Woman with 2 year old child who rejected you 3 years ago
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He knows she puts out with her ex. He doesn't know whether that would apply to him..or anyone else for that matter.
All too true!He knows she puts out with her ex. He doesn't know whether that would apply to him..or anyone else for that matter.
As much as I want to say "give her a chance" I reluctantly have to acknowledge this point about respect and the one Alin made about her deciding if he was worthy of sharing herself with and her deciding he wasn't. If there was no respect and no desire, I find it unlikely that situation would really change and if it has and I was in his shoes, I would need ample proof in actions, not just words. As I wrote in another thread, loving words are very important and need to be said but it is loving actions that prove or disprove. Words, even if sincere, may not match what the heart really feels but actions, especially over an extended period, IMHO rarely lie.
* Just to clarify, loving actions doesn't just mean sex. It also means the little things that one person does for another when in love, whether it's at the start of being in love or well into it.
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After reading all of this as it unfolds which is entertaining, here's a new thought. Did the OP decide to finally ask the girl in question how she felt about him then and now, also why she changed her mind? So many things happen in three years but all we can do is guess since none of have met either and there really isnt any amount of information that could make up for not knowing either of them first hand.
Like i said before, love & marriage is just a 50/50 crap shoot.The odds are better at finding a drop dead georgeous sp that will lick your balls & suck your cock like its the cure for tongue cancer.
Sounds pretty par for the course if you ask me. For how smart a lot of women are it always amazes me at just how many of them fall for this shit of being treated like shit by some asshole dude and then get knocked up and the dude leaves to start the process all over. Now all of a sudden she's interested in a "nice guy", as a man I'm sorry but I got to say to all the dudes out there, stop acting like chumps and raising other dudes kids. There's no consequences for a lot of these women out there cause they know they can just put out a little and some nice guy is going to come along and take care of them and her kid. Add to that you're not her first choice so she'll treat you like shit for the rest of your life for "doing the right thing" and actually trying to help.
Don't fall for this garbage.
Don't fall for this garbage.
