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UhOh

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Cami I'm available call me. Lets kick this towns ass.
But don't keep me out late, and I hope you're not a snorer.
 

Man in Submission

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One pattern on this thread I'm not very fond of is the misconception that we ladies don't think highly of our clients or that we would consider you any different than any other man. I see lots of clients that are fun, sweet, charming, funny, articulate etc etc ... Basically possessing all the qualities you would appreciate in a person. I mean, if I continue to see you that must mean I like you right? I wouldn't just keep inviting someone I didn't enjoy to come over and spend time with me and share my bed. I always say I have lots of lots of boyfriends and I'm lucky for it. It just so happens that we met in a less conventional way, and we maintain a sort of relationship that is simple, has proven to be without flaw and allows us to enjoy each other company without any complication getting in the way. Everyone who says that the ladies don't sincerely enjoy the time spent with our gentleman callers is side most definitely misinformed, at least for me.
That was extremely well put Ms Parker. I have not experienced a lot (in terms of quantity of SPs) but am proud and humbled to say I have always been cordially welcomed back by each that I have. It is important to remember not to have a sense of entitlement to see a lady just because you can cobble together the required donation. Being polite, well-spoken and mindful of proper protocol on original contact, then displaying courtesy, respect, humility and a genuinely pleasant demeanour, along with being clean, well-groomed and neatly attired, gives a fella a genuinely good chance of pleasing a lady and earning the opportunity of a return engagement when the time is mutually appropriate. I realize this is sort of off the original topic, but I thought Ms Parker made some excellent points.

Oh, and go Rangers!:thumb:

MIS
 

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That was extremely well put Ms Parker. I have not experienced a lot (in terms of quantity of SPs) but am proud and humbled to say I have always been cordially welcomed back by each that I have. It is important to remember not to have a sense of entitlement to see a lady just because you can cobble together the required donation. Being polite, well-spoken and mindful of proper protocol on original contact, then displaying courtesy, respect, humility and a genuinely pleasant demeanour, along with being clean, well-groomed and neatly attired, gives a fella a genuinely good chance of pleasing a lady and earning the opportunity of a return engagement when the time is mutually appropriate. I realize this is sort of off the original topic, but I thought Ms Parker made some excellent points.

Oh, and go Rangers!:thumb:

MIS
All that stuff is great but you're stuck in john mode. This thread is about dating and for that ladies want big dick and someone that knows how to use it, don't overthink it, amiright ladies
 

Cami Parker

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Thank you for saying so. It's true that a lot of guys seem to think that as long as they have the donation we will then feel obligated to see them, or that they can act less respectful than they would with any lady because of making said donation. It's just not the case...


That was extremely well put Ms Parker. I have not experienced a lot (in terms of quantity of SPs) but am proud and humbled to say I have always been cordially welcomed back by each that I have. It is important to remember not to have a sense of entitlement to see a lady just because you can cobble together the required donation. Being polite, well-spoken and mindful of proper protocol on original contact, then displaying courtesy, respect, humility and a genuinely pleasant demeanour, along with being clean, well-groomed and neatly attired, gives a fella a genuinely good chance of pleasing a lady and earning the opportunity of a return engagement when the time is mutually appropriate. I realize this is sort of off the original topic, but I thought Ms Parker made some excellent points.

Oh, and go Rangers!:thumb:

MIS
 

Dickson

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I might add that the dating of a SP goes both ways. Just as a SP is judged by her new boy friend regarding what her past tells about her so it goes for us who "date" SPs. I have had past relationships that are shattered when the lady learns I was with SPs in the past. We too are tanted because of the hobby. Something is wrong with us because we partook in the hobby. Maybe it is only me but I have had two past relationship that crumbled and wet up in flames due to the lady finding out I had been with SPs.

For me the idea of dating a SP means we are both in the same boat. Neither can cast stones because we both live in a glass house.
 

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the lady finding out I had been with SPs.
If you just stick to sex for an hour or two and careful about what you say/delete phone records/emails, odds are very low you will be caught.
I think you get too close to your SP's with trips, fancy shopping sprees, cars etc
 

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One pattern on this thread I'm not very fond of is the misconception that we ladies don't think highly of our clients or that we would consider you any different than any other man. I see lots of clients that are fun, sweet, charming, funny, articulate etc etc ... Basically possessing all the qualities you would appreciate in a person. I mean, if I continue to see you that must mean I like you right? I wouldn't just keep inviting someone I didn't enjoy to come over and spend time with me and share my bed. I always say I have lots of lots of boyfriends and I'm lucky for it. It just so happens that we met in a less conventional way, and we maintain a sort of relationship that is simple, has proven to be without flaw and allows us to enjoy each other company without any complication getting in the way. Everyone who says that the ladies don't sincerely enjoy the time spent with our gentleman callers is side most definitely misinformed, at least for me.
True, as far as enjoying a person as a client but, it's not proper protocol for the SP to keep inviting the client back. It's always the client who initiates the booking.

I might add that the dating of a SP goes both ways. Just as a SP is judged by her new boy friend regarding what her past tells about her so it goes for us who "date" SPs. I have had past relationships that are shattered when the lady learns I was with SPs in the past. We too are tanted because of the hobby. Something is wrong with us because we partook in the hobby. Maybe it is only me but I have had two past relationship that crumbled and wet up in flames due to the lady finding out I had been with SPs.

For me the idea of dating a SP means we are both in the same boat. Neither can cast stones because we both live in a glass house.
This is also very true for how to approach the answer to the question- "So what does your girlfriend do?" You gotta agree on an acceptable "day job" to tell people.
 

Man in Submission

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True, as far as enjoying a person as a client but, it's not proper protocol for the SP to keep inviting the client back. It's always the client who initiates the booking.
IMHO, I think Cami means that if a pleasant and respectful client asks for a return engagement, then she would welcome him back. :)
 

Dickson

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True, as far as enjoying a person as a client but, it's not proper protocol for the SP to keep inviting the client back. It's always the client who initiates the booking.



This is also very true for how to approach the answer to the question- "So what does your girlfriend do?" You gotta agree on an acceptable "day job" to tell people.
Yea part of the fun is coming up with the story on what she does and how we met. People ays ask so how did you met Dickson or Dickson where in the hell did you get hooked up with her? You need a believable back story. I really enjoy having dinner before to discuss our back story. When did we met and where. I find that a blast blending fact with fiction.
 

Dickson

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If you just stick to sex for an hour or two and careful about what you say/delete phone records/emails, odds are very low you will be caught.
I think you get too close to your SP's with trips, fancy shopping sprees, cars etc
Not too worried about getting caught can no change the past. I just want to let you know it is not just the SP who is singaled out. "Real" ladies do not like the idea that their boyfriend sees SPs as it means there is something wrong with him.

It always comes out at some point. So ratjer hide it come clean and because I am older no need to play games. I like SPs because they too live in a glass house they do not throw that in my face everytime there is a disagrement. We are on even playing ground. It is netural playing field.
 

nickcan

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"Real" ladies do not like the idea that their boyfriend sees SPs as it means there is something wrong with him.

It always comes out at some point.
Can't see how it can come out unless you can't keep your mouth shut?
You probably have lots of good stories/photos/trips with these SP's and your real new girlfriend asks you about these SP's.

No kidding most women don't like men who visit SP's!
 

Cami Parker

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I never thought of it that way, but you do make some very good points...


I might add that the dating of a SP goes both ways. Just as a SP is judged by her new boy friend regarding what her past tells about her so it goes for us who "date" SPs. I have had past relationships that are shattered when the lady learns I was with SPs in the past. We too are tanted because of the hobby. Something is wrong with us because we partook in the hobby. Maybe it is only me but I have had two past relationship that crumbled and wet up in flames due to the lady finding out I had been with SPs.

For me the idea of dating a SP means we are both in the same boat. Neither can cast stones because we both live in a glass house.
 

Cami Parker

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www.camiparker.ca
It's just words, and you knew exactly what I meant and are just being a smart ass. "Welcome you back" is that better for you? Lol

True, as far as enjoying a person as a client but, it's not proper protocol for the SP to keep inviting the client back. It's always the client who initiates the booking.



This is also very true for how to approach the answer to the question- "So what does your girlfriend do?" You gotta agree on an acceptable "day job" to tell people.
 
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