would you be ok with paying your sp, and going away not having sex.
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I am not in a position to judge what some people need to create a sense of fullfilment. to each their own, and if the OP doesnt have any friends or family, or even if he does, and seeing this person makes his day happy and good all the power to him. Yeah some of us do have family, but sometimes family relationships can be a pretty fucked up thing for various reasons. I know that sometimes I need to get away from them, even though I love them very much. strange? yes, but thats the way it is. For me though, I chose to keep my activities in this hobby private and will always remain private and is for one thing only..sex. I have no interest in getting to know any of the SP's on a personal level, and will stop seeing one should I feel that connection building in that direction (it has happened before) Maybe I am missing out on something wonderfull, and I have nothing against or any ill will towards the beautiful ladies out there, but it is what it is for me, and thats just a provision to satisfy my sexual desires.
Emilioa, I heard ya my friend...Personally, I've had many many sp's give me discounts and ask to hang out...but I refuse, just because I want to keep the situation simple...
In fact, a couple of SP's in the past have fallen in love with me and two asked me to marry their sisters from overseas!!!!!!!!!!
ound:Well said Angie,
If sevenofnine is happy with the arrangement who are we to be crtical. He pays his hard earned cash and has a right to spend the time whatever way he pleases as long as the lady is comfortable with it. I enjoy all aspects of time spent with the ladies. I enjoy contacting them, love the excitement of seeing them for the first time, enjoy the chit chat befroe and after, and of course i enjoy the one on one private time as well. It is not strictly about positions, and acronyms although that part is fun too.
The girls i spend time with are great listeners and the conversation is always fun. I usually book for an hour or longer and in that time it is not all physical. A very well known SP once told me she looks for a connection with her clients and those that have this connection usually enjoy their time with her much better than those seeking a quickie. She says intimacy is the biggest part for her clients. I tend to believe her and maintain that connection with any girl i see, thus resulting in a mutually satisfying session.
The girls are amazing in my opinon, they provide this service and do so enthusiastically. I treat the sessions like dates, and try and charm the ladies. If i were on a date and the lady invited me to her room i doubt i would enter and go straight to the physical part. If it were just the sex i wanted i would stay home with my SO but i enjoy every part of the process.
Just my opinion but sevenofnine is not in need of therapy or anything, he just has a special connection with this lady and if he is happy with it great.
sevenofnine you are ok in my books and good on you to find what makes you happy... I found out when you least expect it you will be rewarded in a way you will never forget...For those who expect it will be forever lost in what is truly memorable.
We can all be assholes at times in our lives, I admit I let my feelings get the better of me when I see people belittle or act in a malicious manner towards others.
I personally do not have anything against you Chevy529 and share some of the same views as you, I just did not approve of your distastefull comment towards Vanesssa.
ITB, I have to congratulate you on getting a rise out of me, I can admit that my assumation of you was harsh and the wrong way to get my point across, but your treatment and unfair assesment Of Seven was brutal and unnecessary, he took the time to share some thoughts and feelings that are important to him and was looking for some insight that might help him understand his situation better, that was all.
So I admit my methods of dealing with both situations could have been handled with a bit more tact, but seriously, if you take a moment to read the comments I am refering to, with an objective point of view, you might see where I am coming from.
We want people to share thier experiences and opinions and they should be able to do so without fear of ridicule or ignorance.
So, in short, all three of us were assholes in one way or another, and the end result was just a bunch of bullshit that buried the origional intent of the thread.
Hunka, Gary and the others who added thier perspectives to this, I like the fact that both sides of the debate have thier pro's.
I just guess for me, if I am able to establish a stonger chemistry by talking for 15 to 30 min's with a lady of my choice, it just enhances the experience for us both. I consider myself a very social person who has amazing friends in my life, just for me I find social interaction to be fascinating and seeing that chemistry build is a huge turn on for me.
You guys crack me up.
I'm not old, lonely or desperate. I have been on the sidelines for a while as I was seeing a nice young lady for a while but back in April I took out my favourite SP to a nice dinner and then up to a hotel room on my birthday. We had a very nice time chatting over dinner. She told me about a classic car she has and we talked about some things we have in common. The kicker was it turned out that a 'friend' arrived right after dinner so we really didn't get too much use of the room, as it were, but still managed to have a great time talking and cuddling and I have no complaints. Sometimes, it's just about making that connection and enjoying the moment. It doesn't always have to be about, as someone else described, "being balls deep with her knees by her ears."
Which reminds me, I'm not benched any longer... I may just have to make a call. If you'll excuse me...
I'm not old, lonely or desperate. I have been on the sidelines for a while as I was seeing a nice young lady for a while but back in April I took out my favourite SP to a nice dinner and then up to a hotel room on my birthday. We had a very nice time chatting over dinner. She told me about a classic car she has and we talked about some things we have in common. The kicker was it turned out that a 'friend' arrived right after dinner so we really didn't get too much use of the room, as it were, but still managed to have a great time talking and cuddling and I have no complaints. Sometimes, it's just about making that connection and enjoying the moment. It doesn't always have to be about, as someone else described, "being balls deep with her knees by her ears."
Which reminds me, I'm not benched any longer... I may just have to make a call. If you'll excuse me...
