Well Im not a dude who uses these services. I am, however, a chick that provides the services, so I thought I would give some input. When new fella's come into the studio, I like to tell them as much as I can. Mostly to dispell any myth's, but also to inform the person and help them feel comfortable. So here's my 2 bit's.
I would say 80% or so of the client's who come in are married. Most are just seeking intimacy. It is a very small population that are, what you might consider, into kink. Many first timer's are nervous. I am in no way advocating drinking and driving, but one bevy to calm the nerves might b a good idea. In studio's, there is a greeting system. So the ladies will stream by and you get your choice. This is where you need to be intuituive. A girl that takes her time to say hello and is friendly and giving of information, would likely provide a simular service. You don't have long to chat with each one, so use it wisely. As in any buisness there are good provider's and not so good provider's. You need to be able to decipher alot in a short amount of time, so use your instinct. I'd hate for you to try this out and be rushed and not treated the way you should be. With patience, time,gentleness. Id suggest posting here as well to ask for a good provider; but it seem's your thread here got lost in the shuffle. Hopefully if you post again, more people will respond. The studio's are a great place. Discretion is of the upmost importance for you and the staff. I wish you well, should you give it a try. Oh and if physical features are super important, you can check out the gals on each website for that specific studio. Take it easy