You people make me sick

[pissedoffwife]

I found this site because my husband was surfing here. I kept finding it on the computer and I snuck a look at his cell phone when he was sleeping. I have been reading it for 2 weeks.

You people are sick. You men disgust me. Like all of you my husband sought out younger, nubile women. Women he wouldn't have a chance in real life. That's what a fat belly and fat ass will do to you. I confronted him why he would do this, break up our family and his excuse was he wanted a good blow job. I would have given him one but he was hairy and stunk in that region. No time in our marriage did he bother to ever ask if I might like some pleasure in my sexual regions.

I noticed how money left our bank account. It was money he spent out with the boys but he was never gone long enough to spend that much. You can't spend 45 minutes in the bar and spend 60 dollars. He was saving it up to buy sex.

I feel sorry for the women that do this. Is this all you have? You are homewreckers. Do you think about that man on top of you? That he might have a family and his stories of why he sees you are just lies?

You won't be seeing my ex husband any time soon because I'm taking his ass to the cleaners. I will be sending this site to all my girlfriends too and having them look closely at their males behaviours.

I'm disgusted. You people make me sick. Most women would be happy to give their husbands what he needs sexually if they would just pay a little attention. Help me with the laundry, with the kids, with cleaning up and I will be that school girl for you.

~sick~

 

[Pillowtalk]

Now you're going to have everyone wanting to know where he could go for 45 minutes for only 60 bucks.

 

[Stew]

Pillowtalk wins the award for great smart ass comment

Now you're going to have everyone wanting to know where he could go for 45 minutes for only 60 bucks.

 

[Dark_Knight]

Lucky that guy wasn't a client of JPR's.... She would really be able to take his ass to the cleaners with all the info she would cough up!

 

[maroonedsailor]

silly bitch

Did it ever occur to you to be nice to him and encourage him (not nag ok) to lose a few pounds? Did you ever think to give him a BJ without him having to beg for it? or lovingly wash his privates with a nice hot towel prior to performing same? Did it ever occur to you to be a loving wife? Men don't go that way if they're happy at home. You might do well to go over your stored up resentments and see how they've affected your relationship. It's easy to blame him. It's more real to see how your behavior pushed him in that direction. Sure, it takes two and we haven't heard his excuses yet, but I'll bet good money I can list em without his input......

 

[dieselman]

You people are sick. You men disgust me. Like all of you my husband sought out younger, nubile women. Women he wouldn't have a chance in real life. That's what a fat belly and fat ass will do to you. I confronted him why he would do this, break up our family and his excuse was he wanted a good blow job. I would have given him one but he was hairy and stunk in that region. No time in our marriage did he bother to ever ask if I might like some pleasure in my sexual regions.

To bad you probably won't even read the replies. Yes, your ex was lucky, I would agree. But it's "bastards" like me who's "wives" won't even let their "husbands" touch them....

And by the way, I'm half her weight...

THAT is why I am here.....


DM

 

[maroonedsailor]

Show me the man,that was sent to the doghouse.
Then I'll show you the man,who found his way to the cathouse.

Englebert Humperdink

Amen nuff said

 

[wolverine]

Help me with the laundry, with the kids, with cleaning up and I will be that school girl for you.

If I'm ever broke, I might take you up on that!

 

[Moderator-1]

Should ban Dood's Ass

... except he make rational points.

This could be a useful thread as long everone responds respectfully.

Dood is certainly welcome to present "the case" for the other side.

Can we do this without the rhetoric, drama and grandstanding? If so, we'll let this continue. If not.. the slammer is still open for business.

Please continue. Maybe I'll learn something from this.

 

[Attila the Hun]

I found this site because my husband was surfing here. I kept finding it on the computer and I snuck a look at his cell phone when he was sleeping. I have been reading it for 2 weeks.

You built a perb account two weeks ago on the same computer that your husband also has a perb account on? Sooo, would this not cause multiple user names to have the same IP address, which I thought was against the rules?

Mod, how did YOU let this one slip through the cracks? Tisk, tisk, tisk.

(just teasing you Mod, just teasing)

 

[BS Detector]

I think communication is the key.

He obviously went for a reason. Is one woman just not enough (ie. needs variety) or was he not getting his needs met at home. We do not know, so it is hard to comment. While I am chastised on here, mainly for my views on cheating (and yes, seeing a professional is still cheating if the spouse is not aware of extra-marital sex), a relationship takes honest communication, and work I think.

I find it hard to believe that if he stunk as bad as she claims, that he would have got satisfaction from a working lady.

As far as being home wreckers, single guys see these ladies too so they are providing a service. If a married guy goes to them, it is his choice so do not blame the ladies. If one really wants to use the label of home wrecker, maybe it is best to start looking from within the home. There are all sorts of home appliances lining retailers shelves but I do not shop just beause they are there. I have to have a need for such products or services, such as a malfunction with the one I have at home, for example. Cheating is never an excuse for not communicatng in my opinion but, as I said, we really do not know the real story here.

 

[ReluctantPooner]

Pissedoffwife:

I understand that you are hurt and really angry because you have found out your husband is cheating on you, but don't take it out on these ladies. Not all the men who use their services are cheating husbands. There are men who are very busy businessmen who are barely in town, so they don't have time to date let alone have a relationship. There are guys who are well into their 20's or early 30's and are still virgins - not ugly guys or social retards, just for some reason can't seem to communicate with women in any way other than "just friends." And, there are husbands who's wives have just completely shut the door to intimacy and sex, despite him trying everything to make things work. If what you say is true, that is not the case with you, it sounds like he definately had fault in the breakdown in your relationship. Best of luck to you and hopefully you find a man who deserves you.

 

[Sexfeverca]

I love my wife and I have a wounderful sex life! But I still like something different once in a while! Isn't it nice to just lay down and

enjoy a hot young girl to service you?

We are buying sex not buying love, and I have no intention to find a mistress.

Women can never understand how a men thinks! Men could seperate sex and love totally!

 

[Surrey's Jewel]

Pissedoffwife:

I understand that you are hurt and really angry because you have found out your husband is cheating on you, but don't take it out on these ladies. Not all the men who use their services are cheating husbands. There are men who are very busy businessmen who are barely in town, so they don't have time to date let alone have a relationship. There are guys who are well into their 20's or early 30's and are still virgins - not ugly guys or social retards, just for some reason can't seem to communicate with women in any way other than "just friends." And, there are husbands who's wives have just completely shut the door to intimacy and sex, despite him trying everything to make things work. If what you say is true, that is not the case with you, it sounds like he definately had fault in the breakdown in your relationship. Best of luck to you and hopefully you find a man who deserves you.

Wow you sure saw her post differently than I did. I saw it more like she was bitter and hateful ... spying on the guy .. controlling his money ... sounded like there were waaaay bigger issues than sex in this troubled union.

 

[Chocoholic]

*bursts out laughing*

If women were as ready to hire male SP's as men are ready to hire female SP's the world would be one different place. You know it. I know it. You just can't fucking admit it dude. Personally, I'd love to see a level playing field. Love it.

Married women don't need to hire SP's. They can cheat without having to pay money. There are enough horny guys out there willing to have sex. A buddy of mine who was cheated on found no problem meeting married women in bars or in personal ads in the paper wanting to have sex and this was over 15 years ago before CL and the online dating phenomenon. He was no adonis either.

There were communication and other problems with the OP's marriage before it even got to the cheating part. If people took the time to talk more, to treasure what they have, it wouldn't have to get to this point.

 

[athaire]

Wow you sure saw her post differently than I did. I saw it more like she was bitter and hateful ... spying on the guy .. controlling his money ... sounded like there were waaaay bigger issues than sex in this troubled union.

Kinda how I saw it as well........

 

[BS Detector]

Women can never understand how a men thinks! Men could seperate sex and love totally!

That is true but it does not make men right and women wrong becaue they ling love and sex. Who are we to say that linking them is wrong. Again, it comes down to communicating to understand each other. If you like something different once in a while, and you wife knows and agrees, you are a lucky man for having communication and understanding in your marriage.

 

[BS Detector]

It's entirely possible that he was using personal hygiene to keep his wife away and he cleaned up for his trysts with SPs.

Granted, but that means it was not because of hygiene per se that she did not go near him, it was because for some reason he wanted to keep her away. If so, that means hygiene was not the real reason but there is some other issue we do not kow about.

Again, if hygiene was the real reason, I doubt that he would clean up to go see an SP.

 

[hugedman]

I found this site because my husband was surfing here. I kept finding it on the computer and I snuck a look at his cell phone when he was sleeping. I have been reading it for 2 weeks. You people are sick. You men disgust me. Like all of you my husband sought out younger, nubile women. Women he wouldn't have a chance in real life. That's what a fat belly and fat ass will do to you. I confronted him why he would do this, break up our family and his excuse was he wanted a good blow job. I would have given him one but he was hairy and stunk in that region. No time in our marriage did he bother to ever ask if I might like some pleasure in my sexual regions.

I noticed how money left our bank account. It was money he spent out with the boys but he was never gone long enough to spend that much. You can't spend 45 minutes in the bar and spend 60 dollars. He was saving it up to buy sex.

I feel sorry for the women that do this. Is this all you have? You are homewreckers. Do you think about that man on top of you? That he might have a family and his stories of why he sees you are just lies?

You won't be seeing my ex husband any time soon because I'm taking his ass to the cleaners. I will be sending this site to all my girlfriends too and having them look closely at their males behaviours.

I'm disgusted. You people make me sick. Most women would be happy to give their husbands what he needs sexually if they would just pay a little attention. Help me with the laundry, with the kids, with cleaning up and I will be that school girl for you.

~sick~

I am just wondering if you all noticed what's going on...? I think someone had made something up just to trash the ladies...otherwise...am I actually reading the fastest divorce - she just started checking out Perb for two weeks and NOW she's divorced...nice try, whoever you are.

 

[Mr.Boggo]

That sucks, In your position, I'd be pissed off too. No one wants to find out their SO is cheating on them.

and yet I am still puzzled how no one seems to feel guilty for any of it.

We can pretty much rationalize away any feeling of guilt. Any shitty thing I've ever done, it was never my fault, it's always because someone didn't do something, did something or it's just the way I am.