It's really a weak argument you are making when you compare a fat person to a thin person who has an eating disorder and whose teeth are falling out, etc. Just because an obese person (450 lbs!) does not present any health problems is hardly any sign that this person is healthy. In fact, one look at the weight and any reasonable person would conclude that this person is very unhealthy and that there are present health problems and certainly future health problems as a result of all that excess fat.You are right I'm not saying the whole story . It is of course unhealthy to be 450 lb but they presented with no health condition what so ever . I have met under 130 lb woman with horrible health conditions related to an eating disorder . Teeth falling out , skin peeling hair loss eye sight loss, heart attack, depression , suicide . Fat is not the only issue people are unhealthy it's the disordered eating that kills . The only way out of these problems long term is changing a persons whole life and relationship with food . It's a complicated issue and it requires sensitivity .
The natural human body's body fat percentage - for women - on average and to be healthy is just under 30%.
A 450 lb woman is maybe 300% fat. How on earth could that be healthy no matter what she presents.
Lastly, it is a complicated issue. Yes, it requires sensitivity to deal with it in a constructive manner. I am not a doctor, so I don't have to deal with it constructively in the sense of helping the patient lose weight. I have the freedom to not be sensitive about it, and I don't take it for granted. But one thing for sure, being sensitive to the point of lying about the health effects of fat is destructive. Wistfully calling a fat person "rubinesque" and other cute words is not encouraging them to get on it and do something about it. It's a critical health issue as far as I'm concerned. If you are deeply overweight to the point of obesity, you need to do something about it right away and be brave and stop worrying about being emotionally hurt when your life is at stake.





