Question for the SP's? Why would an SP perform BBFS?

[Jethro Bodine]

Not to seem obsessed with this subject but my next question for the ladies is why would an SP perform BBFS?

I'm not necessarily talking about the stupid ones. Those who will do it to get a date or because some guy offers them some extra $ and they value their next snort of coke more than their life. :doh:
I'm talking about the ones who the guys say will, without even being asked or the guys's permission, try and slip it in uncovered.
I've had this happen once and quickley put a stop to it.
With all the risks of STD's or pregnancy, why?
I know guys claim it feels so much better without a rubber. Does it feel better for you as well?
I did have a GF many years ago who claimed to only orgasm when she felt that warm, cream being injected deep into her. Is that it?
Or do they actually hate us and hope they will give a pooner an STD?

Why?

 

[Pillowtalk]

The best person to ask is that sp who actually attempted it with you.

Or the one who asks if you want the condom on, or the one who says it is available for an extra 40 or anything else. What I never see ever is a guy come on here after mentioning that they get offered it saying that they had an actual conversation about why they were being offered, what is going through the sp's mind, and wtf she is up to by doing it.

Speculation by sps who don't do it, and by guys who are never offered it, etc etc, seem to be an endless circle of no answers.

 

[joesmithyeah]

Another bbfs thread Jethro? Wasn't one enough?
There are different reasons, but the most common is that people get carried away. The desire to knock up a person you are attracted to is an extremely potent instinct, and it can easily overwhelm your rational side. It's not like a person is thinking things through carefully. In the heat of the moment they are thinking (or not thinking) like a caveman (or woman). It's as simple as that, I think. I suppose there could also be cases where the person is a lunatic and is trying to spread disease intentionally. *shudder*

 

[Jethro Bodine]

I was asking the ladies because I was wondering if there is some kind of addtitional pleasure women experience when the guy is not wearing a condom. I know a lot of women don't orgasm from vaginal intercourse under any circumstances but just curious if a condom somehow diminshes their sensation or experience.

Since I'm not a woman I thought I'd ask for their input.

 

[Jethro Bodine]

Oh and by the way, for those of you who can't read, it was a question for the ladies/SP's not the pooners.
I really don't care what you guys have to say on the topic unless you have a vagina that's had a penis inserted into it.

Cheers

 

[Georgieboy69]

Oh and by the way, for those of you who can't read, it was a question for the ladies/SP's not the pooners.
I really don't care what you guys have to say on the topic unless you have a vagina that's had a penis inserted into it.

Cheers

I don't understand the confusion here ....Thread title...Question for the SP's? Why would an SP perform BBFS?

My gut feeling Jethro is that you may end up getting PM's on your question. I'm thinking not very many will come forward and actually speak to this on a public form...

 

[Jethro Bodine]

I don't know how to be much clearer here but you guys are not really getting my question. :doh:
It really doesn't matter if the lady is an SP or not. I'm simply asking the SP's becasue there are not any women on here who are not SP's.
My question is more along the lines of, is intercourse without a condom is more pleasureable for the lady?
While perhaps only a very small reason why some may offer BBFS, that's what I'm exploring here. Nothing else.

Cheers

 

[Soleil]

I cannot speak for other SPs
But for me, it's been so long
Since going condom free
I can't tell the difference
It all feels good to me
As far as those who allow it
My guess is their life is unhappy
Or their self-esteem is crappy
Either way anyone who engages
Is the part that enrages
Bare sex with someone you just met?
You deserve every disease you'll likely get!

 

[Porscha]

For me there is a HUGE difference between LATEX Condom and no condom. When I became an SP in my mid-30’s I was shocked at how much sensitivity was lost with a Latex Condum. It was still good, but much less sensation … actually way less if I’m to be honest. Could get boring. .. lol (sorry)

Then I started offering bbbj to some of my regular clients – and I was surprised how much sexier I felt and how moist my mouth was. Could deep throat and give a great sloppy bj – it was way more fun, and I could feel so much more than with Latex condoms. Just feeling the way you get rock hard, feel every vein, heat on my lips ... you get the picture ;-)

What I didn’t know, is that I have a Latex Sensitivity. According to my doctor, very common, and varies from making you dry, numbness, to irritating your sensitive parts. In my case increasing as I age.

So now I use NON-Latex Condoms. It’s all fun again. They cost a little more, but I can’t use anything else.

I worry that someday I won’t be able to wear my Latex dress anymore … but so far it’s still sexy & HOT!

Point is, I went “years” with less enjoyment, because I didn’t know the Latex was making me numb. Nothing to do with self-esteem, drugs, finances. So happy sex is fun again ;-) fun fun fun

 

[ezish12]

Feel like sharing my story. There was this one time I was with one of my regular sp, and she was on top and we were going at it over 5 min or so, very passionate sex, all of a sudden she got up and slipped off the cover. Man!!! I felt a cold flow within my body. I was so scared, worried and nervous. I agree with joesmithyeah, it's really hard to think it rationally during that time. A very little part of me was considering it. But I was so scared that I lost the erection, so there was no chance, and I know I wouldn't have let her do it without it, no way. All these happened so quick, like less than 10 sec. Somehow I felt during that moment the time slowed down, like right before an car accident. Then, she grabbed another cover. She wasn't trying to pull anything on me. It's just I never had anyone changing the cover while we are at it. After that I told her, please give me some warning before you want to change it. It took her sometime to calm me down and get me there again to go at it. man!! even writing this gets my heart beat going fast. anyway... now u know.

 

[Jethro Bodine]

Thanks Ladies! :thumb:

Be careful Porscha. A latex allergy can go from mild to life threatening without warning. I had a dentist friend who became Latex sensitive. Nothing too serious but he would get itchy or even a bit stuffed up. A Benadryl would usually clear things up. One day without warning he had a severe life threatening anaphylactic reaction. They said he was lucky it wasn't a day the fire dept. and ambulance wern't busy as another 10 minutes and he would have been a goner. The irony was he had jsut spent thousands of dollars getting rid of all the latex in his office and unintentionally an old box of latex gloves got left out in the room he was working in.

 

[Porscha]

Thanks Ladies! :thumb:

Be careful Porscha. A latex allergy can go from mild to life threatening without warning. I had a dentist friend who became Latex sensitive. Nothing too serious but he would get itchy or even a bit stuffed up. A Benadryl would usually clear things up. One day without warning he had a severe life threatening anaphylactic reaction. They said he was lucky it wasn't a day the fire dept. and ambulance wern't busy as another 10 minutes and he would have been a goner. The irony was he had jsut spent thousands of dollars getting rid of all the latex in his office and unintentionally an old box of latex gloves got left out in the room he was working in.

wow ... that's quite the story. Thanks for caring and the advice. xoxox Porscha

 

[Marius]

Never. A date with an SP is a business transaction. If you trust your girlfriend/boyfriend/fiancee/wife, etc. by all means, bang the hell out of them, bareback. If you partake in this hobby. Wrap it. Please.

 

[ladyluck]

I'm with Soleil. It's been at least 11 years of using condoms, including my last b/f of 6 years. I did notice it felt different at first, but just became accustomed to it.
I have to use extra lube at times to make sure zero breakage. No age isn't drying me up either, lol.

 

[Master69]

I'm waiting for someone to invent the condom equivalent of those US airport toilet seat protectors. You know, you just press a button and the latex covering gets shifted replacing used material with a fresh covering. It would really come in handy for 3somes and orgies.