*~* would you date an sp? *~*

[UhOh]

Well, at least you’re not claiming to speak on behalf of all men, but dude, you only need to look. There are sex clubs, swingers that’ll hold their wife down for you, a lot of places and a lot of people that are totally ok with letting/watching/helping some other dude bang their woman. I’ve had an Ex-GF (when we were together) tell me she wanted to watch me rape someone, WTF?

I know all that stuff goes on but do you think thats the guy the original post is looking for?

 

[yazoo]

I think that lots of guys are happy to give freedom in return for freedom. You can still have a great relationship - especially when nothing is hidden. Actually BECAUSE nothing is hidden.

How many of us are living the lie of a happy picket fence relationship?

 

[UhOh]

Original post? We’re on page 30 man, I’ll be dead before able to read from beginning to end!
The point was that more people than you would think are actually into this and no, they are not all deranged. I’m sure some of them are, but there’s also good church going folk (without any sex club past) that are deranged and killing puppies and you would never know it.

It’s just different strokes for different folks and I think any link to mental illness is just a slight from narrow minded people unable to contemplate a lifestyle different from their own.

You jumped in on page 4, I assume you must of paid attention to what the topic is about. Had you paid attention to the details you would of noticed that Cami, the original poster, mentioned she wasn't interested in sharing her guy.

Whats the point of even mentioning swingers. I would think it obvious they don't mind sharing so why would they care if their girlfriend happened to be getting paid for it also.

I could be wrong but I made the assumption the question related to men living a moderate conventional lifestyle, whatever that might be and dating an SP but that person is unlikely to be found on perb.

 

[PlayfulAlex]

SoOo.... I'm currently single and loving it. It uncomplicates my life. However, I have had relationships in the 6 years I've been in this business. Of course, in the interest of full disclosure, I strongly believe you must always always be 100% honest about what it is you do when perusing a relationship of the dating/"monogamous" nature. I have had some boyfriends who couldn't care less.... I tell them once they say ok, and never think about it again as they believe (correctly) that it doesn't effect our relationship. I have had boyfriends that absolutely love it. They think it's so hot and want to use detailed accounts of my exploits as fodder for our own personal sex life. I've had guys that thought they were ok with it initially, but found themselves unexpectedly driven insane with jealousy (needless to say, that didn't work out! Lol) And I've had guys that have said "No Way! Thanks, but No Thanks! No Judgement!" (Understandably so, I'd say.... I don't necessarily blame them for their stance on the issue... I don't like to share either lol)

So the question is this:

GUYS: Have you/Would you date an SP? Why or why not?

LADIES: Would you care to share some of your "real world relationship" experiences while working? I prefer running my business while blissfully unattached... Makes my life easier... How about you?

I CAN't wait to hear everyone's insight. I'm sure it will be fascinating.....

Original post? We’re on page 30 man, I’ll be dead before able to read from beginning to end!
The point was that more people than you would think are actually into this and no, they are not all deranged. I’m sure some of them are, but there’s also good church going folk (without any sex club past) that are deranged and killing puppies and you would never know it.

It’s just different strokes for different folks and I think any link to mental illness is just a slight from narrow minded people unable to contemplate a lifestyle different from their own.

You jumped in on page 4, I assume you must of paid attention to what the topic is about. Had you paid attention to the details you would of noticed that Cami, the original poster, mentioned she wasn't interested in sharing her guy.

Whats the point of even mentioning swingers. I would think it obvious they don't mind sharing so why would they care if their girlfriend happened to be getting paid for it also.

I could be wrong but I made the assumption the question related to men living a moderate conventional lifestyle, whatever that might be and dating an SP but that person is unlikely to be found on perb.

Fellas, a quick review of Post #1 reveals that the topic wasn't about Cami per se but rather, her question, "Would you date an SP?" Threads have a tendency to morph into all sorts of different contexts so, make of it what you will. You can choose to answer the darned question, or spend the rest of the evening arguing over what the original topic was supposed to address, and if it's ok to mention different lifestyles in a thread about dating SPs! Sheesh!

30 pages is an awful long way to go back, yeah, but I think I stated earlier that I would prefer not to have a guy in my life while in this industry. Once I'm retired, I'll be very proud of my sexy history and the happiness I brought to my guests, but I'll never be a braggart. And I wouldn't be able to be with someone who didn't respect me and my decisions, past, present, and future. A prude and I would never get along, but neither would a swinger and I.

 

[Cami Parker]

Hi Lovey,
That's awesome I'm really happy for you that you guys enjoy such a strong healthy and fun relationship!

Hi Cami,

I thought I would just add my 2 cents in seeing as how this thread is now a couple of months old. Believe it or not, there are guys out there who would have no problem with what you do for a living. You just have to find them. And they have to find you.

My wife and I are swingers and have been so for a few years now. It took me a while for the idea to set in, but now, I enjoy watching her with another man or 2. She gets great pleasure playing with other men. I love her and I that includes wanting her to be happy and pleased in ways that a single partner can't do. We have been together for a long time and I know she will not leave me and vice versa. We have great sex during her play time with other men, and also after that, reliving the experience. These other men she plays with could be one time events, or a regular. Just like the men in your business. I am excited and look forward to our sessions with other men.

Therefore, I am saying that out there, there is a man that if he loves you very much, would have no problems with you seeing other men for sex. He will know that you enjoy your work, and he might even want you to relate your experiences that day to him. He will get excited hearing them, like I am excited to hear what my wife did and had done to her. And don't forget too, that for many men, this is a power trip. They are happy to have a wife so beautiful and sexually talented that other men would pay money for her services, whereas, he gets a better experience with her for free. It makes them feel superior that they have a wife of GF that only other men can dream off.

I also know an SP many years ago in Richmond that had the same experience with her husband. She would tell her husband about all the guys that she had sex with during the day, and he got excited hearing about them. So, I am sure you will find someone like this. Hope this helps.

 

[Cami Parker]

Ain't that the truth?!?

Original post? We’re on page 30 man, I’ll be dead before able to read from beginning to end!
The point was that more people than you would think are actually into this and no, they are not all deranged. I’m sure some of them are, but there’s also good church going folk (without any sex club past) that are deranged and killing puppies and you would never know it.

It’s just different strokes for different folks and I think any link to mental illness is just a slight from narrow minded people unable to contemplate a lifestyle different from their own.

 

[Cami Parker]

i would prefer not to have a guy in my life while in this industry. Once i'm retired, i'll be very proud of my sexy history and the happiness i brought to my guests, but i'll never be a braggart. And i wouldn't be able to be with someone who didn't respect me and my decisions, past, present, and future. A prude and i would never get along, but neither would a swinger and i.

amen!!!!!!!!

 

[Cami Parker]

i would prefer not to have a guy in my life while in this industry. Once i'm retired, i'll be very proud of my sexy history and the happiness i brought to my guests, but i'll never be a braggart. And i wouldn't be able to be with someone who didn't respect me and my decisions, past, present, and future. A prude and i would never get along, but neither would a swinger and i.

amen!!!!!!!!

 

[Man in Submission]

I am pretty sure I'd be OK with it. I have never been the jealous and/or obsessive type at all, though unfortunately can't say the same for many of my GFs (as well as fiancée and a wife) over the years. Plus, I love playing sports, watching sports, spending time at the gym and writing ... and I find many times in relationships I eventually end up giving up some of the things I enjoy and then start to resent it. I like my own space a lot and dating an SP would presumably give me enough of that desired time to myself, and ditto for her. Whether that all makes for a functional relationship I can't really say, but it's neither something I would actively pursue, nor something I would have a lot of trepidation about. Sexually, it's an intriguing concept because I am anything but vanilla and I'm guessing most SPs wouldn't be either.
It's probably not unlike any relationship where if your entire focus is completely on your partner, you obsess over them and suffocate them, there is a good chance it would fail.

 

[PlayfulAlex]

snip...Alex – Let me know when you are ready to retire
I do not think I could handle being with an active SP for too long, but past is the past and matters not.

NB...maybe we should meet first? wink

 

[UhOh]

I have been in it from the beginning, but in my last post where I quoted you, you mentioned “OP” and “guy”, as Cami is very much a gal (and sexy as all Hell!) as well as the OP, I had assumed that you were commenting on a sub-topic (sub-OP) and therefore I mentioned not re-reading 30 pages.

***Now I wonder if you meant to say the “Guy” the “OP” is looking for?***

What you were describing seemed not to be what she was looking for. Anyway everyone's not looking for the same thing.

I wouldn't date an active SP. The reason is mostly out of health concerns. Everytime after seeing an SP I visit the clinic. No way would I be able to do that everytime after having sex with a girlfriend.
I don't think I'd have 100% control over who I want to be with. I used to say I'd never date a smoker yet had the time of my life for 6 months with one, I moved and ended it. I thought I never wanted to be with a single mom but found one I really did want to be with, although she turned out to be a bit too wild.
A girl thats fun and cool to be with and done with the industry might turn out to be someone I couldn't resist. It depends on the individual and nothing else.

 

[thebuttdance continues]

I once had thought opposite, but I don't think escorts are dateable unless they move on entirely away from this business. A guy's propensity for jealousy factors in also, if he really does want to pursue a relationship with her.

 

[Dickson]

I said it before and say it again YES
I now only date SPs gave up on regular ladies. I am not going to deal with a lady who goes crazy because I saw a SP. SPs are the only ones worth dating. It is clean and no surprises. Why do we make things so complicated.

 

[Dickson]

I said it before and say it again YES
I now only date SPs gave up on regular ladies. I am not going to deal with a lady who goes crazy because I saw a SP. SPs are the only ones worth dating. It is clean and no surprises. Why do we make things so complicated.

 

[ltrain]

Honestly, I'm thinking about asking one sp out right now. I will probably ask her next week

 

[crunkory]

Honestly, I'm thinking about asking one sp out right now. I will probably ask her next week

hahahahahahahahahahahahaha!!!!!!!

 

[ltrain]

hahahahahahahahahahahahaha!!!!!!!

What's so funny?

 

[dipsett]

i wouldnt and the reason i wouldnt is because the type of family i want to raise is one thats going to have jewish values in it.

 

[UhOh]

What's so funny?

Ignore him, just be sure to leave a tip.

Oh, and don't forget to write a review.

 

[1nitestan]

i wouldnt and the reason i wouldnt is because the type of family i want to raise is one thats going to have jewish values in it.

Reminds me of an old joke:

What does a jewish princess make for dinner?
Reservations

Sounds pretty similar to me LOL