why do guys in this hobby think there not good enough for hot chicks

[sevenofnine]

Why do guys in this hobby continually think there not good enough to get hot chicks


I guess myself I have been fortunate enough that my jobs have allowed me to work with some very special women.

When I was just a young punk ass kid, I had this job on weekends where I was the only guy in a building full of women
I fell in love with a gorgeous gorgeous older lady she was married unfortunately but we were close friends.


There was lots of other women in this building but my head my heart my body was hers. I was friends with a lot of other women but I was deeply in love with this one in particular, she I guess kind of ruined it for me from playing the field.

But I had offers to just fuck when I was sixteen eighteen years old.

I was messed up ok, it was about the time of my fathers first conviction for sex offences.

I really wasn't comfortable just playing the field and fooling around.
But to say I never had a chance would be incorrect, women liked me and I liked women.

Fast forward I got married still had a job that brought me in contact with a lot of beautiful beautiful women.

Im not saying at all I was a mover and a shaker but still girls were there, made themselves available to me, I kind of found it all amusing I had a kid and another one on the way
And this hot girl would check me out or whatever
A lot of them had a five second rule, if I didn't say hi or something to them in five seconds they would leave me in a huff,

And I just kind of laughed five seconds and im toast
Other girls I talked to whatever but I was faithful doing the family thing right.

Now im middle age mid fifties, me and my wife are not having sex any more,
But I still have this itch
And I had to make a choice,
There are women at work I surly could have an affair with, there are even waitresses and strippers out there, who I have got on with over the years.

But I really can't lie to someone and tell them yeah im leaving my wife or im not married and string them along.
And my wife, well twenty some years two kids, do I really want to blow it all up.

If she left me I would say good luck, but I can't be the one to walk
I can't hurt her and our kids.

But I can't go the rest of my life not having sex either,
So an escort seemed the best choice,
I have always liked women love women as a matter of fact and got on with them quite well.
But at times I have just be screwed up because I have carried this burden around with me my father is a pedophile and well I was a newly wed with kids and didn't think it was proper to screw around,,

Still really don't to be honest with you,
But be faithful to your wife or never have sex again tough fucking choice
So im an ass hole I sleep with hookers.
Its not perfect but well life is not perfect,

But even with hookers,
The hottest dam hooker ever in my mind any way, used to ask me to spend the night, and lets get together on the weekend and just walk our dogs.
I really don't get
Where guys are saying there not good enough to bed hot chicks.
Hey I grant you, this lady this hooker she wouldn’t even notice me in a bar,
She has a wild side and a saucy side, and to be honest that’s not me, I could never keep up with her.
The lady I see now we get along fantastic, but again, I have no illusions that if she wanted to settle down she would pick me,
But escorts have there own personality ok, that’s why there escorts,
But every single women at work kind of looks at me and some of them well it has gotten pretty close,
So I really don't get why guys keep bringing that out they could never attract the right girl, or that class of girl.

And honestly im nobody im not rich, or good looking or have this glamour's job or anything im not even that good at pick up lines or whatever, im not really anything, just a nobody,

But god there are tons and tons of women out there,
To say you can't pick them up or pick up the class of women you want.
I meet women all the time, I cycle and jog, and fuck I ran into this hot thing on the bike path
I joke it’s the only reason why I jog, the women on the pathways
Runners women runners are so fucking hot.
But I stick with my escort,
I pay her it’s a sure deal,
I don't have to remember her birthday, she is not going to cry why didn't I phone her or where was I, I don't have to lie to her and tell her oh no im not married or yeah im leaving my wife.

 

[FunSugarDaddy]

For me personally, paying for sex, is a much preferred choice between

(a) never having sex again, or

(b) going behind my wife's back and having an affair.

I'm not sure if she'd agree with this sentiment, but that's where things stand at the moment.

As for the type of woman I could get with $$ involved, I honestly don't know because I've never actually tried seducing anyone while being married.

I do know that for whatever reason, young attractive women seen to smile at me more than they use to..but not sure why, perhaps it's because I've had sex with lots of young SP's and you carry a sense of confidence from that, which they pick up on.

 

[lenny]

Why do guys in this hobby continually think there not good enough to get hot chicks

I could get them, but i have a preference for not working so long & hard at being bored to death.

After more than 2 minutes of chit chat i'm ready to pull all my hair out & dive off of Lion's Gate.

It's much easier, cheaper, and funner to pay for them to do anything i want, now, instead.

Time = $

 

[emacky]

For me, I think I started this hobby during a darker period of my life. I been single for a few years, haven't gotten laid in a while. Getting pretty fat and just completely out of the game.

Now that I'm back in shape and more confident, I don't feel I need this hobby as much as I use to. Still love to bang hot chicks and avoid the hassle of the whole dating and paying months for it later. But nowadays, it's more so the craving and ez access.

Plus sometimes life is too busy to go and meet girls. You work, you come home and cook and work out. Not a lot of time unless you make the time and sacrifice.

I work at an environment full of married people and I'm against dating in the office. So unless you go out there to find a girl. This is probably a ez alternative. This is just how I feel.

 

[COLONEL ANGUS]

It does not matter if I think I am good
enough or not to bed hot women.....
I have what is known as "the kavorka".
It is a curse. It is not the fact that I need
to pay to have sex with beautiful women. I am actually
paying them to leave after I have my way with them

 

[adon100]

For me personally, paying for sex, is a much preferred choice between

(a) never having sex again, or

(b) going behind my wife's back and having an affair.

I'm not sure if she'd agree with this sentiment, but that's where things stand at the moment.

As for the type of woman I could get with $$ involved, I honestly don't know because I've never actually tried seducing anyone while being married.

I do know that for whatever reason, young attractive women seen to smile at me more than they use to..but not sure why, perhaps it's because I've had sex with lots of young SP's and you carry a sense of confidence from that, which they pick up on.

You said it right. Affair might bring in serious emotional complications. Your choice is wise. Same here

 

[Bob Loblaw]

I'm glad meeting women and picking them up is so easy for you. For some it's not so easy. Call it a lack of self-confidence or a lack of game or whatever but what it comes down to is a skill. Some people have that skill, others don't. Now the typical response to this (from the people that have the skills) is "well just fucking learn it!". My answer to that is why don't you learn to dunk a basketball, or play guitar, or do multi-variable calculus, or learn whatever skill you're not good at? Some people are good at those things and others, no matter how much they try will never be. Having the game to pick up women....not a skill I have been able to learn and probably never will.

 

[vancity_cowboy]

Having the game to pick up women....not a skill I have been able to learn and probably never will.

amen brother... that's why i'm on this board

 

[HankQuinlan]

Because some of us are giant, ugly, socially awkward types with few skills and low self-esteem...it can't be just me, can it?

 

[emacky]

Judging from the posts in this thread, maybe low self esteem has something to do with why some guys in these hobby are not good enough for hot young chicks.

But generally speaking, guys over 40 should not be chasing after women in their early
20s. So I tend to think that the OP is referring to younger men not feeling good enough for the young women.

There are some average looking escorts who wear nice lingerie, a lot of makeup and charge 300/hr for sex...and $100/hr for companionship. They look like your wives or girlfriends first thing in the morning. It's not always about being hot.

man this thread is making me feel sad. I'm in my 20's and I hear these responses. Maybe it's time I leave now while I still can.

 

[Papa Chongo]

I would echo the comments of some of the other men,

I am good enough to have sex with a Hot Woman, and I do...the wife is smokin...

But I choose to do this instead of a having an affair, it is easier to justify and there is little danger of RABBIT STEW when paying for sex...besides it's a sure thing, you can easily drop 2-3 bills ona date, why bother when the outcome is not gauranteed..

 

[emacky]

It's brutal to hear guys complaining about being fat or old...and yet men pay women well into their 40s, or BBWs for sex.

well i mean there are reasons why they do what they do, but still kinda makes you think? I'm young now, I do it cuz I don't wanna invest time right now, but what a few years from now?

 

[InnocentBoy]

Problem with paying for sex is that most of the sp's out there arn't that hot and if they are they arn't really that into sex. I'm sure there are exceptions but you'd have to go thru alot of them. At least you dont waste time taking them out on a few dates to discover they are terrible in bed.

 

[lenny]

Problem with paying for sex is that most of the sp's out there arn't that hot and if they are they arn't really that into sex. I'm sure there are exceptions but you'd have to go thru alot of them. At least you dont waste time taking them out on a few dates to discover they are terrible in bed.

Alternately, as regards SP's, reviews can be helpful to find what one prefers.

 

[laurel love]

But, Gary, the fact is: this is an entertainment industry. People have many different preferences when they are seeking to be entertained. I have a personal revulsion toward Reality TV, but, lots of people enjoy this form of entertainment.

In this industry, you, obviously, prefer slim women under 40. However, there are many men who prefer women a bit older and there are lots of men who dislike skinny women.

I have a brother who will not date a woman under 250 pounds. He loves flesh. He says BBW are more passionate and tighter and creamier than skinny women, and, he doesn't bruise himself on the bony hips when he is banging away. I think he once used a water bed in his descriptions. He is a graphic fellow. If he saw a hot BBW advertising he would pay all right! You Betcha!

I am just entering my 40s and your statement is like a death sentence. I am having so much fun in life, and, will sex end when I hit 45 because I am no longer worthy of being fucked? I am hornier and more into sex now than I ever was in my twenties.

I also prefer older gents myself because they have learned to slow down and have fun instead of racing to the finish line. But, some escorts have a cap on age. I think they are missing out on some very good sex, but, that is their preference and what they are comfortable with.

Your statement "...nothing wrong with your preference. Most men seek women as you described." Has a very authoritative sound to it. Oddly, you sound like a minister speaking to the flock and it makes it seem like men who seek any other type of women are those that scuttle between the cracks of life.

The best thing about men who are less than perfect is that they make way better fucking partners than men who think they are perfect and cannot relax and just have fun. So, any of you BBM and fellows with horn rimmed glasses and bald pates, you are appreciated by all of us SPs!

 

[pdicko]

I am just entering my 40s and your statement is like a death sentence. I am having so much fun in life, and, will sex end when I hit 45 because I am no longer worthy of being fucked? I am hornier and more into sex now than I ever was in my twenties.

I also prefer older gents myself because they have learned to slow down and have fun instead of racing to the finish line. But, some escorts have a cap on age. I think they are missing out on some very good sex, but, that is their preference and what they are comfortable with.

Laurel, I love women in their late 30s and 40s.

I am in my late 20s (even though I look like I'm 25) and am pretty successful for my age. Not to toot my own horn here, but I'd say I'm a pretty marketable guy. I got into the SP game because I was sick of the girls in their early-mid 20s and all the BS that comes with that. At that age, many young women care more about the perception of their life, and how others see and view them, than they are with actually enjoying life (including sex). Their main needs are being seen at the latest hot spots, sporting events and Vegas pool so they can post pictures on facebook and show off what they're doing, rather than actually enjoying themselves and their company.

I had a romp with a 45 year old lady while on a cruise. I was only 25 at the time. It was for work and I was there as a single, and she was there with a group of her girlfriends. She absolutely changed the way I think about sex. She had just gone through a divorce and hadn't had her pipes cleaned in a long time. Her friends actually seeked me out. I had the time of my life. On multiple occasions we locked ourselves in our rooms for hours and hours on end, and fucked each others brains out. I have never met a woman close to my age that has been that outgoing towards sex and getting what she wants, while giving me what I want/need.

Since that day, my outlook on older women has never been the same. Sure I stare at the hot little ass on the 20 year old waitress serving me, but I'm more engaged by the sexy/sleek business woman in her 40s... the silver fox... wondering in my mind how much of a freak she is or how sexually depressed she is. Most of my SP adventures are built around that fantasy now

 

[pdicko]

I never suggested that all men like skinny blondes with DD cups (I personally prefer slim dark haired women with natural C cups ). There is someone for everybody. If you think your brother is representative of the majority of men then...never mind...I'm sure you realize that is not the case. But I don't understand the contempt some women have for men who are looking for slim, athletic attractive women. I don't think your brother is missing out, limiting himself or is narrow minded and shallow because he won't date someone under 250lbs. So what makes me or others that way because of our preferences?.

My comments about male preferences are accurate but some men prefer otherwise. They happen to be in the minority...what's the big deal? Some guys have a thing for pregnant women also...but most don't. Of course 5 guys are going to come along and say how they love pregnant lactating women. There are a lot more who don't.

As for age, many men love women near or over 40 who take care of themselves and take pride in their appearance. I would take hot 40+ women like Jennifer Lopez, Halle Berry and Salma Hayek over younger ones like Jessica Alba or some other 20 something year old any day.

I think we want what we don't have. I'm in my late 20s so getting something in my 20s is attainable. My girlfriend is my age, has a great body, so that's what I can have whenever I want it. An older woman in her late 30s-40s, offers a type of sexuality that I'll never get at home. Lets just say, I'd sooner go find a hot, mature slice at the Yale than a 20 something at a granville street club (if I'm looking for extra curricular activity). I'm sure when I'm 35-50 I'm going to want that hot young slice, because It's what I don't have at home. It's human nature.

 

[pdicko]

So you have a young, slim attractive GF. Are you looking for mature heavier women or just more mature (30s - 40s)?

The best way to describe would be mature women who take care of themselves. A little extra meat is okay in my books, but not to the extent of a BBW.

 

[lenny]

As for age, many men love women near or over 40 who take care of themselves and take pride in their appearance. I would take hot 40+ women like Jennifer Lopez, Halle Berry and Salma Hayek over younger ones like Jessica Alba or some other 20 something year old any day.

Why?......

 

[lenny]

Because we are older, wiser, talented, experienced, skilled in many ways, we know how to please. We have it together, we do take pride in ourselves and our appearance. We (I am) in our sexual prime. We know how to seduce....
Some of us might not have that tight firm body, but we have a good attitude and we are sexy as hell.

With that said every one has there preference. But I just had to say something, as I get the impression some men think we are old and lost our sex appeal. I am one of those very confident and proud of who I am ladies. I am not a spinner but that is ok, I look good and will even look better in a month or two once I am toned down even more. I look young for my age I have been lucky but hell I will be honest with my age, I could get away with taking a few years off, but why should I. Be honest all the way.

I don't disagree with you at all. In fact i'd concur with your general theme
and add that 'older ladies' tend to offer better service and attitude at a
more economical price. They have the rep of being nymphos as compared
to frigid 20-somethings, to perhaps exaggerate a bit. And just the idea of
that turns me on.

OTOH, if one is willing to put in the time to earn their dime, a 20's SP that
is as good as the more "mature" gals is findable, as a needle in a haystack.
But i was just curious what GP would say...perhaps much the same as you,
i would guess.