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Dr_X_man

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After having a depressing night. I have read this a while ago somewhere but I find the article a great reading that's why I kept it. In this article the terminology American Women applies to some women and it is not regional. This shows having SP's rock:

I have found that American women are the most reverse sexist women in the world. They think their scat doesnt stink; it smells like ice cream. They expect men to pay for the privilege of being in their presence. They have the most rights of any human beings to ever live on the planet, yet they are still unhappy. They believe men conspire to pay them 76 cents on the dollar, rape them, sexually harass them. They think that cooking or doing anything else nice for a man is slavery. So they will refuse to do it. They believe being argumentative and confrontational is what makes a strong woman. They prefer the frat boys, rich kids in BMWs, and bad boys while they are young and in their prime, then when they have 3 kids, sagging breasts, stretchmarks, varicose veins, they expect the nice men they ignored in their youth to come be a surrogate daddy to kids who arent his. American women complain that men are too aggressive in their approach. But if American women actually did their half of the work (initiating a conversation every once in a while or asking men out); if American women knew how to flirt (and meant it instead of flirting for attention then turning the guy down); if American women actually knew how to flirt instead of acting like cowards, then men would n't have to jump at the slightest sign of interest.

American women think their sexuality is worth more than men's. I know cause I've been to Europe where women exchange sex, in-exchange for sex. Here the women want to be impressed with both social and financial status before they will have sex with a man.

Their ideal man is a rich ex-con/thug. They don't realize that these two are polar opposites. You hear women saying "I like bad boys", and in the same breath they will say "I just want a man who won't treat me like crap. " Newsflash, sister. A bad boy will treat you like crap.

Basically women don't have any social constraints on their behavior, because that is "oppressive", but it was for the good of everyone that women's behavior was regulated. Men have violence, and there are laws against it. Women have emotional terrorism, attention-whoring, acceptable prostitution, etc. These can not be legislated against. There must be social constraints against them. American society has convinced women that they are always right; that anything bad is a man's fault. So women will act free to do as they wish, with no consideration for anyone else.

I've come to realize that most american women have a princess mentality. This manifests itself when they need their "attention fix. " Their parents fully convinced them that they were entitled to everything, and that few men are good enough for what they have.

American women will stare at you from across the room, smile, and gawk at you for hours. Then when you approach one they will say they have a boyfriend. They will come up to you on a daily basis, rub your arm, smile and say Hi,. Then when you ask them to hang out they will say you got the wrong idea. They will initiate a conversation with you every time they see you for weeks, as if they're interested (yes I'm aware that it doesn't always mean they're interested). They will exchange numbers with you and say "call me anytime. " Then when you call and leave messages they won't answer. They won't call you either. Or they will talk to you or date you a few times and you'll think everything's fine. Then she will stop taking your calls. The next time you see her she's got her fat nose up in the air, laughing at you, as if she were some highly sought after prize.

Since the Victorian age, in Anglo societies (US, UK, Canada, Oz, Nz), women were put on a pedestal because they were the mothers of future generations. This was probably a good idea at the time, because up to one-third of women died during child birth. So this inspired men's natural chilvarous nature to protect women. It is OK to put women on a pedestal as long as they are going to adhere to the rules of sexual constitution. Not sleeping around. Once a woman starts to sleep around, then her sex isn't of higher value than men's. The whole reason for putting women on a pedestal was because they would be mothers and they weren't having sex with many men. The moment that women became sexually liberated, putting women on a pedestal should have been eliminated. But unfortunately women still hold onto the old notions that their sexuality is worth more than men's simply because theyre women. So they arent interested in a man who's on their level. No, a normal man is invisible. Women want men who are many levels above them. But the women don't want to provide anything in return except for sex. This is in no way an equal partnership if one person brings more to the table AND does most of the work while the other brings nothing and does no work.

As a result, women have almost nothing to offer men. Except sex. They are no longer women, but instead walking caricatures of men in women's bodies. Women are fully convinced of their moral superiority. Just try disagreeing with one, especially if your opinion is not politically correct. You will find that you are no longer entitled to your own opinoin. In fact, you're an ignorant bastard, and you'd better change your opinion to fall in line with hers. These women have no problem with nagging, shaming, guilt tripping, insulting, withholding affection, etc to get their way. This is what happens when you convince women that they are always right; that women can do no wrong; that women are the ones who are really 'fair, just' etc.

The whole concept that a man should buy a woman a ring worth two months of his salary is further evidence of how degraded society is and how spoiled women are. In every other society, the father has to pay a dowry for the husband to accept his daughter. In America, women expect some diamond so she can impress her friends. That's fine, but is she going to spend $12, 000 on her husband? Is she going to put $12, 000 down on the house?

I know some guys think certain western women are just as bad as American women. But in Europe, being male isn't seen as being a crime as it is here in the states. Women will automatically become more materialistic when their nation acculumates wealth (even in Eastern countries, women's number one past-time is shopping). What is not natural is women thinking they are entitled to something just because they're women; that they are morally superior; that they should be catered to; that the man should always pay; that they are entitled to all the benefits of equality with none of the responsibilities and men should treat them in an old fashioned manner while the women snub that role.

I could go on forever.
 
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What is not natural is women thinking they are entitled to something just because they're women; that they are morally superior; that they should be catered to; that the man should always pay; that they are entitled to all the benefits of equality with none of the responsibilities and men should treat them in an old fashioned manner while the women snub that role.
meh, I like the challenge, its all good. :)
 

Dr_X_man

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Hun saying men are like this or women are like that is making a judgment based on a few people of that gender. This is the same for race, sexual orientation, job description and so on. While I agree that some women are very self centered and treat men poorly that is definitely not all of us.
I did not say women all women though (I had a specific pattern in mind)! As I have started I had a depressing night. The story of life. "the ones we wish to be with do not want us and the ones that want us we do not want to stay with them" It's life! While being depressed I thought a release might help. I had few non working girls (either retired young or we are friends with benefits relations or were on CL....). I called few and I had a lame lay.
 
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Dr_X_man

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The sad part is I ended passing up on plenty of pretty sweethearts who would've made a huge difference in my life. The better idea is to avoid these kinds of women to begin with since they'll make your life miserable. Even worse, the time you waste on them might be costing you an opportunity at happiness with someone that is worth your time.
Well said, part of my grief and depression is that I have already wasted much of my life=time with the wrong ones...
 

Dr_X_man

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Here is the part I kind of disagree;
The article itself is pretty dumb. I have been to Europe twice and there is no shortage of women that behave in the same super materialistic manner as their North American counterparts. Each person has to be held accountable on a individual basis for the way they behave rather than generalizing everyone into the same box. The reality is this segment of self-entitled shallow pretty girls only represents 7-10% of the population but they tend to stand out more because idolize them regardless how they behave and treat others around them.
I have been to Europe several times. I admit I did not live there for so long. The most I lived was ~ 1month and it was in eastern Europe. Women treat men better..
 

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I wont bother to quote the OP as his justified and understandable point of view is very valid....for my response though....

Why do you think I like asian women...be they chinese/korean/thai....those gals know how to treat men....treat them with repsect...none of the mindgames and all of the other BS.....if you were to offer a Thai gal who is from northern Thailand a glitzy ring that cost $12000 or give her the choice of spending that same $12000 on a home...she would go for the home in a heartbeat as she does not need or want to flash a fancy ring in her friends faces...taking care of her man and her family are a higher priority.

I am not talking about asian gals whose grandparents emigrated to Canada or the USA 30+ years ago....those asian gals are the same as white women as they have been indoctrinated with the same mindset (an asian friend of mine refers to them as "twinkies" as they are yellow on the outside but the filling is white)

The biggest laugh I have gotten in a long time was from a gal who I met on adultfriendfinder.com....she was over 39...she had 2 kids and was divorced...she worked a job that was nothing special....RRSP's were a foriegn concept to her...she did not own her own home she rented.....and the funniest thing was her expectations....her expectations that if she were to put out and fuck a guy that he would buy her a house outright.....so lets see....saggy tits....lots of cellulite....lots of wrinkles....lots of evident aging and the cost would be $400,000 +....for most likely mediocre sex at best....such a deal to be had.......the sad thing is there are so many of them with the same mindset.

SR
 

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Dr_X_man, the people you describe are not necessarily good or bad, they just present themselves differently, have different ambitions.......whatever. Try to look at it another way that in the end, you want to find someone who matches you....someone compatible....someone whos quirks match your quarks, like mating parts of a puzzle.

April is right in saying you have to recognize your patterns used in meeting people and who you persue - if you realize that already then you are halfway there, and you can begin to focus on the qualities in people that are truly important and compatible with you.

You don't need to cater to the mentality of the people you describe in your post, there are many people left who represent more than just artificiality........make sure you meet some of them. -Good luck.
 

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Any normal or above looking Woman has a right to have attitude since if they asked a man to have sex they have a 99% chance of getting sex.
Until guys start saying "no" and women have to put in effort to get sex (the odd occasion they want it), men will always be the less sought after gender.
In the essay the writer points out that women only seek out men after they have lost their looks and are rapidly "depreciating in value", well as a man gets older and accumulates more wealth he becomes more appealing.

I think guys need to realize that's reality and just remember not to be needy and treat women as the expendable commodity they really are. Every year better looking and "faster" girls keep hitting 18 and make their way onto the market, so why care about a woman who is getting older every year? Unless your poor, then find a woman whose less attractive than you and settle down.

I don't even get how this is an issue, aren't most of you like me, where once you cum you lose all interest in the girl and just want her off of you?
 

Dr_X_man

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I am reading everyone's post and everyone touches something. It's a nice discussion.
 

Dr_X_man

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I don't even get how this is an issue, aren't most of you like me, where once you cum you lose all interest in the girl and just want her off of you?
No I am not :)
Again, the OP was not inclusive of SP's or women in general but specific pattern of women.
But if we talk about SP's; there are many times that I went for a second round and I might have stayed for more if I can afford. Also, there are SP's that have a vibrating personality that I'd like to talk to.
 

Dr_X_man

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In general but there are some bad one's too. My point was is there's rotten apples everywhere you go. What's a good girl to do when so many guys in North American don't behave any better. I work with several guys who are pretty vain and materialistic themselves and would easily fit the stereotype in this article as well.

Out of control Materialism by both men and women is the reason we're are in the economic downturn we are in now. Look at how much debt we have. Germany is the hottest economy in Europe right now and the average household debt is 1/8 of the average Canadian or American. Most European families only own one family car. How many families in Alberta have 3-4 cars per a household? God forbid their kids learn how to share.

Apple banks on young men to buying the next iPhone before their contract is up on their existing iPhones.

Anything over 46 inches in European Electronics store is special order. They only had a couple of bigger TV's on display in many of the Electronic stores in Germany. In Edmonton, half of Best Buy's TV section is full of 55 inch plus TV's. Men are still the primary target market for big ass TV's and speakers. North American men are just as materialistic as North American women are.
But do not we love it! We love big asses, big boobs, ... big TV's latest in techonology.. :)
 

Dr_X_man

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I will quote your post though :). You got me
I wont bother to quote the OP as his justified and understandable point of view is very valid....for my response though....

Why do you think I like asian women...be they chinese/korean/thai....those gals know how to treat men....treat them with repsect...none of the mindgames and all of the other BS.....if you were to offer a Thai gal who is from northern Thailand a glitzy ring that cost $12000 or give her the choice of spending that same $12000 on a home...she would go for the home in a heartbeat as she does not need or want to flash a fancy ring in her friends faces...taking care of her man and her family are a higher priority.

I am not talking about asian gals whose grandparents emigrated to Canada or the USA 30+ years ago....those asian gals are the same as white women as they have been indoctrinated with the same mindset (an asian friend of mine refers to them as "twinkies" as they are yellow on the outside but the filling is white)

The biggest laugh I have gotten in a long time was from a gal who I met on adultfriendfinder.com....she was over 39...she had 2 kids and was divorced...she worked a job that was nothing special....RRSP's were a foriegn concept to her...she did not own her own home she rented.....and the funniest thing was her expectations....her expectations that if she were to put out and fuck a guy that he would buy her a house outright.....so lets see....saggy tits....lots of cellulite....lots of wrinkles....lots of evident aging and the cost would be $400,000 +....for most likely mediocre sex at best....such a deal to be had.......the sad thing is there are so many of them with the same mindset.

SR
-I admit I love big butts and I can't deny, boobs, big eyes, ...
 

Dr_X_man

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Dr_X_man, the people you describe are not necessarily good or bad, they just present themselves differently, have different ambitions.......whatever. Try to look at it another way that in the end, you want to find someone who matches you....someone compatible....someone whos quirks match your quarks, like mating parts of a puzzle.

You don't need to cater to the mentality of the people you describe in your post, there are many people left who represent more than just artificiality........make sure you meet some of them. -Good luck.
Well said, I don't know where my baby is, been around the world, , I will never give up looking for my baby
 

Dr_X_man

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Any normal or above looking Woman has a right to have attitude since if they asked a man to have sex they have a 99% chance of getting sex.
Until guys start saying "no" and women have to put in effort to get sex (the odd occasion they want it), men will always be the less sought after gender.
LOL! if men can just hold it for 40 days...women have been doing this for ages...pussy power...obviously men love sex way more than women....
 

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LOL! if men can just hold it for 40 days...women have been doing this for ages...pussy power...obviously men love sex way more than women....
Or, maybe it is as simple as the sex men provide these women is substandard. A lot of guys have no problem attracting and keeping women, rather than blame women for your own shortcomings, you might just want to up your game a bit.

Yes, that's the trouble with generalizations. Even the people you think are acting this way are actually real people, with their own problems and insecurities, and real emotions, believe it or not.

btw, loved the comparison by storm lol. Somehow a mercenary filipina who takes the money for a house is a better person than a mercenary white girl who takes the money for shopping. I fail to see the difference lol. If these asian chicks werer so awesome and really loved you so much, they would refuse the money altogether --- and just want to get married instead hahahaha. but that's the difference between a citizen and an illegal alien --- the citizen has nothing to worry about, and doesn't need to be nice to people when they don't want to just to stay in the country.
 

Dr_X_man

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Did I strike a vein? Sorry to hear about your ED problems...Did not you argue with Fiddy b4 ...As some1 said "it's unfortunate some people can't be helped"... not worth it..
Or, maybe it is as simple as the sex men provide these women is substandard. A lot of guys have no problem attracting and keeping women, rather than blame women for your own shortcomings, you might just want to up your game a bit.
 
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Did I strike a vein? Sorry to hear about your ED problems...Did not you argue with Fiddy b4 ...As some1 said "it's unfortunate some people can't be helped"... not worth it..
Probably best there Don Juan Dr X Man, she is way more woman than you could handle anyway. ;)
 

mistressfreyja

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I think as long as some men view women as expendable pussy, some women will continue to have survivalist mentality.

AKA: get the house, get the stuff, get the commodity. Exploit the commodity.

Isn't that the same thing on both sides?

In women's defense, I have opted NOT to marry twice, even with the inheritance of a baby Steinway plus orchard vineyard huge property house and cottage, etc in the mix. Being miserable is not the path I choose, even if there is 'stuff' to be had. Not smart of me, in today's society. It's tough being a single woman.
 

mistressfreyja

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My dad taught me long ago that the only person I can change is myself. Thinking otherwise is naive and leads to disappointment.

I totally agree with your post, especially the quoted part.

You can't control how other women and men choose to behave. You can choose to control how you spend your time and who you choose to spend your time with.
 
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