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How many people don't like sex?

the old maxx50

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We keep hereing from the girls how much they like sex and can't get enough.. well that is not the case for every women .. it obviously is not for the SO of many of the guys that see escorts .. and it is no the case for every SP either ..

In fact i am friends with one SP that really does not like sex that much .. She seem to be eager to do blow jobs .. But FS . as she says her self "Wam Bam thank you mam" is what she likes , short and fast .. If she cums then the guy better finish too .....
Her privet parts are way too sensitive for any touching so it just is not enjoyable for her ... and yet she has work in the sex trade for many years and was well reviewed and very busy at one time . I guess partly because she was a young and a spinner :) She still is and after knowing her for a while .. I enjoyed her company ... I helped her out .. now i see her some time as a client / friend But I have to admit she is not what i usually would go for .. I can't do any of the regular thing that i like to do . not much breast play. , no daty , no kissing ... Just long BJ and FS until she cums and then i better be ready to cum too LOL.. But I like being with her because it is just comfortable and not like a regular SPE( escort experience )

I guess in some ways i am in this SO SP relationship that .. will have me still seeing other Escorts .. because of what i don;t get from another.
I think I understand you guys now that go see escorts because your SO just is not that comfortable with sex .. Now I still think that they are missing out on a lot of fun ..and wonder whay they don't want to find out what is wrong and try to correct it .. I guess in the case of and SP that does not like sex that much it really does not matter as long as they find guys that don't want much just a good BJ and a quick f**k ..
 
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hang5507

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I am just getting to old!

I am totally failing to see the point here.:confused:

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Sex drives vary greatly from person to person, but I think the idea that men only hire escorts because their SO's don't enjoy sex is a bit of a myth. If a relationship suffers lack of communication/connection/attraction couples' aren't likely to even talk about their sexual desires, let alone preform them. I think its natural to like variety, and to thrill seek from time to time, even with a highly sexed partner. When I worked as an escort I rarely enjoyed the sex, but found ways to compensate for that in my personal life :)
 

violetblake

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Like Miss Jasmine said, sex drives vary for each person. Society teaches us from day one that men are supposed to be sex-crazed animals, and women should not enjoy any kind of sex that isn't with a monogamous bf/husband (in other words, they should only enjoy sex because it gives their SO pleasure). This, of course, is ridiculous. Some men hate sex, some women can't get enough. It may appear that many women don't like sex, but I can guarantee that if they were raised in a world that didn't pressure them to be this way you'd have a lot more women being more open sexually. I think things are getting better however, and hopefully sometime soon we can be raised in a society that lets us choose our own sexuality.
 

lenny

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IME, and many others, the young girls like violetblake don't have much of a sex drive, nevermind being nymphos, and the better ones for sex are latter 20's and 30-somethings in LOS. Of course middle aged [40 +] females are well known to be more into love making. It's somewhat frustrating since i wanna do the bad thing with the 20 YO's all night long. Oh well, so shall it be in paradise. I can't wait.
 

steverino

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I find it best when there is another person involved.
 

violetblake

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IME, and many others, the young girls like violetblake don't have much of a sex drive, nevermind being nymphos, and the better ones for sex are latter 20's and 30-somethings in LOS. Of course middle aged [40 +] females are well known to be more into love making. It's somewhat frustrating since i wanna do the bad thing with the 20 YO's all night long. Oh well, so shall it be in paradise. I can't wait.
I think age can affect an individual's libido, but it's different for each person so across the board it's hard to say which age group is more sexual. I'm 21 and I've had a high sex drive pretty much since the moment I lost my virginity, lol. That was in my mid-teens and since then my libido has always stayed strong. That's just me though, although a lot of my female friends are the same way. So it really just comes down to the person, but don't worry, there are plenty of us young gals who have a healthy enjoyment of sex ;)
 

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We keep hereing from the girls how much they like sex and can't get enough.. well that is not the case for every women .. it obviously is not for the SO of many of the guys that see escorts .. and it is no the case for every SP either ..

In fact i am friends with one SP that really does not like sex that much .. She seem to be eager to do blow jobs .. But FS . as she says her self "Wam Bam thank you mam" is what she likes , short and fast .. If she cums then the guy better finish too .....
Her privet parts are way too sensitive for any touching so it just is not enjoyable for her ... and yet she has work in the sex trade for many years and was well reviewed and very busy at one time . I guess partly because she was a young and a spinner :) She still is and after knowing her for a while .. I enjoyed her company ... I helped her out .. now i see her some time as a client / friend But I have to admit she is not what i usually would go for .. I can't do any of the regular thing that i like to do . not much breast play. , no daty , no kissing ... Just long BJ and FS until she cums and then i better be ready to cum too LOL.. But I like being with her because it is just comfortable and not like a regular SPE( escort experience )

I guess in some ways i am in this SO SP relationship that .. will have me still seeing other Escorts .. because of what i don;t get from another.
I think I understand you guys now that go see escorts because your SO just is not that comfortable with sex .. Now I still think that they are missing out on a lot of fun ..and wonder whay they don't want to find out what is wrong and try to correct it .. I guess in the case of and SP that does not like sex that much it really does not matter as long as they find guys that don't want much just a good BJ and a quick f**k ..

Just sounds like she's tired of having sex with clients, wants them to get it over with ASAP. That's why she's saying her privates are too sensitive - if she was into it with who she's having sex with, she wouldn't feel quite that way. There are very few SP's who enjoy anonymous sex with client after client she doesn't know. What girl really would over a long period? After all, an SP is there to service the guy, he's not there to take care of her pleasure - and girls need more care in that department than men in order to enjoy the sex.

Forget this business that she doesn't enjoy sex, she just doesn't enjoy sex with clients!
 

the old maxx50

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Actually in this case it is not just clients .She take quite openly to me about how she feels about sex ,, even before i started seeing So i knew what i was getting in too All though i though I could change her mind and be able to partake of more But no this is how she is ... and has been for many years ...
 

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As a man, you would think that at 40 years old, sex isn't a big thing. I can say honestly, I am every bit as horny as I used to be when I was 19. I am however married and only want sex wit her once every two months with the wife. My wife is considered a very attractive woman but I need variety. I want sex everyday from woman I see jogging or walking around Kits or downtown. I hate admitting this but it is what it is.
 

laurel love

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Absolutely!

It is cruel to expect ones spouse to be faithful when they are being starved of sex! Once every two months is not enough.

But, it is the same for women. Sometimes they still long for the skin and muscle of a younger man. I have many married women friends who have a little going on the side. It makes them feel desirable!

They look incredibly chaste in person and do such mundane things as care for their children and hold down boring jobs. They just need that little bit of 'extra' to take them back to their horny teen years!

Who can blame them? If they keep it discrete then what is the problem?

I have actually met unfaithful men who do not like the idea of their wives getting a little extra desert on the side...even if the husband is not banging them.

Sad eh? We should be honest about sex and not screw each other around! I mean not in a bad way!
 
But, it is the same for women. Sometimes they still long for the skin and muscle of a younger man. I have many married women friends who have a little going on the side. It makes them feel desirable!

They look incredibly chaste in person and do such mundane things as care for their children and hold down boring jobs. They just need that little bit of 'extra' to take them back to their horny teen years!

Who can blame them? If they keep it discrete then what is the problem?
Where were these women 40 years ago. When I was a teen,
I was walking (well trying to walk) with a raging erection so hard, that a cat couldn't
scratch..I could have used a Mrs. Robinson back then and she could have used me:nod:
 
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Where were these women 40 years ago. When I was a teen,
I was walking (well trying to walk) with a raging erection so hard, that a cat couldn't
scratch..I could have used a Mrs. Robinson back then and she could have used me:nod:
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I had a Mrs. Robinson when I was younger, she was 2x my age and by current standards would have been scandalous but for me it was exciting and lasted about 6 months until she moved to another province for work, my parents always wondred why I was sooo happy during that time.:eyebrows:
 

the old maxx50

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I on many occasions get a hard on just talking to my friend on the phone or texting .. and it not tat we are talking about any thing sexing .. I just am aroused by her presents ... Getting one when i am driving and then having to get out of the truck with this protrusion in my pants has me doing a little adjusting of the jewels and scepter when i am existing lol Honestly because i want sex in my life at 57 it makes life a lot more enjoyable ..

I am happy i am not married .. I would some one get married and then not be enjoy sex with there SO regularly .
 

sevenofnine

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When I was younger I think sex was a hormone thing, nature being a guy and the need to reproduce.

The older I get sex to me is more intellectual emotional, hard to explain.
But sex was such a physical hunger when I was younger, now its just emotional very comfortable to be with a women, and have a release or two, nothing quite like it.

I was reading some where that there is a condition a women can get where its painful to have sex. To simply be touched its painful or uncomfortable, in there intimate parts.
Certainly I have been with different women, and the physical sensations are different and some have not been that enjoyable. This in part can explain it I suppose.
And also for long periods of my life, I have went without sex. I was still horny but not having sex, my father was very violent and abusive. The need for my own physical space out weighed any need I had for physical contact with another person.
I broke my leg once, I wouldn't let anyone help me. I wouldn't let any one touch me to help me.
People just looked on in amazement as I struggled to walk with a broken leg and I insisted, that I was fine. In the hospital for a different reason, the nurses wanted to rub me down give me a massage, and there was just no way,
my point is sex is complicated.
You should not assume some ones needs and feelings are like your own.
 

laurel love

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I like sex just fine. But I'm surprised some of the girls on here can still walk since they get fucked every day and twice on Sundays. Their mom's have to be impressed. Just saying. :)
Ha Ha Ha Ha Ha :) :) :) :)

Bend over little boy....Mommy's gonna give you what you deserve, you lippy thing, you! (ps...Sunday is for regular sex!)
 
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