Why Poon!
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Ok Wolverine..
cause i like variety, have alot of money, and don't always like fvcking "nice" girls or puttin in the time for said nice girls.
in addition, i do feel guilty if my only intention is to have sex with a "nice" girl and i do not want to mislead said "nice" girl into thinking we would be developing something real only to send her to the curb in tears.
further, it is always uncomfortable booting a one nighter out of your house in the morning, i hate cooking breakfast for anyone other than a "real" girlfriend, some "nice" girls do not like to give head, and some "nice" girls do not stop calling you after you try to give them the boot. oh yeah, did i mention that sometimes it is hard to distinguish "gold-diggers" from "nice" girls BEFORE you decide to have sex with them.
i can list some more reasons, but why don't YOU share with me and the board your reasons Wolverine. I have nothing to hide. Let's hear your list of reasons you pay.
cause i like variety, have alot of money, and don't always like fvcking "nice" girls or puttin in the time for said nice girls.
in addition, i do feel guilty if my only intention is to have sex with a "nice" girl and i do not want to mislead said "nice" girl into thinking we would be developing something real only to send her to the curb in tears.
further, it is always uncomfortable booting a one nighter out of your house in the morning, i hate cooking breakfast for anyone other than a "real" girlfriend, some "nice" girls do not like to give head, and some "nice" girls do not stop calling you after you try to give them the boot. oh yeah, did i mention that sometimes it is hard to distinguish "gold-diggers" from "nice" girls BEFORE you decide to have sex with them.
i can list some more reasons, but why don't YOU share with me and the board your reasons Wolverine. I have nothing to hide. Let's hear your list of reasons you pay.
The reason why I fucking pay is you see a girl like Samantha who delievers in a lot of areas. It beats having a girlfriend then you owe her somethin. Hell with my last girlfriend I had spend so much money on her. With sp's they don't owe you anything except 45-60minutes. You don't fell pressure to buy roses,rings and take them out every time and spend a lot of money on them. Then you go see her family who hates you because your not 6'2 and 200lbs. I'm saying I don't mind spending money on a gal it's just that I'm 24 years old I don't wanna have a kid yet or get married only to getting a frickin divorce. I'd like to establish a career save my money and then settle down with a great gal. Not get married be broke miserable and can't deliever for my kids. Which is what more people in this fuckin world should do instead of dropping their pants instead bringing a kid into the world and kurropting it. With sp's I feel more safe and relax.
sorry for the hijack Bigstick, but i am being called out
no, clearly you are implying i am some kind of fraud. i am just answering your pointed (and valid) question. there are many sps that i know in "real" world terms. real names and real phone numbers. i would never divulge them as i like them also as real women.
oh yeah, forgot to mention that i once had my summer ride vandalized by a fvcking crazy chick i dated because she went nuts after i cashed in my chips. that cost me a good sum of money to fix the scratches on my prized ride. we are talking a six figure ride.
oh yeah, did i ever tell you i got stalked once too. i had to help the chick get into Alberta Mental Hospital for depression and medication. if you ever want a pain in the ass, find a stalker. especially one that will follow you on dates with other women.
oh yeah, did i mention one of my ex-girlfriends tried to get fvcking "spousal support" because i let her live with me for a year.
lemme see, once i also almost got married, but i won't get into that one. that is a long motherfvcking story.
besides, i talk alot of smack, so i answer the bell if someone wants to call me on it. i still have more reasons if you want some more, Mr. Wolverine.
still waiting to hear your deepest secrets, sir. you asked for mine i believe fairness dictates you reciprocate in kind.
no, clearly you are implying i am some kind of fraud. i am just answering your pointed (and valid) question. there are many sps that i know in "real" world terms. real names and real phone numbers. i would never divulge them as i like them also as real women.
oh yeah, forgot to mention that i once had my summer ride vandalized by a fvcking crazy chick i dated because she went nuts after i cashed in my chips. that cost me a good sum of money to fix the scratches on my prized ride. we are talking a six figure ride.
oh yeah, did i ever tell you i got stalked once too. i had to help the chick get into Alberta Mental Hospital for depression and medication. if you ever want a pain in the ass, find a stalker. especially one that will follow you on dates with other women.
oh yeah, did i mention one of my ex-girlfriends tried to get fvcking "spousal support" because i let her live with me for a year.
lemme see, once i also almost got married, but i won't get into that one. that is a long motherfvcking story.
besides, i talk alot of smack, so i answer the bell if someone wants to call me on it. i still have more reasons if you want some more, Mr. Wolverine.
still waiting to hear your deepest secrets, sir. you asked for mine i believe fairness dictates you reciprocate in kind.
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Edmonton Mod
I dunno how this got so ugly... but it is just a discussion so far... chilll iceg. I don't think wolverine meant anything.
Still lurking.... I won't do anything to this thread. just keep it nice!
Still lurking.... I won't do anything to this thread. just keep it nice!
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Edmonton Mod
lol. I try. I think i will split this thread and move it to the general discussion section. Why poon?
My reasons...
I dunno I am quitting honest to god.
Iceg... bro to bro... sounds like you have had some rough luck with woman there... feel for you. Know the situation.
My story...
I went 4x a week in october-> january... then down to 1x per week->1 every 2 weeks->then down to 1x/3weeks->1time/4 weeks. It was my plan to quit this way and it is working i believe. I have tried cold-cut quiting. That doesn't really work.
Being a younger guy (21) i think that pooning is good to fulfill sexual needs, but other than it can cause some problems at least for me. It became addictive, and left me feeling lonely and craving more. I think the more and more you go to sps, it becomes kinda routine, something you do. Very addictive.
I think if you find a good woman, you get much more satisfaction and can save some money (at least the way I spend money on sps.... lol.... not kidding here guys I think in my prime i was spending like 1000+ dollars a week on 1 sp
you know the two sps i saw ) That is why i thought it was time to quit. Sps are nice, for the sex.... but I think it left me with a bit of an emotional void. That is a part that i miss in a real relationship.
If sex is really important to you, an sp should be your thing... otherwise i dunno you gotta look at yourself individually. Me personally...I am still young, got a bit going for me, know i could treat a lady exceptionally well. So it was time to quit. Findng the right person is hard, but it is a search even for a great sp. I think part of my problem is being quiet and isolated in the real world. I am not really anti-social. I just stick to my same group of friends and family, and it is diffiicult to meet new people that could suit me that way + having a bit of money at a young age and being stupid with it led me to seeing sps.
I dunno I am quitting honest to god.
Iceg... bro to bro... sounds like you have had some rough luck with woman there... feel for you. Know the situation.
My story...
I went 4x a week in october-> january... then down to 1x per week->1 every 2 weeks->then down to 1x/3weeks->1time/4 weeks. It was my plan to quit this way and it is working i believe. I have tried cold-cut quiting. That doesn't really work.
Being a younger guy (21) i think that pooning is good to fulfill sexual needs, but other than it can cause some problems at least for me. It became addictive, and left me feeling lonely and craving more. I think the more and more you go to sps, it becomes kinda routine, something you do. Very addictive.
I think if you find a good woman, you get much more satisfaction and can save some money (at least the way I spend money on sps.... lol.... not kidding here guys I think in my prime i was spending like 1000+ dollars a week on 1 sp
you know the two sps i saw ) That is why i thought it was time to quit. Sps are nice, for the sex.... but I think it left me with a bit of an emotional void. That is a part that i miss in a real relationship.If sex is really important to you, an sp should be your thing... otherwise i dunno you gotta look at yourself individually. Me personally...I am still young, got a bit going for me, know i could treat a lady exceptionally well. So it was time to quit. Findng the right person is hard, but it is a search even for a great sp. I think part of my problem is being quiet and isolated in the real world. I am not really anti-social. I just stick to my same group of friends and family, and it is diffiicult to meet new people that could suit me that way + having a bit of money at a young age and being stupid with it led me to seeing sps.
i have also had my heart broken and i have broken my share of hearts.
i have had some good relationships that failed because of timing, long-distance maintenance (or lack thereof), religious differences, career goal differences, differences on whether to have or not have children, and being in love with someone else still.
FBI, i have nothing to complain about in terms of i have had a few top notch, ultimate babe, unbelievably smart and gorgeous women that i wished had worked out, but they didn't.
i have had good and bad relationships. it is just easier to look back at the bad ones as a rationale to pay sps.
if i think about the "ones that got away", it makes me sad that i have been paying sps because i know had those ones worked out, then i never would have discovered the pay 4 play world.
i am just making the best of where i am now.
i have had some good relationships that failed because of timing, long-distance maintenance (or lack thereof), religious differences, career goal differences, differences on whether to have or not have children, and being in love with someone else still.
FBI, i have nothing to complain about in terms of i have had a few top notch, ultimate babe, unbelievably smart and gorgeous women that i wished had worked out, but they didn't.
i have had good and bad relationships. it is just easier to look back at the bad ones as a rationale to pay sps.
if i think about the "ones that got away", it makes me sad that i have been paying sps because i know had those ones worked out, then i never would have discovered the pay 4 play world.
i am just making the best of where i am now.
I kinda feel the same. On the whole I don't think most ppl approve of men paying for sex. It is a cultural taboo. I don't really support myself paying for sex either but on other hand it is too addictive to quit or i am not determined enough. Sometimes i do feel guilty because I know there a lot of good woman in this business that do it strictly for financial reasons (kids etc...) it makes me feel guilty that I have do this to someone so nice, even though I am paying. Partly because I have met a few sps that absolutely hated their job and have confided too me this. That is not good thing sometimes to tell a client, because it does make us feel bad. ON the whole i don't believe this to be true of ever sp though, hating their job.IceG said:
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I know that the two sps that i have seen on a regular basis (lauren + another sp) are exceptional ppl. I feel kinda badly in some ways for them because they are nice good hearted ppl. Spending lots of time with someone (an sp or anyone), you do get to know them. No matter how hard you resist, feelings enter. Thats why I feel kinda badly sometimes for them. Not really because it is a bad job (that is if they enjoy it) but because they are somewhat shunned in society because of what they do and they don't really deserve it because they are good ppl!
They have to hide things from everybody (family and friends) and some of the stereotypes out there are just not true, + no matter how good clients they see there are LOTS of bad apples out in this business. Sorry guys, it probably isn't you but trust me there are some and that makes me feel guilty that perhaps i could be one of these guys treating a nice lady poorly. I also worry about their health and physical safety. It is dangerous. Sometimes I don't consider myself in love with an sp, but rather i like them as a friend and care for them in that way. I think this lead to some of the emotional toll that being a john has taken on me. Thats why I am quitting. Call me weak, i am but i am somewhat of an emotional guy
Weak like a little girl.FBI said:Sometimes I don't consider myself in love with an sp, but rather i like them as a friend and care for them in that way. I think this lead to some of the emotional toll that being a john has taken on me. Thats why I am quitting. Call me weak, i am but i am somewhat of an emotional guy
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Just watchin' South Park. Cartman saves South Park from a doomsday Hippy music festival with a giant drilling machine and Death Metal.FBI said:girl i asked for that
Why I Poon ...
1. Variety without commitment;
2. Cheaper than marriage or a demanding SO;
3. Great recreation and relaxation;
4. With good Board Intel, you generally get what you were expecting;
5. Many of the Girls are Lookers who have pleasing Attitudes and provide excellent Service;
6. Dating always brings expectations and I have nothing to give back at this point in my lkfe. I don't want a Wife or SO right now; and
7. I can't think of any real reason to stop !!
1. Variety without commitment;
2. Cheaper than marriage or a demanding SO;
3. Great recreation and relaxation;
4. With good Board Intel, you generally get what you were expecting;
5. Many of the Girls are Lookers who have pleasing Attitudes and provide excellent Service;
6. Dating always brings expectations and I have nothing to give back at this point in my lkfe. I don't want a Wife or SO right now; and
7. I can't think of any real reason to stop
!!I also do feel guilty sometimes seeing an sp that's why I haven't had fs yet. The thought that always goes through my mind is that this was an innocent girl twenty years ago daddy's litttle girl and now she's here with me. I like seeing an sp that is doing something with their life outside of the business. I know a handful of girls that have side job and also are going to school. Honest to god I hope they move on to bigger and better things. Right now I'm debating whether I should have fs with Samantha next time with this great gal but, you know she's not my girlfriend. That's why I've decided also to slow down and stick with one sp her. When I've seen an sp I've only done the basic. So if anybody accuses, I can say I never had sexual relations with that women . I never did the hanky panky. Thanks Bill Clinton. Though Samantha is making it very tough.
. I never did the hanky panky. Thanks Bill Clinton. Though Samantha is making it very tough. OK, IceG, you deserve a serious reply:
Although I made the "not a playa" comment in jest (just to fuck with ya! ), there is truth to it. If I'm at a bar or club, I'm just one of the losers who stand there nursing his drink and staring at the dance floor all night. I meet women at these places either because I'm wingman to a playa or because she's made the first moves. I tend to meet ladies through other means (lavalife, speed dating), but these avenues can be hit and miss. When I find myself in a relationship that gets more serious then I quit pooning, period - as was the case a few months ago. When I am "between gfs" then I poon.
Although I made the "not a playa" comment in jest (just to fuck with ya!
), there is truth to it. If I'm at a bar or club, I'm just one of the losers who stand there nursing his drink and staring at the dance floor all night. I meet women at these places either because I'm wingman to a playa or because she's made the first moves. I tend to meet ladies through other means (lavalife, speed dating), but these avenues can be hit and miss. When I find myself in a relationship that gets more serious then I quit pooning, period - as was the case a few months ago. When I am "between gfs" then I poon.