yea, if you could hear her comments to her friends they probably go along the line that there is this guy who just doesn't give up. well sounds like you have been objective and polite about it, and so has she, so listen to Jay Gatsby.
If you want a gal, walk into a room, look around, see what gals are looking at you, or maybe even taking a second look, smiling at you, or looking interested. Choose from amongst them. don't take the ones who are laughing though! go into Starbucks, a bar, restaurant, Costco, and best of all is Palm Springs. Yep it it sure is.