Firstly, let’s be honest here, when we speak of Asian immigration in Vancouver, we are speaking about Chinese. They are the predominant immigrant group in Vancouver.
I was asked to sit on an informal panel, to discuss immigration, values, culture, gentrification and their affect on neighbourhoods with regard to the church (my father is a deacon in the Anglican church). The church, like many other organized religions in Canada, has seen a decline in stewardship and is desperate to understand what is driving the change. The church board wanted to know if immigration and immigrant values are playing a part in the decline.
There were about 25 people from the surrounding neighbourhood and one expert. This expert was a sociologist from Shanghai. It was understood that he was there with the sole purpose of running the meeting, directing the flow of the conversation and keeping people on task.
He started by assessing the participants and appointing subgroups with leaders and one facilitator (me) to act as a go-between amongst the groups. With the formalities all settled, the expert stood up and said beaming, “my job is to educate you people on the Chinese and our culture, to help you understand the Chinese immigrant which will make you more accepting and understanding of us and by doing so we will come together as groups”.
With that, I stood up and told everybody to grab their things that we were done. Shocked he looked at me and said what are you doing? I told him that this is Canada and as Canadians, it is not our job to understand the immigrant, it is the immigrant’s job to understand us, our culture and values, and what makes us Canadian. These people do want to be Canadian do they not, or is their objective to be Chinese in New China?
I told him that his point-of-view was a uniquely Chinese immigrant point-of-view, and that Chinese have usurped the ‘Ugly American’.
He was stunned. He asked that the meeting be adjourned until the following day to assess my comments and quietly asked the Church board to have me removed from the panel.
I have drawn two conclusions about the immigrant Chinese;
• The ‘Ugly Chinese”, are so arrogant in their beliefs and perceptions about themselves that they have lost sight of that fact that they have asked to come here, that they are in fact, a guest in our house, yet are demanding to have our identity changed to suit them.
• The immigrant Chinese assume our kindness equates to weakness.