think the optimal time to see SP's is between their 2nd month to about their 4th or 5th.

My reasons - they're new, fresh, generally full of energy and aren't yet jaded by the industry. I'm not referring to age. The first month is too new, they're not quite experienced enough and need a little aging like wine. By month 2, they're more adept to what's required, but still have that unique non pro vibe that makes your time with them seem more special.

Anyone who's been doing this for a year or more is of less interest to me. Once you hit a year you've become a full on pro in my opinion and your experience is less personal and more along the lines of just another number.

This is not a slag to long time ladies or guys who prefer them. To each their own and thankfully we have choice!

I actually agree with you sir. Most ladies I've heard from say they were inexperienced and a little ignorant about services in the beginning, they weren't strict with restrictions and engaged in risky services because they didn't expect to be doing this for too long. But after a few years, its smart to wrap it up at all times because of the high number of encounters that go on, its more likely they could catch something. Also, a lot of newbie girls do get robbed or short changed if they forget or are coerced into not asking for money upfront all the time, so I guess they learn from those mistakes and after a few years, they always make sure business is handled first - no money, no honey...lol.

I'm not saying you are one of those pricks who disrespect SP's that way, but there are many of them out there...and sadly, the pooners don't see that side of the business so they can't really comprehend it. All of this abuse from customers can turn anyone jaded after a while, unless they have some thick skin. So yes, if I was a pooner I'd rather see a newbie untarnished SP...lol

Not saying all SP's are this way, but a good chunk of SP's fall into that category...its just the nature of the biz.`

IMHO, it's not so much a function of how long a SP has been in the game but rather has much more to do with why they first chose to enter the scene and why they choose to continue with it now. Becoming jaded is not necessarily a function of time. I have had great sessions with both relatively new SP's (thankyou Scarlet Sweet) as well as with seasoned veterans.

This I agree with too.

 

[newatit]

There are so many experiences. Cliches galore in the above writings, and correct or wrong depending upon the gal. The words old and hardened are not always accurate. A new gal who is not experienced can be fun and exciting if she is open minded and adventurous. An older gal who is open minded and adventurous can be even more fun because she knows how to guide the adventure. Older gals, younger gals, so much is in the attitude, the services and so on. I 've hung around with gals who won't kiss, or won't kiss much but the rest is great, had ones who kiss good but not great on the rest. Now I go to one gal for good sex, and a different one for predominately kissing sessions. You just need to find the match.

 

[PlayfulAlex]

There are so many experiences. Cliches galore in the above writings, and correct or wrong depending upon the gal. The words old and hardened are not always accurate. A new gal who is not experienced can be fun and exciting if she is open minded and adventurous. An older gal who is open minded and adventurous can be even more fun because she knows how to guide the adventure. Older gals, younger gals, so much is in the attitude, the services and so on. I 've hung around with gals who won't kiss, or won't kiss much but the rest is great, had ones who kiss good but not great on the rest. Now I go to one gal for good sex, and a different one for predominately kissing sessions. You just need to find the match.

I like how you think...

 

[V1Rotate]

See the experienced ones, more professional and I think they'd be better at sex after all that practice.

If I wanted a special experience with emotional connections and what not.. that's what girlfriends are for.

I wasn't looking for emotional connections.

I don't agree that having sex 500 times or 50000 times makes one better at it. I think it just makes one more susceptible to being set in their ways vs a willingness to explore new things the longer someones been doing it. There's a certain vibe the non-pro type give off that makes the whole experience more genuine and for me more fun - the most important part.

 

[BORKO]

I wasn't looking for emotional connections.

I don't agree that having sex 500 times or 50000 times makes one better at it. I think it just makes one more susceptible to being set in their ways vs a willingness to explore new things the longer someones been doing it. There's a certain vibe the non-pro type give off that makes the whole experience more genuine and for me more fun - the most important part.

There's no basis for that, who's to say that someone who suddenly starts hookering hasn't had sex with 5,000 people before she started sexing for money? And who is to say someone that has had sex with 5,000 people isn't more willing to try new things?

 

[V1Rotate]

There's no basis for that, who's to say that someone who suddenly starts hookering hasn't had sex with 5,000 people before she started sexing for money? And who is to say someone that has had sex with 5,000 people isn't more willing to try new things?

I'm responding purely based on your logic that the more sex one has the better they are at it, which we both know isn't necessarily true. In fact, probably not at all.

From a sex industry stand point I like the ones that haven't been doing this for too long and aren't for the lack of a better term 'career hookers'. Just as many people will prefer the latter for very different and also valid reasons.

 

[BORKO]

I'm responding purely based on your logic that the more sex one has the better they are at it, which we both know isn't necessarily true. In fact, probably not at all.

From a sex industry stand point I like the ones that haven't been doing this for too long and aren't for the lack of a better term 'career hookers'. Just as many people will prefer the latter for very different and also valid reasons.

Well it's pretty logically that the more often you do something the better you get at it isn't it?

 

[vancity_cowboy]

Well it's pretty logically that the more often you do something the better you get at it isn't it?

all depends on their attitude

some with bad attitude actually get worse at it because they can't stand clients in the first place and hate them more with every encounter - but they're trapped into this line of work

others welcome the encounters, and if they have the right attitude, strive to get better at it... to deliver a better experience to the client - i mean it's good for business right? and i'm sure there are some personal benefits too with the right clients

 

[VanessaofBC]

all depends on their attitude

some with bad attitude actually get worse at it because they can't stand clients in the first place and hate them more with every encounter - but they're trapped into this line of work

others welcome the encounters, and if they have the right attitude, strive to get better at it... to deliver a better experience to the client - i mean it's good for business right? and i'm sure there are some personal benefits too with the right clients

This is why if I am not in a good mood, i do not work. guys can tell right away.

 

[VanessaofBC]

So does that make you the first woman in history to admit to being moody?

The day you are in a bad mood is the day Mr. Perb reviewer walks through your door and you end up with a crap review.......just sayin'

 

[VanessaofBC]

Sorry to hear that Vanessa, I was thinking more of women in general denying that they ever can ever be moody by screaming in their most shrill voice. :fear:

Thanks LIJ, but that is why I do NOT work when I am in a bad mood. And I am not a screamer, well.....

 

[VanessaofBC]

If I had a bigger dick, I'd put that to the test

Don't worry, LIJ

 

[badbadboy]

This makes me feel sad for you, you must really seen the wrong women who clearly didn't have any love for the job, I've found myself to start having more fun, and giving a more human experience after the first year. The first year I was so concerned with reviews, not being a clock watcher, and how I looked at different angles. After that I realised I'm the only one who cares about those things and started having some real fun. No two appointments are *ever* the same. Sorry to hear that's not the norm.

I agree Missy 100%

Sometimes you just have to change it up and it doesn't matter if they are 10 - 12 year Pro's or 6 - 12 month Pro's.

I have been changing things up a bit for the past six months and broadened my horizons so to speak. I have met some incredibly sexy great providers. Some are new and some have been around for > 10 years. I have had my world rocked by fairly newbies and by very well established Pro's. It has changed my view on the hobby substantially. I believe it it is impossible to maintain a very high level of horniness if you see a person twice a week many times. Eventually you need to do a reality check on what you are paying and the level of service you are receiving.

You know what they say, "variety, is the spice of life".