"if you are like me ... you are destined to be with a contolling, top savy female vixen ... admiring, adoring, and devining her every command. i recently had a serious life changing experience and now ... i find my true true purpose in life is to worship
is this something a woman would want? to be adored?? do you know of any men who are into the lifestyle sub / bottom role??
thoughts, experiences, ideas ... please"
Actually it's an interesting topic.
Well, we could talk about the so called "straight" relationships, but more so, this fits the BDSM/D/s category. And just to throw another term out there, TPE which means "total power exchange".
Yes folks, these relationships do happen more than you may think.
But without going through a lenghty disertation here, people are individualistic, and people have different wants and needs. You get Dominant women who may seek qualities such as that in a submissive partner, and likewise
you can have a Dominant man who seeks a submissive woman. Do not mistake submissive for doormats. Then you get people who enjoy switching roles to varying degrees. But in the end we all seek to be loved and cherished on our own ways - and that is the key I think. It can be beautiful when it can happen.
Now all that said, I've come to beleive that "most" women deep inside, even if they demonstrate dominant characteristics, truly seek to be mastered. Or put another way, they seek a so called "real man" - one who fits the sterotype of what it means to be a man. In essence, males represent the dominant and females represent the submissive - figurately speaking here, and not necessarily speaking in terms of the D/s lifestyle. Similarly, "most" men truly seek a woman to master. Or put more appropriately maybe, they seek the typical idea of what a woman is and represents. I think in some ways these boards support that idea - males seeking their idea of the ideal woman to "master" - control in the play for the time alotted. Too, males represent the hunter of old or the provider, women represent the caretaker nurturer. I think, in general, women want a strong man who will take care of them, one with backbone, not a weak spineless woman (no offence ladies here as it is not the intention to say that women are weak and spineless - a figure of speech if you will.) who will give up when the going gets tough.
In any relationship, males are generally the more dominant ones whether it be straight or D/s.
I've had conversations with women that have at first surprised the heck out of me in this area at first. Some even going so far as saying they dreamt it.
To be honest, in your description of what you seek, I'm not sure if you could get what you dream of in the long term. I suspect you may find that in a breif fling, but over tiem they would get tired of their little play toy. I suspect they may need something more. Something more fulfilling..
But who knows... Maybe you could be so fortunate as to find your dream.
Good luck, but be careful in those relationships. You may end up with a user.
