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[postiepete]

wow so hypothetically saying 'lighten up' is unclassy.....how? What exactly does that have to do with class?

Maybe if I had said to someone (or to you) specifically, I would have understood who ever I said it to not to like it. Maybe.
But to be upset and offended over being told to lighten up? Come on now. How is that an insult?

If I told you to chill out or to relax....would that be an insult too? And unclassy?
I don't think so, in my opinion that's not an insult. I don't understand why you would choose to even see it that way but I'm sorry if you did.

If that's your opinion, fine you're certainly entitled to it. But I'll have to disagree that saying 'lighten up', and not even addressing it to a specific person, has anything to do with class, is insulting or hurts my business.


I do agree that what is important to me may not be important to others...but I'm sure there are many things we can all agree are not worth getting upset or wasting energy over.

And sometimes what might seem important to us at the time, ends up really being small stuff when we take a step back and really assess how non-critical the issue is in the big picture. That's all I'm saying.

Do you have some Midol or something you can take to get through the rest of the day?

 

[JessicaPrabbit]

If your business is doing good then hey all hats off to you but don’t kid yourself many also stay away from sp’s cause of their postings.

'Don't kid yourself' ... Count how many ads I have run on Perb. a couple of handfuls at best ...maybe 10 give or take a few?
I'm fairly sure Nina knows her business well, as do I. I lost track of the men from Perb who came in based on something I wrote ..not an ad ..either a discussion or as part of a reply to a review of mine.

Let's face it, conventional advertising is pretty much ...conventional, I've never been one much for convention. Some post GFE FS GREEK every day, day after day ...for months/years? What a waste of energy (in my opinion), it's not like the services within that ad for any one lady will change from one day to the next. It's great to advertise specials, changes of schedules, travel plans. I'm not saying don't advertise, but ...like everywhere else in life one must be able to stand out in a group. An ad in the advertising section needs to be consistently unique to have members click the link.

The ladies who participate in chat and banter here are, in my opinion, advertising in the best way possible and are standing out in a group because of it. These are the ladies who are secure, mature and intelligent enough to NOT come on and cause gent's to stay away because of their postings. It's just like the advertising sections, some you know you want to read and some you pass over because you know the lady is not good at her form of advertising.

Don't kid Yourself postiepete; Like all advertising, if it's tasteful, intelligent and well presented, it will certainly attract clients. I know this is a fact.

BunnyHugs
JessicaPRabbit

 

[JessicaPrabbit]

Do you have some Midol or something you can take to get through the rest of the day?

Oh and ...if I may, I could use a Midol please!

 

[mistressfreyja]

This is the dichtomy of this bizarre means in which we SPs advertise, and you pooners gain information.

My personality definitely comes out, over time. I just hit the 800 mark of postings, and had to stop and think about any one of the posts I wrote before.

I think differently than when I began posting. I'm older, hopefully wiser, and learning through trial and error, mostly. Oh, and usually on a learning curve. I've also changed my menu.

My point, is agreeing with Nina that Ignorance IS, in fact, BLISS. There seemed to be so much negativity on this board when I began, but when I got to know people, some in person, some only online, I realized that I liked them.

It's been really weird on this board the past week. I've felt more hostility than I've felt on PERB since when I first started perbbing. The moon? maybe. Toxicity? Yes, in fact.

Nina, Sexy Beautiful Amazing, don't feel disheartened.

We, as a community, had toxicity thrown at us. We didn't win the game, nor pass the test. I didn't, for sure. I ate the toxicity and I ran with it. I fueled instead of honing my diplomacy skills.

Most of us didn't react very well. Don't start to think anything different of anybody, based on the past week of extreme toxicity.

I love you lots. I love lots of these women lots. And, some boys too......

Of course, if you choose to reveal your personal thoughts and truths, you expose more of your real 'self'.

In this crazy way we get incredibly intimate with people, sometimes it is better we don't know as much as we do through the activities on this board.
Ignorance is bliss, I tell ya!!

I've had the distasteful displeasure of seeing an awesome repeat client I've totally enjoyed, throw his board rep out the window with some recent posts. His attitude turned the stomachs of many of my friends. What do I do? What should I think? Would I book with him again?

There was nothing in the world that was wrong with any of the time I spent with him. He was loving, kind, beautiful and generous. He made me feel like a goddess and I can't say enough about how wonderful he was. Should I throw all THAT out the window because he exposed some true thoughts and feelings here.. thoughts that have nothing at all to do with the kind of intimacy he is capable of in a one on one situation with me?

I will say it again. Ignorance is bliss. Sometimes it is just better we don't know someone's hidden thoughts.

One thing I learned a long time ago. When you post something on a message board, you had better think hard and fast how much it truly says about YOU. Is it something you what to be out there forever? Do you want these words you've spoken today to speak for you in the years to come?

It's easy to blab away here.. very easy. But these words you use can easily be read with different inflections, with a different voice that you did not intend. Are you speaking clearly and from the heart? Is what you are saying something you want said forever? Be careful, what you say. Its there, said by you, for a very long time...

 

[Unpossible]

I've had the distasteful displeasure of seeing an awesome repeat client I've totally enjoyed, throw his board rep out the window with some recent posts. His attitude turned the stomachs of many of my friends. What do I do? What should I think? Would I book with him again?

"Board rep" is meaningless imo.

There was nothing in the world that was wrong with any of the time I spent with him. He was loving, kind, beautiful and generous. He made me feel like a goddess and I can't say enough about how wonderful he was. Should I throw all THAT out the window because he exposed some true thoughts and feelings here.. thoughts that have nothing at all to do with the kind of intimacy he is capable of in a one on one situation with me.

I don't know what he said but unless you disagree or are offended by those posts then fuck what others think.

 

[uncleg]

'Don't kid yourself' ... Count how many ads I have run on Perb. a couple of handfuls at best ...maybe 10 give or take a few?
I'm fairly sure Nina knows her business well, as do I. I lost track of the men from Perb who came in based on something I wrote ..not an ad ..either a discussion or as part of a reply to a review of mine.

Let's face it, conventional advertising is pretty much ...conventional, I've never been one much for convention. Some post GFE FS GREEK every day, day after day ...for months/years? What a waste of energy (in my opinion), it's not like the services within that ad for any one lady will change from one day to the next. It's great to advertise specials, changes of schedules, travel plans. I'm not saying don't advertise, but ...like everywhere else in life one must be able to stand out in a group. An ad in the advertising section needs to be consistently unique to have members click the link.

The ladies who participate in chat and banter here are, in my opinion, advertising in the best way possible and are standing out in a group because of it. These are the ladies who are secure, mature and intelligent enough to NOT come on and cause gent's to stay away because of their postings. It's just like the advertising sections, some you know you want to read and some you pass over because you know the lady is not good at her form of advertising.

Don't kid Yourself postiepete; Like all advertising, if it's tasteful, intelligent and well presented, it will certainly attract clients. I know this is a fact.

BunnyHugs
JessicaPRabbit

I'd love to meet you in person, more based on your posts than on your advertising. You could be Miss universe, but if your attitude sucked I wouldn't waste my time. I think this board helps bring that out.

Of course, if you choose to reveal your personal thoughts and truths, you expose more of your real 'self'.

In this crazy way we get incredibly intimate with people, sometimes it is better we don't know as much as we do through the activities on this board.
Ignorance is bliss, I tell ya!!

I've had the distasteful displeasure of seeing an awesome repeat client I've totally enjoyed, throw his board rep out the window with some recent posts. His attitude turned the stomachs of many of my friends. What do I do? What should I think? Would I book with him again?

There was nothing in the world that was wrong with any of the time I spent with him. He was loving, kind, beautiful and generous. He made me feel like a goddess and I can't say enough about how wonderful he was. Should I throw all THAT out the window because he exposed some true thoughts and feelings here.. thoughts that have nothing at all to do with the kind of intimacy he is capable of in a one on one situation with me?

I will say it again. Ignorance is bliss. Sometimes it is just better we don't know someone's hidden thoughts.

One thing I learned a long time ago. When you post something on a message board, you had better think hard and fast how much it truly says about YOU. Is it something you want to be out there forever? Do you want these words you've spoken today to speak for you in the years to come?

It's easy to blab away here.. very easy. But these words you use can easily be read with different inflections, with a different voice that you did not intend. Are you speaking clearly and from the heart? Is what you are saying something you want said forever? Be careful, what you say. Its there, said by you, for a very long time...

Nina, if he was good to you then continue to see him if you want. What was displayed here was for the board, and may well have been only for the board. Some of your friends who have not met him may very well not like him, but they don't pay your bills. Just make sure you don't do a duo with him and them.

This is the dichtomy of this bizarre means in which we SPs advertise, and you pooners gain information.

My personality definitely comes out, over time. I just hit the 800 mark of postings, and had to stop and think about any one of the posts I wrote before.

I think differently than when I began posting. I'm older, hopefully wiser, and learning through trial and error, mostly. Oh, and usually on a learning curve. I've also changed my menu.

My point, is agreeing with Nina that Ignorance IS, in fact, BLISS. There seemed to be so much negativity on this board when I began, but when I got to know people, some in person, some only online, I realized that I liked them.

It's been really weird on this board the past week. I've felt more hostility than I've felt on PERB since when I first started perbbing. The moon? maybe. Toxicity? Yes, in fact.

Nina, Sexy Beautiful Amazing, don't feel disheartened.

We, as a community, had toxicity thrown at us. We didn't win the game, nor pass the test. I didn't, for sure. I ate the toxicity and I ran with it. I fueled instead of honing my diplomacy skills.

Most of us didn't react very well. Don't start to think anything different of anybody, based on the past week of extreme toxicity.

I love you lots. I love lots of these women lots. And, some boys too......

MF I think that you play this game at a disadvantage. Everybody on here knows who you are, but you don't know who we are. We can be as ignorant or rude as we want to you to a point until the Mods step in, but until then there's no limit. I could piss you right off here, to the point where you'ed gladly use my guts for garters, then I could book a session where you would be the nicest person possible. Yes, your posts help to define you ( all the ladies ) but nobody has to put up with crap for the sake of reputation.

 

[jnewton]

MF I think that you play this game at a disadvantage. Everybody on here knows who you are, but you don't know who we are. We can be as ignorant or rude as we want to you to a point until the Mods step in, but until then there's no limit. I could piss you right off here, to the point where you'ed gladly use my guts for garters, then I could book a session where you would be the nicest person possible. Yes, your posts help to define you ( all the ladies ) but nobody has to put up with crap for the sake of reputation.

Well written.

And Nina, MF, and JP, thoughtful and on target as always.

 

[mistressfreyja]

MF I think that you play this game at a disadvantage. Everybody on here knows who you are, but you don't know who we are. We can be as ignorant or rude as we want to you to a point until the Mods step in, but until then there's no limit. I could piss you right off here, to the point where you'ed gladly use my guts for garters, then I could book a session where you would be the nicest person possible. Yes, your posts help to define you ( all the ladies ) but nobody has to put up with crap for the sake of reputation.

Thank-you for the validation, uncleg. I definitely don't want to use any of your guts for garters!

Like I wrote before....it's a bizarre world....here in perb-land.

It's invaluable when you guys make me laugh, though.

 

[lenharper]

I would only book women who speak up for themselves on this board and engage in conversation. I would like to know that they are intelligent, playful and interesting before committing to private time. I also think it's a good place to find "warning signs" for both parties. Being on the board for a few years I have seen a number of meltdowns etc and so I doubt I would ever want to commit blind. So keep on talking ladies, I love it.

 

[uncleg]

Thank-you for the validation, uncleg. I definitely don't want to use any of your guts for garters!

Like I wrote before....it's a bizarre world....here in perb-land.

It's invaluable when you guys make me laugh, though.

If you needed validation, though I doubt that's the case, you're welcome.
As to the value of laughter, any chances of barter.

Three Scots went to a brothal and after a bit of back and forth made a deal with the Madame. It was agreed that they would pay by the inch, of the length of their dicks.
After they had finished they met at the pub to compare their experiences.
The first said he had paid 12 pound. The second had paid 10 pound. The third paid 1 pound 5 pence.
When they asked him how that had come about, he replied, " I paid on the way out."

 

[mistressfreyja]

Three Scots went to a brothal and after a bit of back and forth made a deal with the Madame. It was agreed that they would pay by the inch, of the length of their dicks.
After they had finished they met at the pub to compare their experiences.
The first said he had paid 12 pound. The second had paid 10 pound. The third paid 1 pound 5 pence.
When they asked him how that had come about, he replied, " I paid on the way out."

HA HA! Thanx for the LOL. I'm contemplating this barter for humor prospect....

 

[Miss*Bijou]

Do you have some Midol or something you can take to get through the rest of the day?

That's funny, I originally was going to tell you somethihg similar for getting soooo offended by my harmless post. But I figured you might cry so I went for another approach.

I'm not sure why you feel compelled to make a lame, unimaginitive and sexist comment when I'm only responding to your whinning in the first place but whatever..if it makes you feel better, and a little happier then that's fine.. but you do need some better material though. Just sayin'.

 

[Miss*Bijou]

It's been really weird on this board the past week. I've felt more hostility than I've felt on PERB since when I first started perbbing. The moon? maybe. Toxicity? Yes, in fact.

OK I am really glad to read that I'm not the only one who's felt it and noticed. I was really wondering where it came from and am really bummed out about it because things had been cool for a while...and it seemed that all of a sudden the vibe got negative and hostile again. I do remember when it was this lounge was toxic and it's a shame it looks like it's heading in that direction.

Anyway.. but I'm glad it's not just my imagination and others have noticed it as well.

 

[mistressfreyja]

Yep, I've definitely felt a weird vibe on the board, lately.

I think the toxicity in local events and board postings took a lot of us for a loop, but things will level.

You're awesome. Don't let it bum you out.

OK I am really glad to read that I'm not the only one who's felt it and noticed. I was really wondering where it came from and am really bummed out about it because things had been cool for a while...and it seemed that all of a sudden the vibe got negative and hostile again. I do remember when it was this lounge was toxic and it's a shame it looks like it's heading in that direction.

Anyway.. but I'm glad it's not just my imagination and others have noticed it as well.

 

[mistressfreyja]

Good post! Pretty much sums it all up!

I think like any board there are going to be ups and down.

After all there are going to be new people with new ideas and many different points of view. It would be impossible to expect that every one that comes aboard is going to be nice and respectful.
It still is a good place to meet and learn. Doing adds is great but doesn't really let you into the mind of the poster that much. If some one wants to have a better understanding of how you conduct your self reading your thoughts and reactions is best. It helps to give them an idea of what they will expect if they chose to visit you.

Take my self for example. It would be safe to assume the readers see me as a pretty down to earth person. Easy to talk to willing to give advice. Not to much into controversy but ready to stand up for what I feel is right. Open and honest. I am sure most that have meet me would agree.

To me that is the best way to show others what you are about. If I see a post that I feel I might have some knowledge in I will try to contribute if time permits. Like any business we are selling a product. Part of that product is our personality. Best to know what that is like as well before you decide to partake. The out side is only part of the package. What's inside is also very important for the over all experience to be pleasurable.