problem with that is...they ALL age, not that they become unattractive, they will be a grandmother some dayIf I have decided to marry that sp, one thing for sure,she must be very pretty and attractive!
...better have more then looks...
Would you get married with an escort girl?
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...better have more then looks...You are forgetting the most important factor Alin.. emotion.
It rules some peoples lives, but you do make good points for long-term.
I'd dislike going out with someone who has nothing on the brain. My regular is very intelligent, and for that I am thankful.
It rules some peoples lives, but you do make good points for long-term.
I'd dislike going out with someone who has nothing on the brain. My regular is very intelligent, and for that I am thankful.
Pretty and attractive rank a distant third (if not fourth) on the requirement list.If I have decided to marry that sp, one thing for sure,she must be very pretty and attractive!
There's more than a simple reversal of the question in that statement.Hardly.
She just reversed the question.
A friend once summed it up...."I love my wife, but I am not in love with her"
Hard to understand that tho, unless you've been there....
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A good line I saw in a movie once says it best...
That is actually a very astute observation because people get hung up on the love/lust thing. Desire, however, is very powerful... but it is transient and still focused on self-gratification.
I used to define love as 'lust with sentiment' but that's simplistic too.
Ultimately it's all a trick designed by evolution to make you stick with your woman long enough to rear her children into self-sufficiency (hence the '7 year itch')
Personally, I think love is something we all chase (men and women) because we only experience it when we are lucky enough to get unconditional love from our parents... something which we try to find again later in life and which doesn't exist.
After that, there are only two forms of true love... the love between a boy and his dog... and the love of a man for his own shlong....
It might have been 'City of God' about kids in a Brazilian slum. In one scene a young dude professes his love for a girl and she tells him. 'You don't feel love, you feel desire'.
That is actually a very astute observation because people get hung up on the love/lust thing. Desire, however, is very powerful... but it is transient and still focused on self-gratification.
I used to define love as 'lust with sentiment' but that's simplistic too.
Ultimately it's all a trick designed by evolution to make you stick with your woman long enough to rear her children into self-sufficiency (hence the '7 year itch')
Personally, I think love is something we all chase (men and women) because we only experience it when we are lucky enough to get unconditional love from our parents... something which we try to find again later in life and which doesn't exist.
After that, there are only two forms of true love... the love between a boy and his dog... and the love of a man for his own shlong....
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westcoast555
Uh... OK
A good conventional marriage where your haggard wife gets horny running around cleaning the house, balancing the finances, dealing with children and melting at the site of your middle age pot belly and knowing that she can have your precious dong and only yours for eternity?
I'm single and from what I hear from married men ( and all the fathers in the world )... marriage is just one, long, endless, joyful orgy!
I can't wait to get married!
LOL! As opposed to a good conventional marriage where that never happens?
A good conventional marriage where your haggard wife gets horny running around cleaning the house, balancing the finances, dealing with children and melting at the site of your middle age pot belly and knowing that she can have your precious dong and only yours for eternity?
I'm single and from what I hear from married men ( and all the fathers in the world )... marriage is just one, long, endless, joyful orgy!
I can't wait to get married!
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westcoast555
Yes... let me clarify the subtext
What it really says is.. "Is this a 'fallen woman' who has found love and redemption' or is this a case of a predatory whore just cashing in and finding a deluded, wealthy sugar daddy who is indulging his fantasy of having a beautiful woman actually feel desire for him?"
Of course this question rears its ugly head many times when the 'trophy' in question has no history of sex work whatsoever. Perhaps we best not pull to hard on this thread!
My own twice-divorced father refers to himself as 'donor of sperm and signer of cheques'
That 'reversal' does say it all...
What it really says is.. "Is this a 'fallen woman' who has found love and redemption' or is this a case of a predatory whore just cashing in and finding a deluded, wealthy sugar daddy who is indulging his fantasy of having a beautiful woman actually feel desire for him?"
Of course this question rears its ugly head many times when the 'trophy' in question has no history of sex work whatsoever. Perhaps we best not pull to hard on this thread!
My own twice-divorced father refers to himself as 'donor of sperm and signer of cheques'
I can't see why you wouldn't marry. You're marrying her for who she is now, not for who she was in the past. All the same issues that a "normal" couple would discuss prior to marriage should still be discussed, with a couple of additional items. Your pooning and her escorting would need thorough discussion and some agreement concerning what each of you are prepared to do now and in the future. You need to be sure that you love her for who she is...who she was and who she might become are beyond your control.
an old post. sorry for the bump..i was searching for Violet and found it, had to comment.
Why wouldn't someone marry an SP? I mean...look at it this way..
if she knows you poon (or use to) and she is an SP, or use to be ... wouldn't that make for a better relationship, assuming there wasn't an jealousy?
hell, wouldn't that potentially make for a fantastic relationship...just think of the fantasies you could play out ... or hell, hire another SP and have threesomes! =)
thumbs up from me, i would, no problem! =)
Why wouldn't someone marry an SP? I mean...look at it this way..
if she knows you poon (or use to) and she is an SP, or use to be ... wouldn't that make for a better relationship, assuming there wasn't an jealousy?
hell, wouldn't that potentially make for a fantastic relationship...just think of the fantasies you could play out ... or hell, hire another SP and have threesomes! =)
thumbs up from me, i would, no problem! =)
Exactly I love the fantasies! I can't wait to get an sp on my man's cock.... oops, did I say that out loud?!
Facinating question...
Part of the reason I DIDN'T offer sexual services for a long time was that I was in a great relationship with a guy who loved that I was a Domme but would not have been comfortable with me having sex with men for money.
No ultimatum, just a respect and consideration thing.
We parted amicably for other reasons and I finally opened up my menu and have been loving being orally worshipped and using HJ torture as a big part of my 'work'.
After a little break we are now very good friends and work together doing fetish porn. He knows that sexual services are on my menu but doesn't want to hear about it. It bothers him.
This from a man who loves me still, a great deal, and accepts me for most of my perversions and 'quirks'.
I felt that by offering sexual services I was eliminating my chances for a healthy normal relationship with a good man. I decided to gamble and do what I want, what feels right for me now. I'm very content being single anyway.
I'd like to think that in a perfect world a man would accept me for who I am. All of me. Even celebrate it. Yet I recognize the stigma that is attached to being a 'whore'.
Time will tell...
Part of the reason I DIDN'T offer sexual services for a long time was that I was in a great relationship with a guy who loved that I was a Domme but would not have been comfortable with me having sex with men for money.
No ultimatum, just a respect and consideration thing.
We parted amicably for other reasons and I finally opened up my menu and have been loving being orally worshipped and using HJ torture as a big part of my 'work'.
After a little break we are now very good friends and work together doing fetish porn. He knows that sexual services are on my menu but doesn't want to hear about it. It bothers him.
This from a man who loves me still, a great deal, and accepts me for most of my perversions and 'quirks'.
I felt that by offering sexual services I was eliminating my chances for a healthy normal relationship with a good man. I decided to gamble and do what I want, what feels right for me now. I'm very content being single anyway.
I'd like to think that in a perfect world a man would accept me for who I am. All of me. Even celebrate it. Yet I recognize the stigma that is attached to being a 'whore'.
Time will tell...
How about looking at it this way: would an SP marry you? If you've been with her, then you've probably been with other SPs, and she has the right to question your "staying" power. Commitment runs both ways. If she's into you in a loving way, then it's a beginning.
job shouldn't matter...
Would I marry an SP? would I marry a waitress? Yes to both.
Man, if the person is right, who fucking cares if she used to fuck for money. More power to her, wish I could make that kind of bank.
Waaaay too much cynicism about marriage around here btw. I love my wife more now than I did when I asked her to marry me (10 years!). This marriage stuff can and does work out well sometimes to ya know...
Would I marry an SP? would I marry a waitress? Yes to both.
Man, if the person is right, who fucking cares if she used to fuck for money. More power to her, wish I could make that kind of bank.
Waaaay too much cynicism about marriage around here btw. I love my wife more now than I did when I asked her to marry me (10 years!). This marriage stuff can and does work out well sometimes to ya know...
I will be the last person to be cynical about love. I firmly believe in it, and don't believe a successful marriage is a 50/50 crap shoot..it is all about the person you pick, how you relate to eachother, how open you are about things, and the respect..
if you don't talk, don't express what bothers you, bottle things up, don't spend time together...sure...i can see it as a crap shoot...but who would want that relationship anyway??
if you don't talk, don't express what bothers you, bottle things up, don't spend time together...sure...i can see it as a crap shoot...but who would want that relationship anyway??
Would I ever marry an SP?...
well sure If they wold marry me and everything clicked just right.
Hell I'm a Pooner, so whats the difference really?..
If she were to quit the working field and I were to retire what would be the problem?.
well sure If they wold marry me and everything clicked just right.
Hell I'm a Pooner, so whats the difference really?..
If she were to quit the working field and I were to retire what would be the problem?.
