squgster said:
what married pooner would take a chance coming to a party of this kind ?
What 'chance'? ...unless you're afraid you'd meet your wife there when she said she was going to her sister's place!
This isn't an orgy - and people aren't going to be taking out their IDs & showing everyone who they really are... the customers/SPs who are 'in good' with each other (i.e. 'regulars') have a rapport, and a business relationship, to protect. If there's a social, no-clock-watching gathering, it can be a perfectly normal get-together, a chance to see another side of these people.
Unless someone makes a total ass of themselves (telling everyone "Hey, I banged her!!" for example) & uses the event to be crude & rude & offensive, making too many inappropriate jokes, or trying to use the event to get a freebie, it could be a lot fun.
It should be seen as a regular, social gathering for the board regs/SPs to meet face-to-face (not always a great thing when 2 real-life co-workers meet(!)) but if one is queasy about it, stay home - end of lesson.
Might be able to make the 7th.