Women.. can not live without them &... can not live with them

[Dr_X_man]

well said,

The plan I have for myself is simple, be a positive person and look for someone who can bring positivity into my life. There's plenty of self serving materialistic, vain, and shallow negative people (both women and men:gender is not a factor) out there that will waste your time if you provide them with the opportunity do do so.

You can't control how other women and men choose to behave. You can choose to control how you spend your time and who you choose to spend your time with.

If your a guy and choose a women based solely on her appearance: You should expect to end up with a shallow materialistic bitch.

If your a women and you choose a man based on looks, money or his bad boy ways: Should you really be looking for sympathy when he cheats and abuses you verbally or physically.

What always amazes me is how people feel trapped by their own bad decisions and spend all their time blaming others or writing articles that generalize half the human race when all they really have to do is quit obsessing about the assholes of the world and start focusing on making better choices for themselves that lead to happiness.

Fiddy (you know) I mean no disrespect to you. Easier said than done. As I said I like the whole package specially the face, the butts, the boobs...so mostly I end up with shallow bitches.

 

[Dr_X_man]

I think as long as some men view women as expendable pussy, some women will continue to have survivalist mentality.

AKA: get the house, get the stuff, get the commodity. Exploit the commodity.

Isn't that the same thing on both sides?

In women's defense, I have opted NOT to marry twice, even with the inheritance of a baby Steinway plus orchard vineyard huge property house and cottage, etc in the mix. Being miserable is not the path I choose, even if there is 'stuff' to be had. Not smart of me, in today's society. It's tough being a single woman.

Kind of agree, but you have to realize men always pay for it one way or the other. I had a brazilian g/f that followed me from US. I thought she loved me. It took me few months after her arrival for me to realize: all what she wanted was sponsoring her! That's 1 experience

 

[storm rider]

You can let bad experience make you feel jaded towards women either. If you become jaded towards all women, you'll start passing up or pushing away all the good women that would have made you happy. If you're finding it difficult to meet a good person, usually it is something about your life that has to change.

If someone's love and affection comes with a price tag, then something is already wrong and it's time to move on.

Well said.

SR

 

[Dr_X_man]

You can let bad experience make you feel jaded towards women either. If you become jaded towards all women, you'll start passing up or pushing away all the good women that would have made you happy. If you're finding it difficult to meet a good person, usually it is something about your life that has to change.

If someone's love and affection comes with a price tag, then something is already wrong and it's time to move on.

Very well spoken, my friend, you have nailed it right. Not to argue rather to explain, I am not jaded towards women never was, I love women and there is always good and bad as you said and agreed. Again I have mentioned just 1 bad experience out of many!

Well said.

SR

Ditto

 

[Dr_X_man]

Glad you got the answer to your own riddle!

Maybe (kiddin), I still love women....like to play and tease the cats

 

[mistressfreyja]

Thumbs up, Fiddy!

If you're finding it difficult to meet a good person, usually it is something about your life that has to change.

If someone's love and affection comes with a price tag, then something is already wrong and it's time to move on.