Again I do thank the OP for his review of Lily - I welcome all reviews good or bad - I wholeheartedly
believe in the importance of the boards - I too have used the review boards to decide if I wish to work
with someone, and I vaule the clients who take the time to share their experiences.
My job is to make everyone happy - girls & clients = its a difficult thing to do, but I do very much enjoy it
and Of course I would love to remedy this situation. Yes we are new on the block - and I know that nothing
I have done elsewhere matters in a town where the compition is high. I know that I do work with some amazing ladies -
and attract alot of great girls baised on my personal ethics, and how I treat everyone.
I fully understand that looks are usually not as important as service = I tell this to all girls I interview
who are starting new in the business. The most sucessful ladies are those who can sincerely connect
with all differnt types of people - and enjoy themselves. I agree this is not a job for everyone - and
some ladies are just in it for the money. I am not going to give away too much of Lily's personal life -
but I know for a fact it is not just simply about the money for her - this is a way for a "good girl" to
be "naughty". I know she connects with, and enjoys the majority of her clients, and I know that many
of her clients return and become regulars. Everyone is entitled to thier opinions, but a few of the
comments (not the OPs review) I found to be very hurtful and anger based. I find negitive comments
like that unfortunate, as the OPs review was neither of those things.
I do prefer to deal with clients privatly for customer service issues - and I have done so with Wolvie.
Whether he decides to never use Edmonton GFE again, I do believe he will take the time to share more
information with me. For the purpose of identifying not only for Lily, but other ladies - how to make a
client feel, like they are getting great vaule for their money.
Other issues at hand :
I have NO idea who the heck Skdymz is - as most clients never reviel their perb/caf handels, and only
book as bob, john fred - I am not sure if I will ever know. I did politely ask Skdymz to please in the
future ask the person he is trying to defend for their approval - as he can see, it could backfire,
and hurt the person its ment to help. I am sure if need be - I could ask many reputable perberts to
come to my defense - but I've never felt the need to do that - and I did not ask for or approve skymz's postings.
I do appoligize again that I didnt see this review right away - I typically cut and paste an ad (same ad on caf, perb, c.e.r.f.
when a new girl is set to arrive, then quickly "bump" their ads on subsiquent days) I do peek in and look
over for reviews every few days, in hindsight maybe i need to look over all the sections of perb/c.e.r.f./caf everyday.
I wasnt trying to be disrespectful by not replying - I simply didnt see it till very late last night, and as soon as I did I
put everything else on the back burner and spent the time needed reading, replying and sending private PMs.
Due to the fact that I am doing the phones, email, ads and websites for 4 companies - i do find it hard to be on the
review sites more then once a day (and some days I dont even make it on at all). I only included this to say this is my reality,
I work hard, but I am not perfect and sometimes there dosnt seem to be enought time in the day - you will notice though that
I have spent the last 12 hours dealing with this issue - wich has prevented me from posting any ads for any of the 4 companies
(and I wont get a chance to untill about 1am tonight now). So I do believe I have my priorities striaght when it comes to listening
rather then telling - and using the boards to comunicate with my clients.
I have found over the years in dealing with customer complaints - that many times where there
were missunderstandings, it was due to lack of comunication (on either side) rather then ill intentions.
In no way was I trying to repremand the OP by asking about comunication - What I was trying to find
out was in his honest opinion, would communication (on her part or his) made this session better?
In my heart I do not belive that Lily has ever intentionaly ment to waist a clients time or money. I am not sure if the chemistry
was off from the start as the OP said - and that made it hard to continue from there (for both of them) or if she was having a
difficult time reading how he wanted to spend his time i.e. maybe she felt that he was not into her, being that the LG was not
responding, and didnt realize it was due to her actions or lack of actions. Possibly she felt that the OP was more comfortable
cuddling and chatting - and this is where I wondered (and have asked wolvie privatly) if Lily had asked any questions about what
she could do to help get things "started up".
I do remind all the girls I work with regularly - how many hours the typical client has to work to spend just one hour with them.
I personally do vaule this - (since I work for about $5 a hour) - and I know how much hard work I put into building trust and a
positive reputation in this industry. Its not woth it for me to work with someone who dosnt respect a clients time or investment.
As for everyone else, the lovers the haters and the lurkers - I think I have spent the time required to honestly answer the concerns
of the OP *(publicly and privatly) - I really hate to get wraped up in board drama and mob lynchings and the "mean crowds" personal
attacks - I am human - and I belive I am doing the very best I can and working with the very best people I can, and I am always
open to positive constructive critisim and self improvment - all the other suff just bounces off me and sticks to you
As mentioned before to the OP - thank you again for your review it is appreciated.
Cheers- Harvi