Would you visit an SP with your wife/girlfriend/partner?

[Pretty_Priya]

Hey Guys, I'm curious if anyone here has ever visited an SP with their significant other, or would be open to the idea? A lot of my clients are married, and I often ask them if they think that their partner would also appreciate a little more intimacy and variety in their life? Personally, I've always been attracted to beautiful women, and before I became an SP, my ex and I had discussed hiring a provider to help us fulfill some fantasies. I still think it's a really great idea, and I would absolutely love to cater to a loving, committed couple who want to explore together. What are your thoughts on this?

 

[radon]

Not all wives/girlfriends would be willing

 

[alcxd]

Years ago my SO & I were going to get a sensual massage together
All booked etc but when time came not into it
I met girl in lobby to give her the money
We ended up all having drinks but still not loose enough lol

 

[uncleg]

Would I be willing to...yes. Would the wife be willing to...no. Have I done it...yes...had a girlfriend back in the day that was on the kinky side..it was fun.

 

[Pretty_Priya]

Someone asked me to clarify what I meant by "beautiful." Beautiful to me is more about personality than anything. Bodies are just bodies, it's the light that shines from within that is beautiful. I think a lot of women are intimidated by SPs and exotic dancers because they compare their bodies to ours, or think we have some out-of-this-world sexual prowess. Honestly, the most beautiful and successful women I've met in the adult entertainment industry are kind, generous, see the good in other people, and know how to make others feel appreciated. If the SP has a good personality, and can "click" with your SO then I think a lot of those fears can fade away. I also think that a lot of women (myself included!) probably have a lot of unfilled sexual fantasies that they'd love to explore, and meeting with a supportive, open-minded SP can be a safe way to do this.

 

[Jerbear]

My wife has joined me for couples erotic massages, but can't quite convince her to join for a threesome.

 

[vancouver1992]

That would be hot! So cool to be in relationship with some so comfortable with an open relationship and being so open minded!! Would love to role play that kind of fantasy ..

 

[Pretty_Priya]

Ok, so for those who have said, "No, no, my wife would NEVER...." Have you actually asked her? Because some of my clients have said to me, "Nobody would ever suspect that I have this hobby." And so, it's possible that your wife is also a lot kinkier than anyone would suspect....

 

[gynophile]

Hi Priya. There are couples counsellors (a few) who may encourage a couple to spice things up with an escort. No idea if they'd be receptive to an SP contacting them. I've heard of some poly-friendly ones here in Victoria, might be open to it.

 

[Pretty_Priya]

Interesting idea gynophile. Thanks for the suggestion.

 

[johnA27]

I wouldnt be opposed to trying it with an SO, or swinging or something. I'd have to have an SO first though...... =(

 

[take8easy]

Almost all men would, almost no gf/so/wife would. Our home is no exception either.

I have not read responses above by other men but I am sure many would concur.

T8E

 

[badbadboy]

Funny, I used to hang out with an ATF after our sessions and we would go through the ads together on eros, leo and Perb.

She wanted to go as a 'civilian' with me basically as her wingman as part of a couple to visit some of the SP's advertising couples were welcome.

I thought it was an interesting concept

 

[Chef99]

Hey Guys, I'm curious if anyone here has ever visited an SP with their significant other..

Yes! Noticed wifey was into watching girl on girl porn once in awhile so I used that to verbally explore what fantasies she might have. Eventually she agreed to try it so hired an SP who came to our home. Had a fantastic 2 hour session that started with drinks and appies and progressed from there. I tried to let the 2 of them go at it but that didn't last two long as eventually they started to pay attention to me as well. Afterward, my wife said she enjoyed the session but was a bit jealous when the SP and I were interacting. After that, wifey was talking with a very frugal long time friend about the experience. They asked why the heck we would pay money for the experience when we could engage other couples without a fee via the swinging experience. She thought that was a great idea. That was about 3 or 4 years ago and we're still having fun with it....

 

[chitown]

There's people who are definitely interested, every so often you hear people asking for recommendations a an SP who could cater to a couple... For example this one was less than a month ago: https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?229800-Recomendations-for-wife

If you want to attract more couple clients, Priya, you could also include a line in your ad or website about it. Something like: "Ask me about my special couple rates," or something along those lines.

 

[bdan]

The thing is, is that, ultimately, from every thread I've ever read on this subject. The wife ends up jealous. Period. Not always but often enough for it to be obvious.
If it's your desire to pursue your own exploration, perhaps a non pfp situation would be best. The delicate balance between a couple would be easier to negotiate without throwing money into the mix.
I'd think anyway.

 

[UhOh]

If I had married the girl I was in love with no way would I bring her to an SP. Any girl I've dated since yeah maybe if she was into it.

 

[Pretty_Priya]

Thank you. I appreciate the suggestion.