Wife's approval?

[dandyy]

Hi,

I have been exploring the idea to ask my wife to join me for an erotic massage and she seems open to it during pillow talk. Does anyone out there have approval from their wife for sensual massages or have you got the wife/partner to join you to watch or better to help out?

I'd like to make this happen but wondering if anyone has dipped their toes into these waters and has advice?

Are there any sexy massage ladies you are happy to work with couples?

Thanks

 

[Racer2014]

My lady friend and I talk it when intimate. Later I pick up hints of jealousy. Be careful sir.

 

[DangerousDan]

What could go wrong with wanting to have your cake and eat it too? Don't fly too close to the sun OP.

 

[ddcanz]

Only you can know for certain if this is a good course of action.
What works for others is completely irrelevant.
We have NO IDEA how your wife truly thinks- and maybe you don't either?

 

[Bang-On]

If I brought that up to my SO, I bet she’d test me and play along and when I actually did it, she’d probably scrub the toilet with my toothbrush and then divorcing me the day of, and emptying out our accounts and then me supporting her for life while she just spends all my money...

I think that’s how a lot of wives would work. Lol. Btw, if you’re open to the idea, are you cool with your wife seeing male escorts and or having a boyfriend on the side? Seems like you may have a super open relationship.

 

[dandyy]

I'm just talking about some fun together to spice things up with an erotic massage, we don't have an open relationship in anyway. Perhaps it is best to leave it as just fun 'talk'...

 

[Racer2014]

I'm just talking about some fun together to spice things up with an erotic massage, we don't have an open relationship in anyway. Perhaps it is best to leave it as just fun 'talk'...

Good plan. We are open minded BUT she shows the jelous signs when it comes up.
Do a 4 hands a pretend it's your lady. Lol

 

[WandErection]

If it doesn't fly for whatever reason, she'll know from then on that you are into it and potentially venturing to try it yourself... That could jeopardize your relationship later on.

 

[WiFiGuY]

Sounds like TOFTT, let us know how it goes, haha

 

[604jbear]

You'll never know until you ask! I thought for sure my wife would shoot me down and get mad when I asked, but she was actually open to it and did end up joining me for erotic massages and joining me for BDSM sessions for a few years. She is no longer interested in going herself but has given permission me to go by myself Unfortunately, she is not willing to try a threesome