Ymmv

[sauvevital]

You can be respectful as a person but it still does'nt change the fact that everyone including SPs have thresholds when it comes to age,weight,attractiveness,hygiene and even in some rare cases race.When a client is below that personal threshold the SP might have difficulty providing optimal service.However,if SPs have issues with people of a certain age,race,weight or looks,this should be communicated in her AD or when the client is in the process of booking a session.
When I booked with Pauline,she had me send a picture before the session maybe due to YMMV,which I had no problem doing because I read reviews prior to booking and knew she was professional so the risk of my pic ending on some dodgy website was minimal.If SPs know YMMV may affect them giving an optimal session they can possibly start asking clients to send pics, as long as they have consistently had good reviews and have a good reputation most clients won't have a problem.

 

[jgg]

If I expect every guy to look like a younger Brad Pitt with a model body then I'm in the wrong business.

Ouch! I don't even look like an older Brad Pitt.

 

[nearandfar]

Perhaps in the future, when providers are made of silicon and circuitry (fake tits and a hitachi wand don't count), then everyone will get the exact same service. At that time though, we'll all be complaining that the service was too mechanical

I think what we're talking about here is that there's a base service and then there's the over-and-above service; the extras if you will. There are alot of factors at play that will get you those extras (e.g. good looking, big tipper, respectful, big hammer, punctual, etc.) Any time you bring two people together, there's going to be chemistry there that's either good or bad. Now if the chemistry is good, then hey, you may be in for a little extra.

Also, don't kid yourself that it's limited to this industry. Any time a service provider has some discretion in what services they provide, there's going to be some haves and have nots.

 

[Robin Masters]

Perhaps in the future, when providers are made of silicon and circuitry (fake tits and a hitachi wand don't count), then everyone will get the exact same service. At that time though, we'll all be complaining that the service was too mechanical

I think what we're talking about here is that there's a base service and then there's the over-and-above service; the extras if you will. There are alot of factors at play that will get you those extras (e.g. good looking, big tipper, respectful, big hammer, punctual, etc.) Any time you bring two people together, there's going to be chemistry there that's either good or bad. Now if the chemistry is good, then hey, you may be in for a little extra.

Also, don't kid yourself that it's limited to this industry. Any time a service provider has some discretion in what services they provide, there's going to be some haves and have nots.

Exactly. Comparing this industry to the hardware, insurance or pretty much any other business is overly simplistic. There really are no comparable businesses that I can think of.

Expecting that a clients attitude, hygiene etc. won't affect the quality of service is incredibly naïve. It is sex after all, and it's very intimate,

 

[jgg]

Also, don't kid yourself that it's limited to this industry. Any time a service provider has some discretion in what services they provide, there's going to be some haves and have nots.

Airlines do it all the time!

 

[sauvevital]

Actually the more I think about it, the more I believe we should report exactly what service we receive. This is a business transaction and not a date. If everybody is paying the same, everybody should receive the same. YMMV is actually complete bullshit, it gives the SP an excuse or an out to provide less than their optimal service. If they have an issue providing the same service to somebody overweight, elderly, unattractive, etc... they need to look for a new profession.

They are human not robots,if you were a high class Male SP and had Susan Boyle or Angela Merkel show up to your incall,you will likely have a hard time delivering optimal service. Yes,it might be a business transaction but it still does'nt change the fact that the level of attractiveness of clients will always be a variable factor and have an impact in delivering optimal service.

 

[Jethro Bodine]

What the heck , why didn't I see this.

Likely because you signed in, saw I was on line and started daydreaming about Jethro and became completely distracted.
Don't worry, you're not the first female to fall victim to my Kavorka.

 

[Robin Masters]

Ok. Let's look at it from a business perspective.

Ymmv....

Treat your best and most loyal customers the best. Encourage them to repeat. Identify new customers that can be transitioned to loyal customers. Taylor your clientele to your business. Try and minimize the risk to yourself and your health.

 

[Nero7811]

In a way it does happen...if an SP doesn't feel the, let's call it chemistry cuz attractiveness is purely subjective, then the session would be lack-luster at best and probably down-right awful at worst. The client in question has made every effort to see her, laid-down his hard-earned money and then came-away with something below what was expected. Lesson learned and on to someone who possibly could meet/exceed those expectations. What just happened was the free-market in motion...the SP wasn't feeling 'it' and the session was lacking, problem solved as the client probably won't book again. Not everyone will have the same experience with the same SP and I think it's naïve to think every SP is going to feel the same with every client. That's the 'people' nature of this commodity business and as long as we continue to demand this market, there will continue to be all the variables that come-along with it.

If you remove the human element and boil it down to a commodity, (pussy) you also take-away the very essence of the experience. If I was only interested in the commodity aspect, I certainly wouldn't spend the time/money/effort in finding someone I can connect with on a human level which makes the sexual level that much more satisfying...but that's just me. I'm 100% supportive of your viewpoint, I just look at it a little differently...it's what makes this community interesting.

My boy we got a similar mind.

 

[MillenniumFalcon]

They are human not robots,if you were a high class Male SP and had Susan Boyle or Angela Merkel show up to your incall,you will likely have a hard time delivering optimal service.

Hey - Angela Merkel has a beautiful smile! And those German girls can be pretty wild!

As a recent member (but long time reader!!) of these boards (and a first-time poster), I have to say - YMMV seems like common sense. It's no different than any other customer service. I've been the friendly, patient guy in a busy restaurant and gotten a free appetizer or dessert; I made a difference to the stressed out server, and was rewarded for it. I've also returned things past the posted date or had exceptions made for me in retail stores; they didn't do it to screw with other people, they did it because I was rational, patient, and understanding, so they wanted to help me. The opposite has also been true, I've attempted to return something and been told no because of whatever policy. It's the way she goes.

What I'm trying to say is, if you are kind, patient, and polite you will make people want to go the extra mile for you. Displaying a sense of entitlement or huffing and puffing when things don't go like you imagined is a childish way to behave, and likely won't endear many people to you (especially the ladies). I know this from first-hand experience... Lol

It's the foundation of the entire goods/services industry: of course there's a commodity involved. It is the customer's choice where they acquire that commodity. Factors are weighed out, and the spender decides where to spend. Successful businesses care about customer satisfaction and thrive, others do not and they struggle. Conversely, if the customer is unreasonable, or just a real fucker, he'll be asked to leave and not return. That's also good customer service: it ensures resources will be available to help you, the polite, satisfied, return customer.

 

[bowtie44]

Good morning gentlemen

This is a very controversial topic. I can only speak from my own experience. SP's get into this industry for there own personal reasons, for some it's desperation for others it's clearly the income that is desirable and once your in it you have two paths you can take which sets the less desirable providers to the providers that actually have heart and a desire to give of themselves, not only giving our bodies but yes our heart and soul.
When I first started out I knew nothing about this. But I understood the need and purpose of why Men choose to do this and I have the most upmost respect of that. Again I'm only sharing my side of being the provider. When I choose to spend time with someone, it's not just about looks I've spent time with gentlemen that may not have George Clooney looks, but have turned out to be the best lovers ,like my legs are shaking and I'm the one who has to gather myself after a session. Lol actually puts a smile on my face thinking about it
Every woman and man are unique what we are looking for , what we are needing sexually and yes emotionally too. I prefer not to spend time with men that want just a wam and bam. And as I spent time with men I learned quickly to discern the difference between the ones looking for a hooker or the ones looking for a companion. I choose the latter because just like most of you I'm assuming you want to be treated with respect and dignity.
YMMV for me means be a Gentlemen have respect and decency as a human being add a splash of humility to it equals a great combination! Yes of course have great hygiene I love kissing which is exactly why in my bathroom I provide mouthwash and mints for a fresh encounter lol ;*
The ladies who treat the less desirable men out there less then stellar, your missing out big time. Passion and true intimacy comes from making a connection on every level

I love when a Newbie chooses me! It gives me a chance to give him the best experience and not be discouraged or disappointed in the fantasy he had in mind. It keeps me mindful of why I do this . I was taught from a young muchacha, treat others as you want to be treated kindness ,compassion and understanding go a long way on both sides of this. And really we are all horny so why not make the most out of it!
Happy hump day!
Felina xoxo

Well Said Fellina

Too bad all SP did not have the same outlook as you......Maybe the business would not be in the "State" it is.

Thanks:clap2:

 

[coonan69]

being that I look like an older george carlin crossed with santa claus... I'll hope that the next lady I see has a good sense of humor... Zoe or Felina?? Hmmmmm

 

[Jethro Bodine]

hey Santa is awesome . you can sit on his lap and whisper in his ear

And he knows where all the "naughty" girls live.

 

[DB Cooper57]

I hope nobody going to jump all over me by saying this .

Not sure if some of you guys are serious or are joking .Some of you need to quit being hard on yourselves. Geez.
I'm pretty sure you look fine and your perception of yourself is most likely different then ours. Being ' good looking' doesn't have to fit in a specific category of what your suppose to look like which is mostly mainstream media bs anyways. Everybody looks different . wether your young , old , sixpack , belly ( which I find sexy BTW) doesn't mean anything. Some of you like spinners , some of you like curvier . some of you prefer spinners but end up sticking with a certain sp that so happens to be a bit bigger vice versa because shes nice and sometbing clicks. Everyone has something sexy about them. Integrity , respect , a good attitude and if you have a sense of humour bonus. That's what will make the session great. And I'm sure alot of sp's will agree. Be kind to yourselves guys .

Id jump on you anytime, but I'm guessing that's not the kind of jumping your worried about!ound: