Would you????

[Danika]

So a travel date is requested of me in October and I have permission to "work" while entertaining...

The thing is one of the requested locations seems to be primarily a "red district area"

From my understanding this means presenting yourself in a street of open windows...

Just out of curiousity how many Local Sp's would engage in this type of presentation???

I mean its money all the same right? and its not like anyone I know will be there to identify me!

My travel companion will be at work, so I might as well take advantage of the situation.

I know its safe, I just hope I don't have to give too much to the owner of such establishments from each call!

Assuming I feel comfortable competing in such a way, should I enjoy the experience?? or just go as a travel companion??!

well obviously this question is for SP's ....Yay or Nay? and why?!

xoxo
D.

 

[Lady Companion]

Why not work independently?

Personally, if I were travelling with a gentleman, I wouldn't entertain on the side, even if he did give me permission to do so. However, that is simply my take on the matter.

If you are going to entertain in Europe, there is no reason why you can't do so in the same manner as over here. Advertise, take prebookings with deposits, and then get your own hotel for those engagments or provide outcalls. You can have everything nicely arranged for a couple of weeks out, and know exactly when your free time is going to be.

Keep in mind the 'window shopping' is going to be a totally different experience than what you are used to here. In the red light districts it is much more about the sexual services than it is about companionship and entertaining. You may have communication problems, and many of your clients won't speak English. Depending on the country you are working in (and whether you have a valid passport or working visa for the EU) you may encounter other legal issues. You will need to be tested for STD's and provide proof of a clean bill of health (not that that is an issue, but having the fact that you are working in the sex trade on your permenant record may be).

It would certainly be an interesting experience, and if you feel that it is something you want to do, then by all means go for it. Just be aware that the environment will likely be much more 'meat market' than what you are accustomed to.

My personal inclination in any instance is to remain independent and maintain a freedom of choice over the gentlemen I choose to entertain.

 

[Willingham]

It would depend on how fat the customers are.

 

[Danika]

Travel Time...

I want to end the day staying with my travel companion, as this was the reason for travel...

So working independantly from a hotel is out of the question!

I am not shy of an std test as I know I am "safe" tested and true.

...so working in an agency...

Umn we are planning San diego and Tijuanna...

I have found an agency of choice considering our location for San diego but Tijuanna seems to be a red light district from what I gather online...

I am asuming this means stand in the window type of style, but not 100% sure.

I have my passport... I'm not sure how it works for sp's, why would I need a working visa if I get paid cash?

The real question would be is how many sp's would consider this type of in the window advertising...

Who has, or who would? or who wouldn't and why? Has anyone actually worked in Tijuana? and have tips for me?!

thanks,
Danika

 

[snowbeard1]

Public Display of Affection?

From my understanding this means presenting yourself in a street of open windows...

Danika:
I certainly am not an SP, but decided to give my two cents' worth anyway. From the description I would say the trip is either to Amsterdam or Auckland, NZ. Having just returned from NZ, I know there is are a number of opportunities to work in very comfortable settings and not be "on public display" in the windows. At the MPs, the house charges the client for the room, and the lady is paid separately. For outcall, the MP sends the girl with a driver to insure safety, and the dollars go directly to the girl. There may be some compensation to the driver since the rate is a bit more, but I would guess not a huge amount from the price differential.
It's been a long time since I've been in Amsterdam, but the last time I was there, the ladies in the windows weren't nearly as comely as you, so my impression (through my memory) isn't the best.
Good luck to you whatever you decide. There are going to be some lucky guys for sure!
Snowbeard

From my observation of the red light district in Tijuana I'd definitely say "NO! NO! NO! NO! NO!"

 

[Danika]

Thanks Snow beard...

My questions were actually for GIRLS who might have experienced working in San diego or Tijuana...

but thanks for your input...I do hope to travel to NZ or Amsterdam too!

As for being "comely"... thank you...LOL I can put fake lashes, splash some make up, and curl my hair like the best of em

xoxo

I know its a long shot to think I might find an sp who has experienced these two locations...but you never know unless you ask!

thanks again
Danika

 

[Danika]

From my observation of the red light district in Tijuana I'd definitely say "NO! NO! NO! NO! NO!"


Really? Why?

 

[dipitydoo]

think twice Danika before working in a foreign country. Make sure you know the rules of the game there, and what clients expect. You never know, but clients in a different city / country might have higher expectations regarding mileage.

Find out about the local rates as well.

It could be fun, but anyhow just be sure you have a backup plan and that you have someone to call in case of an emergency. Better be safe than sorry, in the end it's just a matter of using common sense, following your instinct and making sure you use your street smarts and everything will be OK.

Best of luck and bring back pictures! hahaha

 

[dipitydoo]

From my observation of the red light district in Tijuana I'd definitely say "NO! NO! NO! NO! NO!"


Really? Why?

Danika... just do a search for Tijuana prostitution either on Google or Youtube and you might get an idea of why some people might cringe at the idea.

 

[snowbeard1]

Oh Nooooooooo

From my observation of the red light district in Tijuana I'd definitely say "NO! NO! NO! NO! NO!"


Really? Why?

It has been a year or two since I was there, but the area was one where I just didn't think it was very desirable. Too many guys who were loitering in a manner that made me overly cautious, and girls that appeared to be less than excited about being there.

I know it sounds strange, but as my mother used to say, "You only have one chance to make a first impression."
SB

 

[Danika]

Thanks!

think twice Danika before working in a foreign country. Make sure you know the rules of the game there, and what clients expect. You never know, but clients in a different city / country might have higher expectations regarding mileage.

Find out about the local rates as well.

It could be fun, but anyhow just be sure you have a backup plan and that you have someone to call in case of an emergency. Better be safe than sorry, in the end it's just a matter of using common sense, following your instinct and making sure you use your street smarts and everything will be OK.

Best of luck and bring back pictures! hahaha

LOL...guess I'll just take this opportunity as an adventure and after i find out all the rules I'll decide if i want to play the game...

I am very lucky as my travel date has been a secret lover for yrs now...and will be a dependable contact in case of emergency.

Pictures....Hell ya!

 

[Danika]

It has been a year or two since I was there, but the area was one where I just didn't think it was very desirable. Too many guys who were loitering in a manner that made me overly cautious, and girls that appeared to be less than excited about being there.

I know it sounds strange, but as my mother used to say, "You only have one chance to make a first impression."
SB

hhhhm well then there shouldn't be too much competition then, I mean hey doesn't the girl with the sincere smile always earn a good first impression?!

LOL I can handle too many horny guys loitering, I worked at BBC remember?!

xoxo
D.

 

[Danika]

Danika... just do a search for Tijuana prostitution either on Google or Youtube and you might get an idea of why some people might cringe at the idea.

K I'll work on that and get back to you!!!!

 

[Kashs]

From my observation of the red light district in Tijuana I'd definitely say "NO! NO! NO! NO! NO!"

Being a third world country, men's altitudes toward women maybe different. You are more likely to be pressure doing things that you are uncomfortable with: BBFS, BBBJTC. You could be raped or worst.

Tijuana is a dangerous place, known for having a high crime rate. You also don't fit in considering that you are a "high class girl", much more so there than here.

Think twice about working in a foreign country. It may sound like a great adventure, but it could turn out to be one that you live to regret.

 

[Sandman333]

From what I can tell on my searches, the red light district in Tijuana isn't standing in a window like in Amsterdam. It appears to be hookers on streetcorners.

It doesn't appear to be very safe; foreign country, standing on a street corner, language barriers...

 

[uncleg]

San Diego, better have a pimp that is "known." Without one you are very likely to get beat on by other girls on the stroll. Sort of like the good old days in Vancouver down on the high track. Plus, it is illegal in the U.S.of A. Also because of the big Navy presence, it is an activity that is closely watched.

Tijiuana, go on the street there with no connections and at best you'll end up in some hell hole that will make a Mexican jail look like a Hilton, at worst you'll end up with your throat cut. Take a really good look at the murder rate in the Mexican border towns and then consider your "adventure."

 

[Danika]

So working in Tiuana is not an option! I am very uneducated about other parts of the world.

"My SuperMan" laughed at me when I suggested I work in Tiuana...Apparently when I said "oh good I can work too" he assumed I would know Tiuana is right out of the question.

He said he would never allow it of course....and after I spent a few hours reading about their country I completely undestand why.

So moving on...

San diego does have quite a few options Has anyone been?

I sure am excited to explore and to learn more about this wonderful world!

Your Joyful GirL,
Danika

 

[FortunateOne]

bottom line?

You don't work in foreign countries, period. Especially this kind of work. The only thing you'll want to do is to be the companion you have been hired to be. You are in an industry that is illegal in many parts of the world, and since it is your business to know these things, the legalities surrounding it should be something that you are interested in finding out.

And if you feel that you are uneducated about other countries, then educate yourself, especially if you knew that you were going to make a visit to one. You don't even have to leave home to learn something.

You are young and in a business that is ideal, hopefully, with time for self-improvement, travel and more. Take advantage of the information highway, the extra time that you surely have in the day between appointments, and take an evening off every now and then to learn a subject, a language, anything. Life is too short to just go along without some sort of goal or hobby, no matter how silly it might seem to others.

If you want to do this over the long term, then you have to know that your young hotness is going to have to develop into something more substantial to attract clients.

Just my 2 cents, and take it for what it's worth.

 

[Danika]

Thanks!

I agree with you both Anica and FO...

I am in school because I am fully aware that what I am doing now will not be a career forever!

I must say I do need to spend more time researching and travelling to become more worldly...

I can laugh at my geography knowledge is close to zero, because I know I'm constantly learning...

I'm scared to attempt to work on my travels now, I had better just stick with Superman

anyways thanks for all the advise people!

xoxo
D.

 

[sdw]

The first thing is that men in most nations are not as respectful as you have come to expect. In Canada, men are respectful because they know the SP can call rape and the police will actually charge him. Yeh, I know, there are the Pictons out there and many say the police don't act early enough.

In Mexico and most of Europe, the man expects that he is buying the use of your body. Your expectations, comfort or safety aren't going to concern him.

I spent almost 40 years in the US Navy. You must realize that naval personnel spend a lot of time based in Japan, the Philippines, Cuba and other places where women have no ability to complain about their treatment by clients. In the US, where it is illegal to be a client or SP, if the client feels that they are at risk of the SP complaining to the police, their solution is often to "shut her up".

What you are thinking of doing is very dangerous.

So working in Tiuana is not an option! I am very uneducated about other parts of the world.

"My SuperMan" laughed at me when I suggested I work in Tiuana...Apparently when I said "oh good I can work too" he assumed I would know Tiuana is right out of the question.

He said he would never allow it of course....and after I spent a few hours reading about their country I completely undestand why.

So moving on...

San diego does have quite a few options Has anyone been?

I sure am excited to explore and to learn more about this wonderful world!

Your Joyful GirL,
Danika