After reading a few reviews, after booking and meeting a few people without any spark or chemistry, you have finally met and spent time with the perfect SP/MP for you. You’d like to see her on a regular basis but how can you make sure she will want to see you often?
1. Respect her time. That means, don’t show up too early, too late and don’t overstay. Don’t cancel last minute, if you do so send a little something to apologize. Why? Because she could have seen you someone else if you had cancelled early enough.
2. Respect her privacy. You’ve seen her 5 times by now but that doesn’t mean you are friends and that you can ask what her real name is, where she lives and other personal details. If she trusts you and feels it is right for her, she might give you those information herself.
3. Show her appreciation,that doesn’t mean to text her out of the blue to say “I’m thinking about you”. Yes it is sweet but you have to remember that it’s her work phone and she’s probably getting a lot of text messages. Receiving one that’s not for a booking can be seen negatively by many. Instead, booking longer dates if you can. Surprise her with a dinner date if you can. Bring her a little something, doesn’t have to be something extravagant. It could be a sealed bottle of her favourite juice or an unopened box of chocolate (always consult with her for her preferences).
4. Suggest an arrangement if you can afford it and discuss the terms. It could be beneficial for both. This way you’ll be assured to see her on a regular basis.
5. Obviously, be a nice client. Always come clean, don’t argue about showering. Don’t be rude, don’t be pushy, don’t be disrespectful.
1. Respect her time. That means, don’t show up too early, too late and don’t overstay. Don’t cancel last minute, if you do so send a little something to apologize. Why? Because she could have seen you someone else if you had cancelled early enough.
2. Respect her privacy. You’ve seen her 5 times by now but that doesn’t mean you are friends and that you can ask what her real name is, where she lives and other personal details. If she trusts you and feels it is right for her, she might give you those information herself.
3. Show her appreciation,that doesn’t mean to text her out of the blue to say “I’m thinking about you”. Yes it is sweet but you have to remember that it’s her work phone and she’s probably getting a lot of text messages. Receiving one that’s not for a booking can be seen negatively by many. Instead, booking longer dates if you can. Surprise her with a dinner date if you can. Bring her a little something, doesn’t have to be something extravagant. It could be a sealed bottle of her favourite juice or an unopened box of chocolate (always consult with her for her preferences).
4. Suggest an arrangement if you can afford it and discuss the terms. It could be beneficial for both. This way you’ll be assured to see her on a regular basis.
5. Obviously, be a nice client. Always come clean, don’t argue about showering. Don’t be rude, don’t be pushy, don’t be disrespectful.
