Young guy new to this whole thing and need some advice

[Awesomesauce]

Hey guys,

First time posting here.

So I recently found this site and community about a month a go as I was and now am seriously considering partaking in services of an escort.

So here is my situation:

I'm a 24 year old virgin. For a bunch of reasons, it just hasn't happened to me yet. And I can't go on like this as it really hinders my confidence. I have debated the pros and cons of losing my virginity to an escort many times in my head and I think, at this point, this is my only option for now and I don't really want to wait any longer.

I have read a bunch of reviews and have tried to set something up with a few ladies but it hasn't worked out. For one, our schedules conflicted because of the holidays. There was one that used her actual email address with her real name my mistake and everything and so got uncomfortable and didn't want me as a client. The most recent service provider I have tried to contact was Bella Luxe. I'm not sure if there is something wrong with her email address or something, but I sent two emails only to have them not go through. Her website also seems to be down last I checked.

I figure before going any further and browsing the next batch of reviews, I'd just ask you guys in general if there was someone who would be ideal for my situation.

I'm willing to pay ($300-$600 preferably for 1.5 hours for someone who is good with new and inexperienced clients, kind and willing to show a few things while knowing how to have fun in the process.

So my question to you guys would be if you can recommend a service provider out there that you think would be good for someone who is inexperienced and for someone who is looking for a somewhat tame and safe environment to lose his virginity?

Any help/advise would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks and take care!

Awesomesauce.

 

[P3t3rp4n]

perhaps let the SP know of your situation in the email you send to them, this should garner a sure response and avoid being chucked into their spam filter,
i too have encountered the no response time and time again because my emails were nothing more than "you available today? I got cash? lets make it happen?"
be honest and genuine about you are looking for and want and you will definitely find it. I would personally stay away from the cheaper end of escorts if youre looking for a connection to be made

 

[asma]

My advice to u would be to chose someone close to your age that you can communicate with so it feels more like a gfe and you are from the same gen and go slowly and book longer since its your first time,do your research and that might leave out most k girls unless your fantasy is Asian then I suggest Aimee angel or petit Lauren and you can video your first time something we all wish was availiable in our time

 

[nd1]

Every Guy Needs His Mrs. Robinson...

My advice to u would be to chose someone close to your age that you can communicate with so it feels more like a gfe and you are from the same gen ...

One would actually suggest going the other way.

If Sauce hasn't "lost it" yet, chances are he has yet to get it all together on how to make it work out with women of his age group. Whereas it would be nice for someone of that group to see him and give him a warm welcome, many ladies of that age group are either not all that experienced (in other words, unless one takes the initiative, expect a lot of dead air and awkwardness), have an attitude (especially those who are well-reviewed and consider themselves "elite"), or plain flaky (she who does not return email or text message, just a case in point). So, for a guy like Sauce, there is just way too much extra stress to deal with for him to really enjoy his first time.

Go with someone who is a little more mature (professionally and not necessarily chronologically) and has likely dealt with more than a couple of young gents in that predicament. Don't be bothered by the age difference, if any, for the best of them could easily put the younger ladies to shame in how well they look and feel. Yet they tend to be more reliable, more welcoming, more service-oriented, and more ready to show a young guy the ropes (but let's not jump so far ahead of ourselves and into the kinky stuffs, all right?). Whereas there are many ladies who shine in this category, if one were Sauce, one would probably check out Catherine James.

Beside Bella, who else have you been considering, Sauce?

 

[Awesomesauce]

Hey guys,

I apologize for responding so late. I couldn't really find some time to properly thank you guys until now.

I really appreciate the replies and how respectful this community is. Thanks!

I've gotten some great advice and recommendations through this thread as well as through PMs so thank you! I feel much more comfortable going through with this.

Just wanted to take some time and respond to some of you guys.


@P3t3rp4n: Oh I definitely email explaining my situation to the service providers I have contacted so far. With regards to Bella Luxe, the emails just didn't go through as I received the "could not deliver this message" error twice. I did spend some time making sure I had the right email address and even PMed her on here. I am not sure what is up but I have gotten some solid recommendations and am confident I will be happy with my choice this time around.

@asma and nd1: Thanks for the feedback and recommendations guys! I appreciate it. Research and finding someone who is mature, despite age is something I am definitely trying to find. And by mature I don't necessarily mean old, but understanding and I guess knowing how to facilitate the feel of a safe environment. Lets face it, I'll happy as hell when it happens but also nervous as fuck. I appreciate the recommendations as it gives me some direction as to who to look into so thanks again!

@ sammyjdouglas & Anna: Thanks for the recommendation and responding in general. Good to know there are some younger guys here as well. and thank you for responding as well Anna I will definitely be sending you a message


I'll keep you guys updated and let you know how it goes and will try and respond much faster than I did now!.

Take care!

AwesomeSauce.

 

[OZIAS]

Definitely go for a good clean honest lady. especially since its your first time you dont want to book 1 hr and blow your load in 5 and find the girl is heading out the door with all you money. ask about msog. I think youll be quite surprised how many of the young girls youll actually want to see only want to see old men. they make it to seem like its a money and a maturity thing but idkkk... btw im younger than you and iv seen a few escorts from both the island and the mainland. alot are willing to see young people but i cant say forsure about your situation and i cant really recommend you anyone id wish someone to lose their virginity to but im sure your well informed now.