Your Opinion: when a SP requested to borrow money?

[morganjp]

I met a lady at CL in August and saw her 4 times. Now she wanted to borrow money from me to cover her debt payment. She did not say how much, except that it was a big amount.

Questions:
1. Should I help her? There are a lot of scams and she may run away forever.
2. If I don't, how can I tell her nicely, without hurting her feeling?
Your input is appreciated.
(Note: She no longer posts at CL.)

 

[smackyo]

With the amount of money some of these ladies make, even at the low end of $120 for 45 minutes, these ladies are raking in the money hand over fist. If she's got a closet full of Louis Vutton bags and whatever else some Women spend their money on I'd say no way in hell lend her the money. If she can't manage what she makes I'm gonna guess she's a gambler or has a drug problem or a "Princess" that is just living way beyond her means.

 

[niceon77]

Money will be gone, almost without question. Even if she has the best of intentions at the start, it's unlikely she'll ever be able to pay back. I would bet money on it.

 

[lenny]

A lady in Thailand asked me for a large amount. I had seen her around 20 times,
and because of that request that was the last time i saw her. I dumped her and
got a better girl.

 

[hugedman]

Lol... no. Just tell her money causes hard feelings. If you really like her, and can afford it, you can give her a few grand, but don't lends it and expect the requests to keep coming. Keep us updated, I'll get the popcorn.

I agree with islandzen, if you want to say no but don't want to hurt her feelings, just simply tell her that you would really like to help her, but you have all your money invested in stocks and could not liquidate them due to market uncertainties.

 

[vancity_cowboy]

I met a lady at CL in August and saw her 4 times. Now she wanted to borrow money from me to cover her debt payment. She did not say how much, except that it was a big amount.

i got a similar request from a lady i saw. she had previously been set up as an advertising sp, by a 'manager' who paid to get her set up, as well as paying for a bunch of bling for her so she could see what a great life she was going to have. unfortunately her reputation got destroyed by her 'manager' writing shill reveiews for her, so now she owes him a 'lot' of money and he won't let her go indy until she pays it back. great life, huh?

i asked her how much she meant by a 'lot', she asked me how much i thought a 'lot' was, i said 75 large, she said no closer to 10 large.

so there you are, one story of why they owe so much money. do you really want to get involved in that action? all of a sudden my money got 'tied up in investments'

i still get emails from her asking for money, too bad, she was a looker too

 

[HankQuinlan]

Think of it as gambling or as a social experiment -- loan her money if you wish, but no more than you are willing to lose. There is always a chance you could be pleasantly surprised at the goodness of human nature, but be prepared to be a chump.

 

[athaire]

Think of it as gambling or as a social experiment -- loan her money if you wish, but no more than you are willing to lose. There is always a chance you could be pleasantly surprised at the goodness of human nature, but be prepared to be a chump.

What he said.

 

[storm rider]

I agree with the general sentiment....DO NOT LEND HER MONEY....if you absolutely must throw your hard earned cash away give it to me and I will even kick you in the nuts to you can experience some pain LOL

I dont agree with making up an excuse....man up and just tell her straight out NO....if the sessions you have with her go downhill after that then dont see her anymore....there are plenty of women that will have sex for money

SR

 

[vancity_cowboy]

there are plenty of women that will have sex for money

here let me re-word that for you

'there are plenty of women in this world that will give you GREAT sex for money'...

 

[myselftheother]

So, to sum up this thread.....

Bad idea, don't do it.

 

[connor666]

I agree with the general sentiment....DO NOT LEND HER MONEY....if you absolutely must throw your hard earned cash away give it to me and I will even kick you in the nuts to you can experience some pain LOL

SR

LOL!!! Too funny!

Tell her that she would have more money if she didn't stop posting her ads on cl.

 

[Happy Al]

After 4 dates? $50 max. $200 max if going steady for more than a year.

Then go to the casino to win the money back!

 

[GinaElite]

My mom always tells me if you lend money your not really lending your giving ...

I would be careful! I have lent people money before and never seen it again I learnt the hard way

XO GINA XO

 

[chuckanut]

don't just say no... say FUCK NO!!

i've lent a friend a few grand once and it was like pulling teeth trying to get it back. almost ruined our friendship.

i'll never lend money every again.

-chuck

 

[ThisEndUp]

No, No, No!

want to bet "loan" becomes "gift"

 

[ThisEndUp]

Well, that's his business man.

not saying HE made the choice

 

[Lurker 123]

If you lend her the money, expect no return! The choice is up to you. You don't have to tell her nicely but be firm. You won't be the only one she is asking. So don't feel guilty.

 

[Krustee]

With the amount of money some of these ladies make, even at the low end of $120 for 45 minutes, these ladies are raking in the money hand over fist.
If she's got a closet full of Louis Vutton bags and whatever else some Women spend their money on I'd say no way in hell lend her the money.
If she can't manage what she makes I'm gonna guess she's a gambler or has a drug problem or a "Princess" that is just living way beyond her means.

Good points above.

Hey man look - even escorts are telling ya not to lend money to escorts - er, I mean other people.

1. Don't lend $$ to anybody, you ONLY MET HER LIKE 4 TIMES????
2. Grow some balls and tell her to fukk off.

I hope I was helpful

P.S. You will make the last decision anyways, just use your COMMON SENSE. If the $$ is burning your pocket and she really needs it, don't lend it just
give it to her then at the end if you don't get it back it won't bug you and we don't see you crying in here, that we were right.

ok, just use your common sense.......................DON'T DO IT, instead cum and see me and don't forget your balls at home!!

Pretty good advice above there morganjp!

 

[island-guy]

If you want to GIVE her some money, or maybe hire her for a couple of overnights or something, great, go for it.

But do not lend the money. No matter what you say and no matter what she says, it won't be a loan, it will be a gift and ANY attempt on your part to ever get the money back will result in a big fight and hurt feelings.

I've had some longtime regular SPs ask to borrow money, sometimes I've "lent" it to them but I never bothered to ask for any of it back because I knew that it wasn't going to come back.

I've also had SPs ask for loans in the very first session, I didn't give them anything (apart from the session $) and never saw them again.