why do guys in this hobby think there not good enough for hot chicks

[InTheBum]

Because some of us are giant, ugly, socially awkward types with few skills and low self-esteem...it can't be just me, can it?

It's just you and Hunka... and maybe Honda on a bad day...ound:

 

[hotjac]

Who said anything about not being able to get a hot woman?

Most escorts/sw/sp's are paid so they go away after and you don't have to deal with a relationship.

And the reality is, with current divorce statistics and wealthy lawyers, most relationships create more tension than good; and men ... you will loose a lot of money, so if you want a relationship have one with a pro and save $$.

 

[cloud_9]

A madame I worked for used to get phone calls asking for a "10".

"Sir" she would say "think about it for a minute. Any girl who is a 10 isn't going to be hanging around Vancouver working as an escort for $300 per hour. She is going to be down in LA working at Hugh Heffner's or trying for a part in the movies. Besides, do you want to spend your time with a woman who thinks she is better than you and you should be grateful for being with her? Or do you want to spend time with a 6 or a 7 who really appreciates your business and wants to make sure you come back again?"

When I see a gorgeous woman I always think of how she could clean up in this biz. So, what is stopping them from being escorts and answering your dreams?

Maybe they see themselves as capable of landing some fellow with a really big income. Then they can enjoy a wonderful life and hardly ever have to screw him, or anybody. Well, maybe the pool boy OK, I am talking in stereo types here, but, you see the point.

These very beautiful women are the perennial virgins. They will always be 'almost' unattainable and each man will be 'almost' the first. They are not going to ruin their reputation and their chances by being in a line up at the Fox Den.

I have met quite a few girls that are 10's or at least close to 10's in this industry, the thing is most of them do have that attitude that they are too cool for schol. Off the top of my head I can only think of 3 that were Hot model type, in their early 20's and true GFE experience.

Up until 3 years ago I would never really go see an SP for a 2nd visit (I've seen over 100 Sp's now), My first was VIP Alexis, she was my first BBBJ and true GFE. Then one day I visited a gal that was my Dream Girl in looks, halfway into our session I realized she was my dream girl in attitude too. So for the last 3 years I've been rotating between her and 2 others. Its a better system for me, cause the girls know what I want and I get some serious Milage and great deals out of them.

For the most part, the 10's have been pretty high on themselves and are very mechanical. Even just recently I saw a girl that lookswise was about a 8/9 (would be a 10 if she had a nicer rack) but she booted me out after 20 mins in our 1 hour session. Too cool for school indeed

Interesting thread. When I first started SP's I was in my early 40's and I was fairly nervous. Ended up meeting Totally Touchable Tiffany as my first SP experience and it completely changed my view of things. For starters I expected an SP to basically go through the motions with an average looking older guy like me, but that's not what happened, I was made to feel very special and for that I'm grateful.

Over the years, maybe because of age, maybe because of $$, maybe because of who knows, I gained a lot of confidence and found that as that increased, younger women (ie in their 20's) seemed to smile at me more, perhaps because I unknowingly initiated eye contact, and now I pretty much think that an attractive woman, is just another woman, albeit with a little special something going for her.

Also over the years, I got into the Sugar Daddy role with one young women, who was 24 when we met and it now 29. At first I probably fawned over her too much because it was an awesome situation, but over the years, I've come to few her as partly a daughter, partly a friend, and just someone I enjoy helping. In some ways I think that since I only have one child to support, I can help her and her daughter out and it's like having a friend with benefits situation.

So back to the OP's original comments as to whether or not people think they're good enough for hot chicks, part of it is reality, (ie if your 50lb over weight, you probably aren't) and part of it is simply psychological. If you're not far off from average looking, then treat them the same as anyone else and they'll likely do the same back to you. Put them on a pedistal and often as not they'll feel uncomfortable and they'll view you as not strong. If you're asking them out try not to worry too much about what the answer is, make it a group thing or coffee or something that's kind of neutral on the relationship scale. I believe that woman like strong men, if not physically then they at least like to feel that a man can look after them financially, have decent social skills and treat them and others around them with respect.

TTT was my first good session too! Before that I saw 2 gals that were the stereo typical "hooker" or Streetwalker, the ones that you would imagine if you got them off Hastings. Not there that is anything wrong with that, I mean it seems like Hatrick finds some pretty good Gems. But I am seriously glad I stuck with it.

Like the above comments, this hobby has given me a lot of confidence in life and now I am able to talk to those 10's you see at the club and from time to time I get to take a few of them home too!

 

[johnjxxx]

There are some average looking escorts who wear nice lingerie, a lot of makeup and charge 300/hr for sex...and $100/hr for companionship. They look like your wives or girlfriends first thing in the morning. It's not always about being hot.

Dont mean to change the subject, $100/h seems a lot less than advertised, although I've never asked. One "cute" redhead advertises $850/4h and others seem similar. If thats for sex, Im sure something would catch fire. Dont want to be a cheap bastard but the $100/h would be a lot easier to take if all you want to do is watch her suntanning.

 

[InnocentBoy]

Most civilian hot chicks are used to guys bending backwards for them. They can get away with being bad lays. Imagine the shit that they get away with everyday that they dont get called on.
However I've only met 1 chick that was a 9 in this hobby and even then she was just starting to droop.

I have slept with a hot chick that was not an escort, after all the dates were said and done(8 dates x average 100.00= 800.00) was one of the lousiest experiences ever, I felt like a necropheliac, she just layed there and the only thing that was different from a corpse was her moaning. She did not wrap her legs or arms around me,she did not move her hips, she did move until she orgasmed(small shudder) and would kiss me only when I moved my face close enough for her to do it(lazy bad lay). I asked her about it and she admited she liked it that way and prefered the guy to do all the work.

So 800.00 for bad sex or 800.00 for sex that makes you explode with ectsacy and leaves you feeling like you own the world, I will go for option 2, thank you very much