Why Poon!
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3 things you don't fvck with
Special K, there are 3 things you don't fvck with in my code of honor:
1. Another man's woman (if they are "really" together, exception being if she is playin him).
2. Another man's manhood.
3. Another man's ride.
I love that Travolta movie quote "What kind of fvcking pussy messes with another man's car?"
Tom, my winnipeg homeboy, i agree, once you get over that societal stigma that you should not be paying a woman for sex, there is no legitimate reason other than social mores to not poon.
Big Country: this is the social taboo you are wrestling with. i was the same once, i didn't just jump to fs out of the gate. i thought about how all of this sex 4 money did or did not make sense (no pun intended) for me. you have to be solid with your conscience. do what you think is cool. even if you just enjoy a bj or whatever, keep it in your sphere of comfort.
Special K, there are 3 things you don't fvck with in my code of honor:
1. Another man's woman (if they are "really" together, exception being if she is playin him).
2. Another man's manhood.
3. Another man's ride.
I love that Travolta movie quote "What kind of fvcking pussy messes with another man's car?"
Tom, my winnipeg homeboy, i agree, once you get over that societal stigma that you should not be paying a woman for sex, there is no legitimate reason other than social mores to not poon.
Big Country: this is the social taboo you are wrestling with. i was the same once, i didn't just jump to fs out of the gate. i thought about how all of this sex 4 money did or did not make sense (no pun intended) for me. you have to be solid with your conscience. do what you think is cool. even if you just enjoy a bj or whatever, keep it in your sphere of comfort.
Pooning is all about living out your fantasies! Ever tried dating 2 ladies and getting them both into the sack at the same time?? Not likely to happen often in ordinary life but with pooning it can work this afternoon and you can even have more if you want and you can repeat just as soon as your cash and dick recover for fantacy #2, 3, 4, 4, 4, (repeat cause 4 was sooooo good), 5, 6 ...............
Want big boobs one day - perky ones another day - experienced mother pussy another day - tight babe (18+) another. Big ones, tall ones, small ones short ones, shaved - classy and smart - bbbj - black and yellow red and white?? Wow the possibilities are endless?? And imagine most of the ladies can give you individual preference fantacies as well (cheerleader, tramp, molly maid etc. etc.)
Pooning can be a lot more than just getting laid and that is where some of the posters on this thread are sidetracked (indeed some pooners including me find a great lay and stick with her for repeats - nothing wrong with that either). Sometimes the poon came here looking for sex and didn't know (or didn't want to explore) where to go next. If all you want is sex get a girl friend / chances are she will want that too!!
On the other hand if you have a bag full of fanticies and can't wait to explore and plant your flag in new worlds Pooning is great. You can also get to meet some really nice people (and admittedly some not so nice people), make friends and gain a healthier attitude and more balanced prospective on life.
Want big boobs one day - perky ones another day - experienced mother pussy another day - tight babe (18+) another. Big ones, tall ones, small ones short ones, shaved - classy and smart - bbbj - black and yellow red and white?? Wow the possibilities are endless?? And imagine most of the ladies can give you individual preference fantacies as well (cheerleader, tramp, molly maid etc. etc.)
Pooning can be a lot more than just getting laid and that is where some of the posters on this thread are sidetracked (indeed some pooners including me find a great lay and stick with her for repeats - nothing wrong with that either). Sometimes the poon came here looking for sex and didn't know (or didn't want to explore) where to go next. If all you want is sex get a girl friend / chances are she will want that too!!
On the other hand if you have a bag full of fanticies and can't wait to explore and plant your flag in new worlds Pooning is great. You can also get to meet some really nice people (and admittedly some not so nice people), make friends and gain a healthier attitude and more balanced prospective on life.
Just to add to my last post:
The other appeal is doing it with ladies who, under other circumstances, likely wouldn't even give me the time of day if I only had an hour to live.
So Ice...we cool now? No dissing was intended towards you. So lighten up and laugh a little, please.
The other appeal is doing it with ladies who, under other circumstances, likely wouldn't even give me the time of day if I only had an hour to live.
So Ice...we cool now? No dissing was intended towards you. So lighten up and laugh a little, please.
good list
1. I like redheads, blondes, tall, short, young and more mature. Woman are a buffet table of delights. Why be limited to one variety?
2. I have done the divorce thing twice and you are right that pooning is cheaper. Paying $$ for an intimate hour with a gorgeous woman is a bargain.
5. I am not the best looking guy in the world and am a little overweight. How else could I ever get a 5'8" tall blonde with a killer body and a sexy attitude into bed?
6. Dating is full of expectations, especially for women. God help you if you don't live up to their expectations.
Personally, I have a reason #8. Little time for building a relationship. I am a graduate student and am either reading, attending classes, or writing papers. I have little time to put into building a relationship. But calling up my favourite SP and enjoying an hour of the old "in-out, in-out" is priceless.
I agree with this sort of thinking, trawler. Good job. I especially agree with:trawler said:1. Variety without commitment;
2. Cheaper than marriage or a demanding SO;
3. Great recreation and relaxation;
4. With good Board Intel, you generally get what you were expecting;
5. Many of the Girls are Lookers who have pleasing Attitudes and provide excellent Service;
6. Dating always brings expectations and I have nothing to give back at this point in my lkfe. I don't want a Wife or SO right now; and
7. I can't think of any real reason to stop
1. I like redheads, blondes, tall, short, young and more mature. Woman are a buffet table of delights. Why be limited to one variety?
2. I have done the divorce thing twice and you are right that pooning is cheaper. Paying $$ for an intimate hour with a gorgeous woman is a bargain.
5. I am not the best looking guy in the world and am a little overweight. How else could I ever get a 5'8" tall blonde with a killer body and a sexy attitude into bed?
6. Dating is full of expectations, especially for women. God help you if you don't live up to their expectations.
Personally, I have a reason #8. Little time for building a relationship. I am a graduate student and am either reading, attending classes, or writing papers. I have little time to put into building a relationship. But calling up my favourite SP and enjoying an hour of the old "in-out, in-out" is priceless.
FBI, don't beat yourself up
Wow, this seems like more of a confession thread, than a why pooner! Do you actually think a lawyer feels good after his "I know the fuckers guilty" client walks out of the court scott free? Probably not. Does the doc quit when his first patient dies? Probably not. Does the SP you just saw feel guilty at the end of the day after pulling down 1k. Probably not. Probably didn't even cross here mind. They have chosen this as a line of work for one reason or another, and in may cases like the lifestyle it provides them. How do we know that? Check out some of the vehicles that sit outside these places that belong to the girls, hard to tell me how much they hate the business when the ride outside ran the a cool 50k plus. Pure cash business has advantages. This industry has lots of SPs that would do very well in a day to day job, but thats not what they seem to be choosing to do. I as well have gotten to know many very well over the years, they are very nice people and live a life outside the bus. like any other person. Why poon? Its a 45 minute relationship whereby I am going to hammer a hottie and later she's going to enjoy my do ra me,,,,,if nothing else. FBI, you will find Ms wonderful if thats what u want, The test will be can you stop this once that happens. Most Sps will tell you a vast number of their clients are married. Lots of them are married to hotties as well. Cant eat the same thing every meal. I come and go in this hobby, and can confess to dropping vast amounts of cash over the years, enough to buy a whole fleet of 6dig cars.
Does my life suffer because of it? No. I often say thats the last fuckin time,,,usally after a session that just ran 2 browns, and not worth it. Face it, we dont always feel good about the sessions we have either. Good luck on finding Ms. Right. Everbody deserves on of those,
Cheers
Wow, this seems like more of a confession thread, than a why pooner! Do you actually think a lawyer feels good after his "I know the fuckers guilty" client walks out of the court scott free? Probably not. Does the doc quit when his first patient dies? Probably not. Does the SP you just saw feel guilty at the end of the day after pulling down 1k. Probably not. Probably didn't even cross here mind. They have chosen this as a line of work for one reason or another, and in may cases like the lifestyle it provides them. How do we know that? Check out some of the vehicles that sit outside these places that belong to the girls, hard to tell me how much they hate the business when the ride outside ran the a cool 50k plus. Pure cash business has advantages. This industry has lots of SPs that would do very well in a day to day job, but thats not what they seem to be choosing to do. I as well have gotten to know many very well over the years, they are very nice people and live a life outside the bus. like any other person. Why poon? Its a 45 minute relationship whereby I am going to hammer a hottie and later she's going to enjoy my do ra me,,,,,if nothing else. FBI, you will find Ms wonderful if thats what u want, The test will be can you stop this once that happens. Most Sps will tell you a vast number of their clients are married. Lots of them are married to hotties as well. Cant eat the same thing every meal. I come and go in this hobby, and can confess to dropping vast amounts of cash over the years, enough to buy a whole fleet of 6dig cars.
Does my life suffer because of it? No. I often say thats the last fuckin time,,,usally after a session that just ran 2 browns, and not worth it. Face it, we dont always feel good about the sessions we have either. Good luck on finding Ms. Right. Everbody deserves on of those,
Cheers
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Phil Hartman
So long and thanks for all the fish...
hi guys its sam, i'll try to make this short but it will probuly be long. i am very impressed in this discussion. everyone's reason for going or not going is normal. every sp's reason for doing her job is completly differnt from the next.
my reason for doing this is excitement, i love meeting new people, i like to talk to people and really get to know them. i love knowing that i helped someone out; maybe sexualy; maybe emotionaly. many times i fantasize about my job, thats normal, many times i fantasize about other sp's...thats normal. i like my job because i don't see any jerks that make my job hard. i see normal every-day kind of men who make it very easy for me to enjoy being with them. some girls do it because they have to or because they have pimps or drug addictions or too may children....many do it because they want to, they like it. many have their life and head in order many do not. i would say that 95% of my regulars are really wonderful people and i truely enjoy my time with them. all in all we are animals and it is human nature to get horny and have to do something about it....what ever way we can. this is normal....the only thing that is a frustration is that in canada we are a little close minded and think of it as taboo when in other countries like europe, they grow up with sexuality, drinking alchol, etc...there for are more open minded have the smallest sex crimes etc. what does make it easier for people to be a client or provider is to be honest with themselves why they do it, for what ever reason. myself personally, my family, my close friends they all know what i do...i am honest, and the reason they are ok with it? is simple they are fantastic people who are not judgmental and open minded, your job or your activities do not define you as a person at all. most people judge that i have a pimp, have a drug addiction have no education...but they are wrong, i am a health freak, no drugs, i barely party, i've been to college with an above average IQ (even though my spelling sucks lol), i model partime, i have no man that i support, i am always takeing extra classes in school, etc etc. there are many postives and negetives to seeing an sp...but that is the same in everything you do.
ok guys i am sorry to drag on but i love reading great posts and must put my opinion into it
hope you enjoy
lots of hugs and kisses
sam
my reason for doing this is excitement, i love meeting new people, i like to talk to people and really get to know them. i love knowing that i helped someone out; maybe sexualy; maybe emotionaly. many times i fantasize about my job, thats normal, many times i fantasize about other sp's...thats normal. i like my job because i don't see any jerks that make my job hard. i see normal every-day kind of men who make it very easy for me to enjoy being with them. some girls do it because they have to or because they have pimps or drug addictions or too may children....many do it because they want to, they like it. many have their life and head in order many do not. i would say that 95% of my regulars are really wonderful people and i truely enjoy my time with them. all in all we are animals and it is human nature to get horny and have to do something about it....what ever way we can. this is normal....the only thing that is a frustration is that in canada we are a little close minded and think of it as taboo when in other countries like europe, they grow up with sexuality, drinking alchol, etc...there for are more open minded have the smallest sex crimes etc. what does make it easier for people to be a client or provider is to be honest with themselves why they do it, for what ever reason. myself personally, my family, my close friends they all know what i do...i am honest, and the reason they are ok with it? is simple they are fantastic people who are not judgmental and open minded, your job or your activities do not define you as a person at all. most people judge that i have a pimp, have a drug addiction have no education...but they are wrong, i am a health freak, no drugs, i barely party, i've been to college with an above average IQ (even though my spelling sucks lol), i model partime, i have no man that i support, i am always takeing extra classes in school, etc etc. there are many postives and negetives to seeing an sp...but that is the same in everything you do.
ok guys i am sorry to drag on but i love reading great posts and must put my opinion into it
hope you enjoy
lots of hugs and kisses
sam
A little rant
Sam thanks for the response. Your perspective is interesting. I have seen you a few times and know that you are thes best in calgary IMO. Whenever I am down there I do try to see you! And I would recommend you to any guy that does like the sps that I do!
What I like about you, you have your head on straight. On the boards you have gotten a few bad raps for refusing clients.... but I honestly doubt some of these claims (sorry guys). I find you to be VERY reasonable.... which is great! Try treating sam with respect and she can be a gem.... i know. Remember it is your right to refuse/accept clients...and it is great you do take advantage of it! More sps should do that IMO. Also I like how you seem to enjoy what you are doing, it shows when you see me at least. I can't say that about every sp.
Some sps, (I am sorry girls) don't think properly IMO. As do some pooners. It puzzles me reading the stupidity of some of the arguments Edmonton Mod has posted about on here about. It is just evidence IMO that not all pooners/sps are wholeheartedly down-to-earth. This might be attributed to the fact that their is lots of drugs etc involved with prostitution, which is unfortunate.
Personally I only sps that are really down to earth, seem intelligent, (in general i see petite woman).... I don't like BS even from sps as I have mentioned before and sps I won't see do that. I think lauren, the two samanthas (muffpuff and sugar) are pretty down to earth and have a good personality that I like. They seem to be "on the map" so to speak and that is VERY important for me.If that is what you are looking for... my recommendations for the day.
Thanks mexman for the warm words. What you say is true, but i think I do care a great deal about some issues like physical safety etc. and other political issues.
It horrifies me reading about the murders of prostitutes in the edmonton area, vancouver, seattle etc. It is disgusting, and horrific how somebody has no respect for the ladies that I see. I know sps as ppl not as a 'hooker' somebody you can treat like dirt. Just because service etc is not good, it doesn't give anybody the right to treat somebody like crap. Lucky edmonton is mainly an MP city which protects the ladies to some degree. But knowing a few of the ladies fairly well from seeing them so often, it would devestate me if something were to ever happen to them because they are good ppl (the sps that i see I can say for sure). Also knowing that AIDS/and other stds are rampant these days and the symptoms of the disease makes it difficult to not worry about my own health and since i do care about some of the sps I see, difficult to not worry about theirs. What I say is that these issues to me are VERY important, and always lingers in my mind when i do poon. Difficult not to beat yourself up when you do think of these things as being important!
The fact that some sps are great ppl, makes it more pressing.
Sam thanks for the response. Your perspective is interesting. I have seen you a few times and know that you are thes best in calgary IMO. Whenever I am down there I do try to see you! And I would recommend you to any guy that does like the sps that I do!
What I like about you, you have your head on straight. On the boards you have gotten a few bad raps for refusing clients.... but I honestly doubt some of these claims (sorry guys). I find you to be VERY reasonable.... which is great! Try treating sam with respect and she can be a gem.... i know. Remember it is your right to refuse/accept clients...and it is great you do take advantage of it! More sps should do that IMO. Also I like how you seem to enjoy what you are doing, it shows when you see me at least. I can't say that about every sp.
Some sps, (I am sorry girls) don't think properly IMO. As do some pooners. It puzzles me reading the stupidity of some of the arguments Edmonton Mod has posted about on here about. It is just evidence IMO that not all pooners/sps are wholeheartedly down-to-earth. This might be attributed to the fact that their is lots of drugs etc involved with prostitution, which is unfortunate.
Personally I only sps that are really down to earth, seem intelligent, (in general i see petite woman).... I don't like BS even from sps as I have mentioned before and sps I won't see do that. I think lauren, the two samanthas (muffpuff and sugar) are pretty down to earth and have a good personality that I like. They seem to be "on the map" so to speak and that is VERY important for me.If that is what you are looking for... my recommendations for the day.
Thanks mexman for the warm words. What you say is true, but i think I do care a great deal about some issues like physical safety etc. and other political issues.
It horrifies me reading about the murders of prostitutes in the edmonton area, vancouver, seattle etc. It is disgusting, and horrific how somebody has no respect for the ladies that I see. I know sps as ppl not as a 'hooker' somebody you can treat like dirt. Just because service etc is not good, it doesn't give anybody the right to treat somebody like crap. Lucky edmonton is mainly an MP city which protects the ladies to some degree. But knowing a few of the ladies fairly well from seeing them so often, it would devestate me if something were to ever happen to them because they are good ppl (the sps that i see I can say for sure). Also knowing that AIDS/and other stds are rampant these days and the symptoms of the disease makes it difficult to not worry about my own health and since i do care about some of the sps I see, difficult to not worry about theirs. What I say is that these issues to me are VERY important, and always lingers in my mind when i do poon. Difficult not to beat yourself up when you do think of these things as being important!
The fact that some sps are great ppl, makes it more pressing.
aw thanks FBI and i hope you meant "interesting" in a good way but i do have to say i really do turn down some guys and the the main reason is my safety and legal safety. i work from my own private place by myself so i have to be very careful and that why i have to screen new clients...but its nothing personal...i just don't take risks. for example tonight i recieved a phone call and he asked "is sam there" i said "speaking" we chatted for a bit and i asked him where he has been before...he mentioned a couple addresses, so i ask him the name of the parlour..he said mystic, i asked him who he saw there. he had mentioned a girl named sally......which i have never heard of working there or any other place (most of all the sps know each other). so i said to him i have never heard of her before......you will never guess how this guy replied to me. he said "fuck off and suck my dick"!!!!!!! i was very polite and just ask him a few questions but i guess that really bothered him that i cared about my well being. anyways my whole point is this what alot of guys are like that over the phone and get really upset when i don't bite my tonge and just take him for a little cash. i guess some guys who don't know me and make rude remarks and some guys will see through these people and my regulars will know the truth and that all that matters
have a great night sweetie
its my bedtime soon
hugs and kisses
sam
but i do have to say i really do turn down some guys and the the main reason is my safety and legal safety. i work from my own private place by myself so i have to be very careful and that why i have to screen new clients...but its nothing personal...i just don't take risks. for example tonight i recieved a phone call and he asked "is sam there" i said "speaking" we chatted for a bit and i asked him where he has been before...he mentioned a couple addresses, so i ask him the name of the parlour..he said mystic, i asked him who he saw there. he had mentioned a girl named sally......which i have never heard of working there or any other place (most of all the sps know each other). so i said to him i have never heard of her before......you will never guess how this guy replied to me. he said "fuck off and suck my dick"!!!!!!! i was very polite and just ask him a few questions but i guess that really bothered him that i cared about my well being. anyways my whole point is this what alot of guys are like that over the phone and get really upset when i don't bite my tonge and just take him for a little cash. i guess some guys who don't know me and make rude remarks and some guys will see through these people and my regulars will know the truth and that all that mattershave a great night sweetie
its my bedtime soon
hugs and kisses
sam
what would make you think i thought it was interesting in a negative way lol... anyways...muffpuff said:aw thanks FBI and i hope you meant "interesting" in a good way
he said "fuck off and suck my dick"!!!!!!! . i guess some guys who don't know me and make rude remarks and some guys will see through these people and my regulars will know the truth and that all that matters
have a great night sweetie
its my bedtime soon
hugs and kisses
sam
it happens to every sp trust me, being treated like crap sometimes, wrong YES. Some guys have no manners trust me. That is probably why some of us pay for sex lol (maybe me... i can be outspoken sometimes lol).
On the other hand i have never been refused service... so i don't know how i would feel.... but i don't think i would react that way. Anyways if you are refused service... end of the world? NO. I am sure these same guys have been rejected by ladies many times before, as most guys have. Remember you choose an sp, why can't an sp choose a client?
I was one of the first guys to visit your home ,as you told me but i Had seen you at CY before. I think your screening procedure is FAIR. However, There is some sp in edmonton... christy... she asks a ridiculous number of question. Pretty soon she will be asking for your pin number on your bank account and she DOESn't even work out of her home like you. I would hope that ppl realize that thiis is sam's case and understand that. I guess not all though eh sam?
Great thread...
Hey everyone. Just wanted to say how much I am enjoying reading this thread. I can't add too much myself without it becoming a "ditto" post and sounding lame (too late? ), but I can empathize with the guys talking about having a SO and wanting to leave pooning. I too have found it difficult to leave, even with having a SO. I have most definitely cut back, and now indulge only very occasionally, but I admit that sometimes I still go out looking for somebody other than my SO.
How bad does this make me sound? Yes I have guilt feelings about not committing only to my SO, going behind her back, etc., but somehow I haven't been able to stop completely. Guess that makes me "addicted" too?
I have given it much thought, and I think that somewhere along the way, likely after a long relationship ended, I started to equate the cure for emotional loneliness with sexual gratification. Perhaps that's why I tend to poon when my SO is away from me for extended periods and I am feeling lonely? I don't know for sure.
I have even tried to go for counselling, as I thought that I was sexually addicted and needed to be "cured". The long and the short of that encounter was that I was not in fact "addicted", and that I have to remember that no matter how much the little head is screaming at me, I always have a choice to see an MP/SP/SW (i.e. I can always say no or walk away if I have second thoughts). This has helped keep me close to where I want to be in life, and I have a better outlook on myself and my actions (although it is still not easy to get rid of guilt for my past experiences).
I don't know. I have enjoyed experiences with a few ladies in Calgary, Edmonton and elsewhere (although seemingly not nearly as many as some guys on here), so it is a real mind-fuck to both enjoy the memories and experiences, yet still feel guilty.
Ok, now that I have bared my soul, I should end this post. As I said, thanks for the honest and thoughtful discussion guys (and ladies ).
-C.
Hey everyone. Just wanted to say how much I am enjoying reading this thread. I can't add too much myself without it becoming a "ditto" post and sounding lame (too late?
), but I can empathize with the guys talking about having a SO and wanting to leave pooning. I too have found it difficult to leave, even with having a SO. I have most definitely cut back, and now indulge only very occasionally, but I admit that sometimes I still go out looking for somebody other than my SO.How bad does this make me sound? Yes I have guilt feelings about not committing only to my SO, going behind her back, etc., but somehow I haven't been able to stop completely. Guess that makes me "addicted" too?
I have given it much thought, and I think that somewhere along the way, likely after a long relationship ended, I started to equate the cure for emotional loneliness with sexual gratification. Perhaps that's why I tend to poon when my SO is away from me for extended periods and I am feeling lonely? I don't know for sure.
I have even tried to go for counselling, as I thought that I was sexually addicted and needed to be "cured". The long and the short of that encounter was that I was not in fact "addicted", and that I have to remember that no matter how much the little head is screaming at me, I always have a choice to see an MP/SP/SW (i.e. I can always say no or walk away if I have second thoughts). This has helped keep me close to where I want to be in life, and I have a better outlook on myself and my actions (although it is still not easy to get rid of guilt for my past experiences).
I don't know. I have enjoyed experiences with a few ladies in Calgary, Edmonton and elsewhere (although seemingly not nearly as many as some guys on here
), so it is a real mind-fuck to both enjoy the memories and experiences, yet still feel guilty. Ok, now that I have bared my soul, I should end this post. As I said, thanks for the honest and thoughtful discussion guys (and ladies
).-C.
Sorry agent_smith ... I should clarify that being married is my cover for not being able to draw!!!agent_smith said:
I do find that when I go to bars that I too am one of those guys who stands alone and usually leaves fairly quickly. Just not much good at pick up lines. Massive fear of rejection.
Anyway, after 16 years of marriage, and the last 5 with virtually no element of a physical relationship, I simply decided that I needed and craved physical intimacy. Because that is what I'm looking for, rather than just a quick fuck when I'm feeling horny, I do tend to see relatively few girls and I consider them good friends (hopefully they see me in that light as well).
anyway, it works for me. And it actually keeps my marriage together. Occasionally I feel a bit guilty about it, but that's pretty rare.
Tom
Let's be honest when you go to a bar spend and whole bunch of money buying drinks for chicks spending hours there hoping to get something. I don't buy that crap going just there for a good time your there to get laid. With an sp you get done in under and hour and move on with your life. You can get it from 9:00am-11:00pm. Though I haven't done the whole hanky panky with an sp. If you just want to kick back and relax and have a good time go to a pub, find a sport or whatever.
Thanks for the offer Everest, it's not that I am out of shape or even horriably disfigured (do glasses count as 4 eyes?). I think it's a combination of a few factors (person and non-personal).everest said:
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