Nope lol it was more of a joke. But reality is most all chicks that look as good as yourself won't give a voluptuous man like me a second look and go after the good looking guy that will possibly turn into a dick after awhile.
YOu guys are soooo lucky..
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I live in rural Saskatchewan. Mimi has twice as many options as us in total . It could be worse though I could be in southwest Manitoba.
I live in rural Saskatchewan. Mimi has twice as many options as us in total . It could be worse though I could be in southwest Manitoba.
mimi
i would love to have a no entanglement , except limbs, sex life , when needed, by me or you, i have a flexible time schedule and do not tend to "misunderstand " the nature of simple pleasurable relationships.
so ... what do you think .
O by the way you would have to travel over mountain , hill , dale and stream without getting blown away by wind .
welcome to saskatchewan
i would love to have a no entanglement , except limbs, sex life , when needed, by me or you, i have a flexible time schedule and do not tend to "misunderstand " the nature of simple pleasurable relationships.
so ... what do you think .
O by the way you would have to travel over mountain , hill , dale and stream without getting blown away by wind .
welcome to saskatchewan
Maybe that was his way of flirting. I guess you guys don't have chemistry though.
And hey if the sexy flirting and the figurative putting out of signs isn't getting you to getting asked out and the literal putting out of the sexual intercourse, perhaps it may be time to mix things up and woo some of these sexy, demure Vancouver menfolk?
Sounds like if you want a feminist, young, asian lad you're going to have to do the courting then?
and google images brings you...
the view from the top of hart mountain manitoba!!
at 2,589 ft / 789 m, it's the second highest in manitoba
located in the porcupine hills
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and below, baldy mountain, the highest peak in manitoba, located in the duck mountain provincial park, at 832m (2729ft)
Mimi, Lady Kay, etal horny women - I have the answer to your problem. It is in my pants. PM me when you want it. No strings for sure 1000% guaranteed.
Now add most if not all other posters names to the list with mine at the top, rotate through and as complications come into any of the trysts stop PMing that # on the list. As performance diminishes cross those #s off the list. You'll still have a long list.
Only here to help.
Now add most if not all other posters names to the list with mine at the top, rotate through and as complications come into any of the trysts stop PMing that # on the list. As performance diminishes cross those #s off the list. You'll still have a long list.
Only here to help.
Been glancing over this thread (not in great detail) and then I came across this....
http://news.distractify.com/people/...ing-a-dream-job-and-i-agree-with-him-100/?v=1
The part about "Claire" kinda sums up my thoughts. The OP wants a guy for some casual occasional sex...yet in a later post, she says he needs a job and there were probably a couple other requirements that that weren't directly related to a man's sexual function.
PoF and other sites only work for people if they learn how to filter their potential matches. If you want an occasional hookup then don't put stuff in your profile that indicates wanting a full blown relationship. Like the article says (paraphrasing) find a guy, fuck him, you can always dump him later if he's not potential boyfriend material.
http://news.distractify.com/people/...ing-a-dream-job-and-i-agree-with-him-100/?v=1
The part about "Claire" kinda sums up my thoughts. The OP wants a guy for some casual occasional sex...yet in a later post, she says he needs a job and there were probably a couple other requirements that that weren't directly related to a man's sexual function.
PoF and other sites only work for people if they learn how to filter their potential matches. If you want an occasional hookup then don't put stuff in your profile that indicates wanting a full blown relationship. Like the article says (paraphrasing) find a guy, fuck him, you can always dump him later if he's not potential boyfriend material.
There are three sets of mountains along the Saskatchewan border. Bet you didn't know that rivers in Manitoba and Saskatchewan flow north into either Hudson's Bay or the Arctic Ocean.
I think it's a Vancouver thing mostly. I know that I'm not afraid to try and "talk up" a woman in Winterpeg, Toronto or St John's. In fact, I've found that it's easier to talk to women just about anywhere that isn't Vancouver. Thankfully, I'm just waiting for one more form and then I'm out of here.
My two cents
You would have sex with a complete stranger for money, but not go to a bar and let your self get picked up.
just don't know what to comment about that.
lots of older women, seem looking and quite willing, my life is complicated enough, with a wife and an sp, don't need any more complications.
I would think lots of guys would be willing to fuck no strings attached, In fact I think they would fuck anything remotely female no strings no money attached.
I have no idea what planet your on. I think your just to fussy. But your not marrying them, or dating just fuck me and get the hell out.
Sounds like a perfect relationship.
You would have sex with a complete stranger for money, but not go to a bar and let your self get picked up.
just don't know what to comment about that.
lots of older women, seem looking and quite willing, my life is complicated enough, with a wife and an sp, don't need any more complications.
I would think lots of guys would be willing to fuck no strings attached, In fact I think they would fuck anything remotely female no strings no money attached.
I have no idea what planet your on. I think your just to fussy. But your not marrying them, or dating just fuck me and get the hell out.
Sounds like a perfect relationship.
Ah, seven of nine, if picking up someone in the bar is that easy, why aren't you doing it???
I had a great FB and I think he was unemployed, at least, he didn't ever seem to be at work. I could drop by any time, stroll straight to the bedroom, tossing my clothes on the way, enjoy great sex and leave; the fact that I was 22 years old may have made that a lot easier...more motivation on his part.
There might be some illusions here that I am some stunning GILF that can sit on a bar stool and mesmerize men with my gaze...lol. The assets aren't all in the same place they were thirty years ago.
I just finished a chat with a friend who is a bit older than I, and she is going stir crazy without sex, and trying to find things to do to distract her from thinking about it....neither of us were ever very good at 'the pick up' thing...possibly because we began escorting at a young age and never had to learn? As long as we were in the biz we never had to think about it.
so, back to my original post...you guys probably get a lot more sex than older single women. It doesn't matter that gravity, or hard living have changed your appearances, you have options.
I had a great FB and I think he was unemployed, at least, he didn't ever seem to be at work. I could drop by any time, stroll straight to the bedroom, tossing my clothes on the way, enjoy great sex and leave; the fact that I was 22 years old may have made that a lot easier...more motivation on his part.
There might be some illusions here that I am some stunning GILF that can sit on a bar stool and mesmerize men with my gaze...lol. The assets aren't all in the same place they were thirty years ago.
I just finished a chat with a friend who is a bit older than I, and she is going stir crazy without sex, and trying to find things to do to distract her from thinking about it....neither of us were ever very good at 'the pick up' thing...possibly because we began escorting at a young age and never had to learn? As long as we were in the biz we never had to think about it.
so, back to my original post...you guys probably get a lot more sex than older single women. It doesn't matter that gravity, or hard living have changed your appearances, you have options.
Lady Kay is right about this city... The Vancouver vibe between men and women is just stupid. No one talks to eachother. This is a city filled with Beta males who can't approach women, and girls who are always waiting for the next better guy they see instead of the one right in front of them.
Nope never been on a date with a good looking guy but have enough girls as friends to see them repeat over and over again with guys who are a dime piece but turn to a turd over time.
Trust me I'm not bitter just pointing out my observations to your problemo.
Mature women's quest for complication-free sex: a few thoughts
Hey mimi,
Just relished a printout of your thread over coffee. Not often that we get to ponder the perspective of a superbly articulate mature woman who talks openly about the difficulty of hanging on to a quality sex life with advancing age.
Can't dispute your main point: men of all ages and looks have access to 100s of female SPs in the Vancouver area—whereas for women, the pickings among studs-for-hire seem slim.
Some posters have suggested various reasons for this glaring discrepancy. Seems to me, the main reasons probably are that
(1) sex without an affectionate connection is what very few women want badly enough to be willing to pay for it;
(2) younger women can usually get all the sex they want for free (or at least think they can); and
(3) the huge majority of older (postmenopausal) women—especially those not in a relationship—seem willing to put sex on the back burner without too much trouble or regret, probably due to hormonal changes.
I certainly think, older women's mass withdrawal from an active sex life is deeply regrettable, not only because it deprives such women of the many physical and psychological benefits of sex, but also because it deprives older (and younger) men of the joys of a rewarding sexual connection with a female mature—who, potentially, could also make a fine life companion.
There might be some illusions here that I am some stunning GILF that can sit on a bar stool and mesmerize men with my gaze...lol. The assets aren't all in the same place they were thirty years ago.
I just finished a chat with a friend who is a bit older than I, and she is going stir crazy without sex, and trying to find things to do to distract her from thinking about it....neither of us were ever very good at 'the pick up' thing...possibly because we began escorting at a young age and never had to learn? As long as we were in the biz we never had to think about it.
so, back to my original post...you guys probably get a lot more sex than older single women. It doesn't matter that gravity, or hard living have changed your appearances, you have options.
Hey mimi,
Just relished a printout of your thread over coffee. Not often that we get to ponder the perspective of a superbly articulate mature woman who talks openly about the difficulty of hanging on to a quality sex life with advancing age.
Can't dispute your main point: men of all ages and looks have access to 100s of female SPs in the Vancouver area—whereas for women, the pickings among studs-for-hire seem slim.
Some posters have suggested various reasons for this glaring discrepancy. Seems to me, the main reasons probably are that
(1) sex without an affectionate connection is what very few women want badly enough to be willing to pay for it;
(2) younger women can usually get all the sex they want for free (or at least think they can); and
(3) the huge majority of older (postmenopausal) women—especially those not in a relationship—seem willing to put sex on the back burner without too much trouble or regret, probably due to hormonal changes.
I certainly think, older women's mass withdrawal from an active sex life is deeply regrettable, not only because it deprives such women of the many physical and psychological benefits of sex, but also because it deprives older (and younger) men of the joys of a rewarding sexual connection with a female mature—who, potentially, could also make a fine life companion.
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A few more thoughts on "sex and the older woman"
Here, for reference, is a partial list of benefits of sex—and what older women who give up an an active sex life are missing out on:
Like other brothers, I've often run into attitudes on the part of older women that I find discouraging and self-defeating:
1. Many postmenopausal single women—perhaps the majority—seem to have given up on a sex life and react irritably to sexual overtures. And, as mimi herself stresses, the "use it or lose it" rule tends to apply: an older woman's sexuality, once dormant for years, may not be easy to switch on again.
2. Even those matures that want to hang on to an active sex life often don't (and sometimes can't) do what it takes to stay attractive, with respect to such things as fitness, makeup, dress, avoidance of glasses or smiliness. I always give an older woman major points if she's highly sexual—provided she also makes an effort to be reasonably pleasing to a man's eye.
3. Attractive women could afford to be sexually picky for most of their lives—and even with advancing age, too many of them don't kick the habit of approaching us men with expectations few of us can realistically meet.
4. A mature woman, in my experience, rarely breaks out of the BF/GF mold of wanting a man who's both emotionally and sexually focused only on her. Occasionally, when I get interest from an age-appropriate woman and tell her that I have a GF but would enjoy a casual encounter, she almost always draws back. (Happened to me yesterday again!)
5. Mature women—who came by sex easily in their younger years—often lack practice, courage and humility to take determined initiative to seek out sexual opportunities under changed circumstances.
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This thread offers quite a few suggestions for how a female mature can locate suitable male sex partners: e.g. via CL "casual encounters" (or similar sites), in pubs or night classes, through acquaintance networks or in female sex-tourist havens.
I fully agree with mimi: none of this is remotely as convenient as us guys scanning through ERSlist. But honestly, I can't help thinking someone with her qualities could find good free sex if she only wanted it half as badly as most of us pooners want sex. I've just gone halfway around the world to go to the sex I want: I don't expect it to come to me.
And did anyone mention swinger clubs and swinger websites? Most of these welcome women of all ages, sizes, looks—and swinger clubs strive to create a safe, respectful environment for single women.
Another suggestion mentioned was dancing. For 20 yrs now I've met most of my SOs and civvies through dancing. True, there aren't too many dancehalls outside Vancouver, and women tend to outnumber men in dance classes (though rarely at social dances).
But male dancers almost always see dancing as the vertical expression of a horizontal desire and are easily recruited for a tumble between the sheets by any reasonably attractive mature with a bit of chutzpa.
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I enjoy watching "matures" porn. I've often thought, "How come none of the matures I meet are like that?"
Mimi's thread infuses me with new hopefulness—that matures aren't all a lost cause for someone like me.
Here, for reference, is a partial list of benefits of sex—and what older women who give up an an active sex life are missing out on:
Like other brothers, I've often run into attitudes on the part of older women that I find discouraging and self-defeating:
1. Many postmenopausal single women—perhaps the majority—seem to have given up on a sex life and react irritably to sexual overtures. And, as mimi herself stresses, the "use it or lose it" rule tends to apply: an older woman's sexuality, once dormant for years, may not be easy to switch on again.
2. Even those matures that want to hang on to an active sex life often don't (and sometimes can't) do what it takes to stay attractive, with respect to such things as fitness, makeup, dress, avoidance of glasses or smiliness. I always give an older woman major points if she's highly sexual—provided she also makes an effort to be reasonably pleasing to a man's eye.
3. Attractive women could afford to be sexually picky for most of their lives—and even with advancing age, too many of them don't kick the habit of approaching us men with expectations few of us can realistically meet.
4. A mature woman, in my experience, rarely breaks out of the BF/GF mold of wanting a man who's both emotionally and sexually focused only on her. Occasionally, when I get interest from an age-appropriate woman and tell her that I have a GF but would enjoy a casual encounter, she almost always draws back. (Happened to me yesterday again!)
5. Mature women—who came by sex easily in their younger years—often lack practice, courage and humility to take determined initiative to seek out sexual opportunities under changed circumstances.
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This thread offers quite a few suggestions for how a female mature can locate suitable male sex partners: e.g. via CL "casual encounters" (or similar sites), in pubs or night classes, through acquaintance networks or in female sex-tourist havens.
I fully agree with mimi: none of this is remotely as convenient as us guys scanning through ERSlist. But honestly, I can't help thinking someone with her qualities could find good free sex if she only wanted it half as badly as most of us pooners want sex. I've just gone halfway around the world to go to the sex I want: I don't expect it to come to me.
And did anyone mention swinger clubs and swinger websites? Most of these welcome women of all ages, sizes, looks—and swinger clubs strive to create a safe, respectful environment for single women.
Another suggestion mentioned was dancing. For 20 yrs now I've met most of my SOs and civvies through dancing. True, there aren't too many dancehalls outside Vancouver, and women tend to outnumber men in dance classes (though rarely at social dances).
But male dancers almost always see dancing as the vertical expression of a horizontal desire and are easily recruited for a tumble between the sheets by any reasonably attractive mature with a bit of chutzpa.
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I enjoy watching "matures" porn. I've often thought, "How come none of the matures I meet are like that?"
Mimi's thread infuses me with new hopefulness—that matures aren't all a lost cause for someone like me.
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