Zayla WOT - lead me on for months

[Rluck]

I'm located in Vancouver. I reached to her a few months ago about booking an appointment or potentially flying her out. She told me she would get back to me but never did. 3 weeks later I reached out again and I made sure she didn't think I was a time waster by providing the required references from very well reviewed escorts that charge $500/hour. In one of the messages she said she accepts cryptocurrency as payment. I told her that I can go see her and she said she would be available over the weekend so I made travel arrangements (car and hotel). She told me she accepts Ethereum. I told her I wanted to proceed with the booking. She told me she wanted 30% deposit. I asked for her wallet address and then asked if I could make the payment for the session of 3 hours in full. Her attitude then suddenly changed and she said that "Unfortunately, after this back-and-forth I’m having doubts about the seriousness of your intentions and our compatibility. With respect to the value of both our time, I can’t proceed in good faith."

Why mention you accept cryptocurrency at all if you're going to use that as an excuse to cancel an appointment?
Did she really think I was going to bail after giving up a reference from one of the best reviewed and most expensive escorts in BC?

I honestly don't understand what happened.

It's been a couple of weeks but only now did I get the opportunity to post this. I was really disappointed that she wasted my time and I had to take a hit on the hotel and the car to get to Victoria from Vancouver.

 

[NiceRichard]

"Unfortunately, after this back-and-forth I’m having doubts about the seriousness of your intentions and our compatibility. With respect to the value of both our time, I can’t proceed in good faith."

Seems pretty clear to me. She got bad vibes from you and didn't feel safe. No SP is required to see you just because you've given a reference from "One of the most expensive escorts in BC". You come across extremely entitled in this post, and it sounds like she probably dodged a bullet.

 

[West End Guy]

That’s very strange. I had a wonderful three hour session with Zayla not too long ago and even wrote up a review about it.

 

[Randomperson]

Yeah, Zayla is Fucking top notch man, she always gets back to you, even if it’s a couple days later.

when she takes a few days to get back I usually make other plans or im out of town again which leads to canceling, or me worrying she’ll think im wasting her time. Has happened yet though!

she probably got the jitters, and I hope she sticks with her gut feelings!

I was just texting her before I saw this 🤣

 

[MrSOG]

I don't think he comes across as entitled, he's just trying to make the point that he sees, or has seen, high priced escorts and that that should give some level of comfort that he is legit. I don't see anything wrong with that.

I agree it's on him though that he booked the travel plans too early before finalizing confirmation.

And I also agree it's the right of any SP to bail if their gut tells them so. I'm kinda confused about this one though...not sure where he came across as non-committal, IMO.

 

[justwannahavefun]

I'm a bit lost on this one as well and am wondering if there is a detail of some sort that is missing. It is completely Ok for a provider to have a bad gut feeling and they should follow that vibe. I find that unless there is a legitimate reason for that bad gut feeling, there usually is none.

 

[Rluck]

Wait so the booking was not confirmed in any way, yet you still made travel arrangements? That's on you man.

Yeah, of course that's on me. I just didn't expect her to bail on me like this.

It's not relevant to add that the escorts you've seen are $500/hr (pretty sure my reference is just as important yet I charge a measly $350 😉). Like ... good for you? Lol. Doesn't get you special treatment.

I don't understand why you and NiceRichard are trying to make it seem as if I am saying that paying $500/hr should get me some sort of special treatment. As MrSOG said, I mentioned it so that those reading the thread would see that the reference is not one of the things that would potentially lead her to think that I wasn't going to follow through on my promise.

Also not relevant is this part about having to 'take a hit on a hotel and car'. Why didn't you just go anyways and find someone else, there's scores of amazing ladies on the island. But they may not wanna see you after this. Have a good day!

They may not want to see me after what, exactly?

 

[Fiona]

After a few days of backing & forthing with a gentleman we get a pretty good sense of what we’re dealing with & know not everything is worth the money , it happens all the time .

 

[James_Vic88]

I'm located in Vancouver. I reached to her a few months ago about booking an appointment or potentially flying her out. She told me she would get back to me but never did. 3 weeks later I reached out again and I made sure she didn't think I was a time waster by providing the required references from very well reviewed escorts that charge $500/hour. In one of the messages she said she accepts cryptocurrency as payment. I told her that I can go see her and she said she would be available over the weekend so I made travel arrangements (car and hotel). She told me she accepts Ethereum. I told her I wanted to proceed with the booking. She told me she wanted 30% deposit. I asked for her wallet address and then asked if I could make the payment for the session of 3 hours in full. Her attitude then suddenly changed and she said that "Unfortunately, after this back-and-forth I’m having doubts about the seriousness of your intentions and our compatibility. With respect to the value of both our time, I can’t proceed in good faith."

Why mention you accept cryptocurrency at all if you're going to use that as an excuse to cancel an appointment?
Did she really think I was going to bail after giving up a reference from one of the best reviewed and most expensive escorts in BC?

I honestly don't understand what happened.

It's been a couple of weeks but only now did I get the opportunity to post this. I was really disappointed that she wasted my time and I had to take a hit on the hotel and the car to get to Victoria from Vancouver.

It’s her body, her choice to decline service to anyone she doesn’t feel comfortable with.
I’m sure you won’t be spending time with someone you don’t feel good vibes from.
Met Zayla before and she’s amazing person inside and out.

 

[steverino]

If I was in Vancouver with the choices available, not sure I would feel the need to go through the complex task of booking in Victoria and dealing with cryptocurrency, finding a hotel and realizing that bookings can go awry for a thousand reasons. Sorry it didn't work out but as others have said, if a ladies spidey senses are tingling for whatever reason it's going to be a no go.

 

[luvsdaty]

Your 1st warning should have been when she didn't get back to you right away. This is when I move on. And if a provider doesn't want to see you,don't take it personally, just move on. I've had girls cancel on me when I met them at the door,part of the reason why I don't travel to other towns to poon. And if I did,it wouldn't be the only reason that I traveled,just a nice little bonus. I don't read any " entitlement" in your original post,just laying the cards out for us to see it as we may. Pre covid it use to be pretty easy to find what you wanted on pretty short notice, nowadays? It is what it is as they say. I'm just grateful that I found a wonderful mp that meets all my needs and who I click with.
Cheers dude ,happy pooning.

 

[JamesTike]

I don't think this guy comes off entitled, he was just giving us an idea on his perspective. I'm sure Zayla is more than capable to provide any further details if she wanted to.

Booking an SP in this covid era in Victoria really has become a bit of an ordeal. I had a similar experience booking with Athena when she visited a couple of weeks ago, I had gotten to her incall location, she asked for a few minutes for prep time and then later sent another text thst she got bad vibes from me - I try to sensible and non pressuring in my texts but sometimes it's not enough, there's nothing that you can do, no SP is obligated to see you just have to move on.

 

[Buddyguy66]

So if I read correctly you offered to pay for the whole time in advance? And everything was going "normally" in your mind and she wasn't interested.

Indeed, something is weird here. Or maybe you came off as desperate? I can remember warm turning to cold trying to make a booking one time because I was probably trying to hard to fit into her sched. Maybe it gave off psycho vibes. (Never a problem since but I could even feel something wasn't going right).

The other thing that occurs to me is many SPs can turn on the love language immediately. Darling, love, sweetheart etc. Yet go cold when the client does so in kind.

So vasically what I've learned on first contact is keep it polite, straight forward, professional, without lust, desperation or emotion in your words. Remember at that point, you don't know each other from a hole in the wall! (No pun intended. Lol)

 

[ThanksLadies]

Not one to criticise fellow PERBs but ….. Zayla is one of the best providers in Victoria, a lovely young lady and a true professional. She has a lot of good reviews and a loyal client base, myself including! So when someone from out of town tries to discredit one of our local girls, you have to expect some backlash!

While I’m at it, I would like to add that in the time have known Zayla and my first review of her, she has grown so much.The level of intimacy and companionship that she provides has raised the bar even higher.

Zayla will no doubt have read this and knows why she backed out of any arrangements you may have been making, I say good for you Zayla, full respect from me and many others I’m sure!
TL

 

[MB Mod]

The provider has the right to refuse any client. This thread is closed.