Why Poon!

[BigEye]

...... (do glasses count as 4 eyes?...

a_smit
i wouldn't rule out the sexiness factor of the four eyes for even a second !
when a friend & i were at a peelers bar, she took his glasses off & rubbed them on her . all smudgey lenses, she put them back on his face - then with his blurry vision, she proceeded to give him a face-melon massage. We've never let him forget, still get a hoot!

 

[agent_smith]

Big Eye

I'm acutally not worried about the glasses, it was my dry humor. I know some girls think glasses are sexy, hell I find girls with glasses sexy too, the right kind though, no grandma glasses!

AS

 

[BigEye]

I'm acutally not worried about the glasses, it was my dry humor. I know some girls think glasses are sexy, hell I find girls with glasses sexy too, the right kind though, no grandma glasses!
AS

ah, good to see - you understand, i was jus 'ribbin you!
but i do so agree - glasses on a girl can be so sexy, if they keep em on whilst doin the deed. such a sultry/librarian look with the right frames & position!

 

[littlejonny]

Getting back to the subject at hand, sex without a feeling of obligation afterwards is probably my main reason. You both know you're there for a reason and both of you can get on with your lives afterwards. I've had a few one night stands with women I've met in bars and invariably I feel guilty when I don't want to see them anymore but they want to see me. The pooning way, nobody gets hurt. That's probably why I find it a little addictive for me also. The only one I have to blame though, is myself.

By the way, to all of you guys who feel guilty paying a girl for sex, I suggest you think of it this way. She's doing this for her own reasons and would be there whether you were a client of hers or not. At least with you being the client, it's you and not some bastard. When I see these ladies, I'm always nice and never get mean or abusive. I take care of myself, make sure I'm clean, and never go in if I have a cold or could make her sick in some way. She always gets paid the negotiated price no matter what kind of time I've had. I don't try haggling and I don't whine afterwards if something didn't meet my expectations. I just don't return if she wasn't my cup of tea.

Enjoy yourselves out there guys. Don't sweat the small stuff.

 

[Clueless in AB]

I read on some previous posts on this and other boards that the SPs aren't interested in being a confessional (i.e.: they don't want to hear your problems).
So, I thought I'd post to the board my reasons for enjoying this hobby because I finnaly found an article from a sex columnist that discusses my situation. It can be found at Savage Love but I'm going to copy the article for all to read.
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My wife and I were married straight out of college. At the time, I knew she suffered from a potentially debilitating mental disorder, so I came into the relationship with my eyes fully open. Since then, nine years and two children have followed. About two years ago, her disorder began to get worse. Suicidal ideation, hallucinations, delusions, and the like. Her psychiatrist put her on a new medication that for the most part has eliminated her symptoms. She has gotten her life under control and is doing much better. But here's my problem, and I feel extremely selfish for this: One of the side effects of the medication is a complete loss of interest in sex. She is still loving and affectionate, but her libido is nonexistent. We have discussed this many times, and argued about it. Over the past six months, we have reached a tacit agreement: I don't ask, and she doesn't pretend. I am 32 years old and married to my best friend who wants nothing to do with me sexually.

Divorce is not an option. My children are my life. In addition, my wife needs me—and I take the "for better or worse" part seriously. More importantly, I love her. In short, I am looking at forgoing sex for the rest of my life. I am successful, intelligent, ambitious, kind, and better than average in the looks department. I am flirted with frequently in my daily life, and I find myself increasingly desperate for even a small taste of sexual intimacy. What am I to do?
Desperately Seeking Anything

You're to fuck other people, DSA.

You write that you take the "for better or worse" part seriously, and that's admirable. I fully support your decision to remain in your marriage, stand by your wife, and be there for your kids. They all need you, and they all need you at home. But that "for better or worse" stuff? It doesn't just apply to you, DSA, it also applies to your wife.

So, yeah, it sucks to be married to someone who, as the result of a necessary medical intervention, is completely uninterested in sex. That definitely falls into the "worse" column. Likewise, it sucks to be married to a man who, to preserve his own sanity, occasionally has sex with other women. That falls into the "worse" column, too. But you have needs that have to be met, DSA, and meeting them isn't just about satisfying your need for sexual intimacy. You're feeling "increasingly desperate" about the prospect of "forgoing sex for the rest of [your] life." If you don't find a nice woman you can be sexual with—perhaps someone in a similar circumstance?—your desperation will eventually reach an emotional crescendo and you will sabotage your marriage. So do the right thing and fuck other people.

Yeah, yeah: Adultery is wrong. But when you consider the damage that divorce would do to your wife and kids, a little adultery is the lesser evil. So don't ask and don't tell and don't get caught, DSA—although you might want to say something to your wife now, something you can remind her of if you do get caught, something along the lines of, "I'm not going to pressure you about sex any more, but you have to know that if and when opportunity presents itself, I don't think I'll be able to help myself." You've resigned yourself to living with this "worse"; it is not too much to ask your wife to resign herself to the probability that you will, at some point, fuck someone else.
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Thanks for reading

 

[Ghetto Child]

Relationship cost more than money

Whether some guys want to admit it or not the chance of getting hurt yourself is enough reason to avoid a relationship.

Relationship have a very big price tag. Both economically and emotionally. I could treat each and every SP with a posh gist and still pay them less than the average girlfriend.

Some SP do such a good job that they offer an experience that a dozen girlfriends could not offer at once. People have paid for sex even before the Roman's made it a part of daily life.

Should you feel guilty. No. When most SP's make more money than you in a year, own houses, cars and have no student debts. They do it for many reasons. The best SP have no major regrets. No SP plans to do it for life but just like it is for us, the money is a addictive as the sex is.

At the end of the I see SP's cause I want to find a moment of heaven minus the many moments of hell that relationships come with.

Nuff said...

 

[lena]

Occasionally I would get a gentleman who was sent to me by his wife who could not or would not have sex with him anymore. Talk about understanding. One even sent all the girls chocolates at christmas.
I firmly believe that sps keep alot of marriages together as it is better to just get a bang in now and again then to throw it all away out of frustration.
If I was a guy I think I would poon.There's something to say for the feeling of sexual freedom that comes with a no strings attached encounter.

 

[Maury Beniowski]

Whenever I'm looking for someone, and I want to skip the preliminaries.

Some of the best women around are in this business, and many are looking as well...

Best way to find a good match, cheapest by any means.

You find out real quick if there's any chemistry. Traditional and conventional methods just plain suck, and in the end, there are too many compromises - usually labelled "Give & Take" amongst friends (what a stupid excuse). Most men know deep inside they've made the wrong choice - that's why they poon. I hope I haven't offended anyone. If I have, you need to take a long look at your life, and the bad choices you've made.

 

[mole]

I ppoon becauses i want to have the time of my life before i become old and wrinkly or die.

and also becuase variety is the spice of life. because i can. and because it feels good.