Why do YOU participate?

Mr. J

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It's no secret that a lot of us (myself included) have engaged in sessions with SP's at one time or another. That's all fine and well, but it got me to thinking: why do we do it? I've been examining some of my own adventures (and misadventures) and got curious as to why others would get into the hobby. I'd love to hear what some of you have to say, and don't worry. No judgement here. I guess I'll get the ball rolling...

The real reason for my own participation in this hobby is not simply a means to fulfill some kind of fantasy scenario. Rather, it's a feeling of being lonely. Growing up and even to this day, I have had a lousy track record with trying to get dates with girls, or even a girlfriend...and it's left me starved for physical intimacy. A lot of this is on me because I have never been comfortable in social situations. Dating sites have also been a drain on me mentally considering that I learned the hard way that most of them aren't worth the paper they're printed on. All that taken into account would be enough to get a guy to just hang up is gloves and say 'to hell with it.'

Without going into too much detail, my two recent visits with visiting SP's has actually been something of a kick in the butt that I've sorely needed to try and get out of my funk. Both were extremely beautiful and on top of some really awesome sex, just talking with them was great as well. Intimacy AND intellect is the ultimate package deal. I would love to see those two again whenever they come back through Winnipeg, but only if I have the funds. Even better, perhaps these encounters have given my mental state a boost to try and be more outgoing.

Well that's my story. Hopefully you all have some insight as to why you may participate. Thanks for reading!
 
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storm rider

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Dec 6, 2008
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After I got divorced I tried the dating scene and quickly got tired of meeting gals that had a lot of baggage as well an attitude of entitlement.Opted for SP's as I get what I want when I want it and with no strings attached.

Dated 1 gal briefly and had sex once with her and the next day she said she had an awesome "investment opportunity" for me but she could not explain what it was.Next that "opportunity" turned out to be a loan to her for $20,000
which after a few questions was going to be "gift" that did not need to be repaid.End of conversation and end of the short relationship.

SR
 

johnnydepth

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I haven't seen a SP in years. For me it was about experimentation, trying different things and pushing limits that might not be available in most relationships. It was also about women of different ethnicity that are difficult if not impossible to date. Now as the expression goes, been there and done that. Not saying I'm never going to see a SP again but it would take a lot to interest me.
 

poonerboi

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Honestly, I started while in a relationship that should have ended long before it did . I am too lazy/cowardly to be the bad guy . I think I convinced myself that I was just looking for affection , but truthfully I think I wanted to get caught or something. Now I continue because I really don't have the energy for relationships that are constant work.
 

m_clock

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For years I was a single parent and had a company to run. I didn't have time or energy to forge any romantic relationships. Now my kids have moved out and I've stepped back from my work responsibilities. I have the resources to do this and it's a nice fit.
 
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northvan10

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Honestly, I started while in a relationship that should have ended long before it did . I am too lazy/cowardly to be the bad guy . I think I convinced myself that I was just looking for affection , but truthfully I think I wanted to get caught or something. Now I continue because I really don't have the energy for relationships that are constant work.
What he said!

Honestly poonerboi, you pretty well captured my story too.
 

80watts

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Consulting fees are tax deductible as a business expense. Pls check with your local accountant.

Word of advise, if audited and they (Rev Can) find the fees are actually not consulting fees, you'll get royally fucked better by Revenue Canada then from any SP....

Companionship mostly with side aspirations for pussy, big boobs, and an tight well formed ass.... and you can touch without getting your hands slapped, alot of the time its encouraged.....
 

Finewine60

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Never cheat on your taxes, yes some expenses are legit. But really consulting fees without a receipt, yep you will get caught.
 

islander1-1

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I think I have weighted in on this one before on here, but.

I am happily married, but not gettin any since menopause set in. I resolved to the situation for about 2 years then out of frustration, took the plunge. I have managed to separate love and sex... I love my wife to pieces, I don't love my escorts, But I do love having sex with them.
 

Beasting

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To bury my old shriveled tiny cock in some tight warm wet young pussy!

Bonus to also drool all over her and keep reminding her how young she is and how old I am. I see myself like the ghost of Christmas future, motivating these delicious munchkins to stay in school. :eyebrows:
 
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