*~* would you date an sp? *~*

[UhOh]

I thought you were supposed to put your dick in a box? Like JT?

Put in a box yes, but not anything like a JT box.

 

[Big-Daddy-T]

SoOo.... I'm currently single and loving it. It uncomplicates my life. However, I have had relationships in the 6 years I've been in this business. Of course, in the interest of full disclosure, I strongly believe you must always always be 100% honest about what it is you do when perusing a relationship of the dating/"monogamous" nature. I have had some boyfriends who couldn't care less.... I tell them once they say ok, and never think about it again as they believe (correctly) that it doesn't effect our relationship. I have had boyfriends that absolutely love it. They think it's so hot and want to use detailed accounts of my exploits as fodder for our own personal sex life. I've had guys that thought they were ok with it initially, but found themselves unexpectedly driven insane with jealousy (needless to say, that didn't work out! Lol) And I've had guys that have said "No Way! Thanks, but No Thanks! No Judgement!" (Understandably so, I'd say.... I don't necessarily blame them for their stance on the issue... I don't like to share either lol)

So the question is this:

GUYS: Have you/Would you date an SP? Why or why not?

LADIES: Would you care to share some of your "real world relationship" experiences while working? I prefer running my business while blissfully unattached... Makes my life easier... How about you?

I CAN't wait to hear everyone's insight. I'm sure it will be fascinating.....

I absolutely would date a SP socially. I believe people are polyamorous by nature, and that we can be spiritually and emotionally monogamous without having to be physically monogamous. Besides, I just think that dating a woman who has sex for a living would be hot as hell.

 

[1nitestan]

I absolutely would date a SP socially. I believe people are polyamorous by nature, and that we can be spiritually and emotionally monogamous without having to be physically monogamous. Besides, I just think that dating a woman who has sex for a living would be hot as hell.

Hahaha. And being a mechanic means you love to have your head under a hood 24/7. Have you seen the kinds of cars most mechanics drive?....Mostly Corollas cuz they never need servicing and they're cheap.

 

[deleted Miss Lux]

The downside is that there are often trust, self esteem issues and then there is sometimes the feeling of the need to receive something for the sex. I have seen this take a very long time to wear off.

I think this is an interesting observation... Since I have entered this industry, my standards have definitely changed in the dating world. I would say I do require something in return, but it's more of the connection, interest and respect variety. Like... If you can't entertain me with more than your cock, then yes... You may as well be paying.
Like you said, it likely depends on the female and what their intention is though

xoxo Fiona Lux

 

[Juno]

I think this is an interesting observation... Since I have entered this industry, my standards have definitely changed in the dating world. I would say I do require something in return, but it's more of the connection, interest and respect variety. Like... If you can't entertain me with more than your cock, then yes... You may as well be paying.
Like you said, it likely depends on the female and what their intention is though

xoxo Fiona Lux

Does that mean most men who participate in this hobby have issues ??

 

[yazoo]

I think this is an interesting observation... Since I have entered this industry, my standards have definitely changed in the dating world. I would say I do require something in return, but it's more of the connection, interest and respect variety. Like... If you can't entertain me with more than your cock, then yes... You may as well be paying.
Like you said, it likely depends on the female and what their intention is though
xoxo Fiona Lux

I think it is the same from the other side of the fence too. Since sex is available merely by opening a wallet, friendships have become more about being friends. There's no longer that tension of getting laid or not.

 

[deleted Miss Lux]

Does that mean most men who participate in this hobby have issues ??

Don't we all have some kind of "issue"? Not sure how you got that out of what I said though...

 

[deleted Miss Lux]

I think it is the same from the other side of the fence too. Since sex is available merely by opening a wallet, friendships have become more about being friends. There's no longer that tension of getting laid or not.

I see that as a pretty crucial foundation to any relationship worth investing in though... It all depends on intentions
I think I see what you're saying...

 

[Dickson]

I guess this the reason why I only date SPs. At least you know what you get and she knows what she gets. No surprises later on. At least we both understand the situation.

 

[dickotoole]

You sound a little selfish Blarney. Why not share, spread the wealth. If your partner sucks a good cock (I kinda miss BJ Hunter) why on earth would you not want to share that gift with others and make the world a nicer place.

"Hi honey, how was your day? Sounds like you had a good one or two if the reviews are true." I guess it might be a challenge to read how your partner sucked a cock or took it up the ass earlier in the day . . . and then honestly not care about that.

 

[badbadboy]

"Hi honey, how was your day? Sounds like you had a good one or two if the reviews are true." I guess it might be a challenge to read how your partner sucked a cock or took it up the ass earlier in the day . . . and then honestly not care about that.

My SO doesn't care, but doesn't want to hear either. I don't think he's on any review boards or would seek out any of my reviews. I lament some things to him (no shows etc) or recount hilarious requests (fart fetish? LOL), but never any details. He also lives quite far away from me, and when I see him it's always on my days off.

I think when its put in this perspective, I can totally relate to it. When in a LTR I never really liked hearing about her day and it was very much the same for her. Nevertheless, I was obligated to hear the download with lots of teeth grinding on my part and I was secretly praying that a thunderbolt would come through the window and take me out of my misery.

So I guess I have now changed my mind and would date an SP since it would be just like my last LTR. LAWLS :nod:

 

[PlayfulAlex]

I don't date women who get reviewed by other guys for how good they suck their knobs. This is strictly a hobby.

I've been away for a few days and couldn't help but reply in this long-standing thread! No offence, fellas, but I actually find it refreshing when I hear that there are guys out there who don't equate sex with every other sport out there, just something people do for entertainment. Sorry, it's just kind of refreshing, that's all! I'm not saying it's good or bad, do your thang! But just thanks for the sentiment, Blarney!

 

[Dickson]

I only date SPs!

 

[UhOh]

I'd bet its a bit of a conundrum. I'd assume the guys willing to date an sp are not the guys the sp's are looking for and the guys they are looking for would be unlikely interested. Like the fat girl who insists she's only interested in a guy thats a physical specimen. I know a crazy broad like that.
Sometimes we make choices for the short term that limit our options in the long term. What we're looking for can be found but it becomes a needle in a haystack, unless we lie lie lie and is that the type of relationship anyone wants.

 

[Man in Submission]

I think a lot of guys believe what they want to believe. An SP is polite and complimentary so they automatically assume "this girl likes me". Whereas being polite and complimentary, while no doubt genuine to a large degree, is also part of the job description. I would hazard to guess there are infinitely more guys wanting to date an SP than vice-versa. Highly regarded ladies such as the great majority on perb work diligently to build their business/clientele, and aren't going to discard their careers in their prime earning years for some guy with a hard-on, nice set of pecs and a bouquet of roses in his hand. There are exceptions as I know first-hand, but for the most part, fellas, don't delude yourselves. It ain't gonna happen! If it's a long-term relationship or life partner you want, there are more realistic options and avenues out there.

 

[vancouverman]

out of 40 pages of this thread.... and 100s of pages of same threads before this one ..... I wonder how many guys who really were dating SPs posted here. .... and I mean dating .... not seeing her "off the clock" ....

One?.... Five? .... it is a rare breed

Keep dreaming fellas ....

 

[BORKO]

out of 40 pages of this thread.... and 100s of pages of same threads before this one ..... I wonder how many guys who really were dating SPs posted here. .... and I mean dating .... not seeing her "off the clock" ....

One?.... Five? .... it is a rare breed

Keep dreaming fellas ....

Wait... what's the difference?

 

[yazoo]

OK, changing the question a bit - would you date a retired sp?

I was chatting with an old friend - long since retired - the other day. She is still single. She's sweet, strong and smoking hot, but as soon as guys hear about her past they run. So she lives alone, raises her kid, and grows (very beautiful) orchids. If I were single, I'd wouldn't hesitate.

 

[BORKO]

OK, changing the question a bit - would you date a retired sp?

I was chatting with an old friend - long since retired - the other day. She is still single. She's sweet, strong and smoking hot, but as soon as guys hear about her past they run. So she lives alone, raises her kid, and grows (very beautiful) orchids. If I were single, I'd wouldn't hesitate.

Why would she tell people about her past though?

 

[yazoo]

Why would she tell people about her past though?

Cuz it's not something she wants to surface after she's invested several years into a relationship. Better someone who can handle reality now. I see her logic.