WHY DO YOU LIKE PERB? 🤔

[Flic]

Why Do I Like Perb?

For me, I like Perb because it's a community where members genuinely help each other. You can find mostly honest reviews, which offer valuable insights. This is especially helpful if you're interested in learning more about specific individuals or agencies. Whenever I see an ad for an escort that I might like, the first thing I do is search for reviews on Perb. It gives me a level of familiarity and reassurance before I decide to meet them.

 

[GentlemanJack69]

Why Do I Like Perb?

For me, I like Perb because it's a community where members genuinely help each other. You can find mostly honest reviews, which offer valuable insights. This is especially helpful if you're interested in learning more about specific individuals or agencies. Whenever I see an ad for an escort that I might like, the first thing I do is search for reviews on Perb. It gives me a level of familiarity and reassurance before I decide to meet them.

I like Perb because I can trust the information provided to be experiential rather than deceptive. While a member may not have the same perpective as me, they are still providing a true narrative without guile or ulterior motive.

 

[pervypervison]

when i first tried this hobby a while back, i had so many questions and concerns. without reading the feedback from others, i don't think i would've had the confidence or peace of mind to book an indie provider or the asian shops....in fear of getting ripped off.

a friend of mine just got introduced to this world and his mind has been blown reading about all the different SPs/shops/AMPs, etc

there was a stretch where i'd write my reviews while still on a high of having a really good session. but reading my own reviews in hindsight, i realized too much detail or too much exuberance can skew expectations. i've since changed my approach and also haven't used number ratings in a while. it leads to a lot more people messaging me directly for input/suggestions, but at least i can provide them feedback with more context. PERB and the community of trusted reviewers is definitely a huge help when things are only getting more expensive and we all want to avoid wasting money with someone that we may not click with.

 

[Uncled]

I am easily amused and entertained.

I come here for the drama. 🍿

 

[GeeBeeP]

Joined for the reviews, recommendations and ads for SP’s. After a few years I found that I have something to contribute now and again to help others out. I also like the perspective of other guys that are “like minded”, not just on the world of escorts.

I stick around for all those things and for the entertainment value. Some of you fuckers are pretty funny

 

[Mr. J]

Everything mentioned above, and that I can also be of value regarding honest reviews and the entertainment factor.

 

[jeffu]

1) Sharing and receiving information. Without Perb this hobby would be reduced to trying to find a needle in a haystack at best or navigating a minefield at worst. I've had many amazing experiences with some incredble women over the years and I owe a good many of them to information gleaned from this board. On the flipside every time I've shared a review I'll receive a PM or two from someone who decided to see a girl based on something I said or wrote and wanted to say thank you for their own amazing experience. That is also very rewarding.

2) Being able, through reviews and private conversations, to share fellowship with others and to express and communicate some of the joy I've experienced with all the beautiful women I've met over the years. Like many around here my participation in this hobby is a nuclear-launch-codes level secret and consequently I don't have anyone in my day to day life with whom I can have conversations about it. Perb is great for that.

 

[Real Sonny Burnett]

I love you Perb!

 

[masterpoonhunter]

Some really outstanding leads.
and Excellent warnings of whom to avoid!

 

[VinVan]

First of all thank you Flic for starting this thread.

Perb is a community. A fucked up one at times, by a community nevertheless. (Honestly, I could do with less of the bro trolls and their incessant misogyny, but oh well).

And what we do is really, in the grand scheme of things, fucked up. The majority of us are cheating on our significant others (me included). In a perfect world we would have the courage to resolve why we’re not having sex with our SO, but it takes two to tango (or two to not tango as the case may be). So we come here to the Perb watering hole to commiserate with the other jackels to slake our thirst for sex. For the most part forgiving each other, without judgement (except for the troll bros who love to cast the first stone) for our kinks and sins. Where else in our pathetic lives (and I mean this with love and no malice because we are all pathetic in our own unique ways) can we do that?

I’m also grateful to Perb because over the years I’ve met, in person, a number of blokes who have become Perb friends over lunch or coffee and we just talk shit. It might be about investing or it might be about the hottest SP we’ve banged; or it might be about some unspeakable kink that can’t even be shared on Perb. But the bottom line is that it is fucking liberating to be able to share with an other human our experiences in this shadow world where no one else would understand our peculiar addiction without judgement or admonishment.

So, yes, Perb, I raise a glass to you, and all the rogues, and charlatans, and miscreants who huddle in the shelter of your bosom.

PS. And I also raise a glass to the Mods, who put up with an inordinate amount of shit from clearly dysfunctional humans and keep Perb from descending into complete chaos.

PPS. And I raise a glass to all the SPs who put up with our bullshit on Perb and elsewhere. I worship at the altar of your breasts and kitty kats, but more so at the compassion you show wretched souls like me. I love all of you without reservation for allowing me (and my compadres) - even if only for payment and in 60-minute increments - a fleeting taste of the oxygen of intimacy that we would otherwise suffocate without.

 

[Big Dick Bob]

The Escort Listings are much more reliable than other sites, and it's nice to know I'm not the only sex fueled degenerate out there.

 

[oneoldone]

First of all thank you Flic for starting this thread.

Perb is a community. A fucked up one at times, by a community nevertheless. (Honestly, I could do with less of the bro trolls and their incessant misogyny, but oh well).

And what we do is really, in the grand scheme of things, fucked up. The majority of us are cheating on our significant others (me included). In a perfect world we would have the courage to resolve why we’re not having sex with our SO, but it takes two to tango (or two to not tango as the case may be). So we come here to the Perb watering hole to commiserate with the other jackels to slake our thirst for sex. For the most part forgiving each other, without judgement (except for the troll bros who love to cast the first stone) for our kinks and sins. Where else in our pathetic lives (and I mean this with love and no malice because we are all pathetic in our own unique ways) can we do that?

I’m also grateful to Perb because over the years I’ve met, in person, a number of blokes who have become Perb friends over lunch or coffee and we just talk shit. It might be about investing or it might be about the hottest SP we’ve banged; or it might be about some unspeakable kink that can’t even be shared on Perb. But the bottom line is that it is fucking liberating to be able to share with an other human our experiences in this shadow world where no one else would understand our peculiar addiction without judgement or admonishment.

So, yes, Perb, I raise a glass to you, and all the rogues, and charlatans, and miscreants who huddle in the shelter of your bosom.

PS. And I also raise a glass to the Mods, who put up with an inordinate amount of shit from clearly dysfunctional humans and keep Perb from descending into complete chaos.

PPS. And I raise a glass to all the SPs who put up with our bullshit on Perb and elsewhere. I worship at the altar of your breasts and kitty kats, but more so at the compassion you show wretched souls like me. I love all of you without reservation for allowing me (and my compadres) - even if only for payment and in 60-minute increments - a fleeting taste of the oxygen of intimacy that we would otherwise suffocate without.

This sums it up for me especialy the last sentence so true.

 

[jeffu]

But the bottom line is that it is fucking liberating to be able to share with an other human our experiences in this shadow world where no one else would understand our peculiar addiction without judgement or admonishment.

This is so true. I know that at the end of the day Perb is fundamentally a platform to sell advertising and that the community aspect is merely incidental in the grand scheme of things-- but as someone who has been here off an on for nearly 20 years having a place like this to share fellowship with like minded souls about somethiing we truly love and that we have to keep secret to the extent that it is pretty much a double life for most of us, really is liberating.

I worship at the altar of your breasts and kitty kats, but more so at the compassion you show wretched souls like me. I love all of you without reservation for allowing me (and my compadres) - even if only for payment and in 60-minute increments - a fleeting taste of the oxygen of intimacy that we would otherwise suffocate without.

Due to my own predilections I would say "breasts, bums and kitty kats" but this is a beautiful and poetic sentiment, especially the last few words. In a world increasingly plagued by chaos and uncertainty I cannot begin to express the gratitude I feel for all the wonderful providers out there who, by virtue of the work they do for us, make everything just a little more bearable.

 

[204fun]

My biggest appreciation for Perb is that is allowed me to enter into this world of seeing SP's in a safe and positive way. I recall when I first started glancing at escort ads on backpage and was overwhelmed by what seemed like such a plethora of gorgeous ladies advertising their services. In hindsight, there were many that I was very close to reaching out to where it would have been an absolute disaster. When I finally stumbled upon Perb it provided an opportunity to do some research and select ladies that would provide an excellent experience in a safe environment. Since then it's been almost 7 years of quality experiences with a number of fantastic women.

 

[uncleg]

Only game like it in town....

 

[pervypervison]

1) Sharing and receiving information. Without Perb this hobby would be reduced to trying to find a needle in a haystack at best or navigating a minefield at worst. I've had many amazing experiences with some incredble women over the years and I owe a good many of them to information gleaned from this board. On the flipside every time I've shared a review I'll receive a PM or two from someone who decided to see a girl based on something I said or wrote and wanted to say thank you for their own amazing experience. That is also very rewarding.

2) Being able, through reviews and private conversations, to share fellowship with others and to express and communicate some of the joy I've experienced with all the beautiful women I've met over the years. Like many around here my participation in this hobby is a nuclear-launch-codes level secret and consequently I don't have anyone in my day to day life with whom I can have conversations about it. Perb is great for that.

My thoughts definitely resonate with yours. There's a handful of people I discuss this hobby with, but none of them actually partake. So when it comes to talking shop, it's the people on PERB that'll ultimately provide a good sanity check when needed.

I also dig the positive vibes when people take the time to DM and thank me for a review or ask for a suggestion. Sometimes it's annoying when the haters try to throw shade cause their conspiracy theory minds can't seem to fathom someone having regular good experiences with SPs.... but in all my time using PERB not a single person has messaged me in anger/frustration that my review somehow misled them. Instead, it typically reads like, "thank you so much....", "I only poon once in a blue moon and I'm so glad I came across your review", etc

I definitely appreciate the positivity and affirmation that flows on here. At the end of the day, it's ultimately about sex, which is a wonderful thing, so I choose to check cynicism and negativity at the door.

 

[Pumped]

And what we do is really, in the grand scheme of things, fucked up. The majority of us are cheating on our significant others

Not all of us are cheating on someone. Any time I have been dating (casual, or long term relationships) this 'hobby' has NOT be part of my life.

When I'm single and not dating? Then its a full-blown feast!

I've had partners cheat on me and the devastation I felt was incredible -- I never want to do that to someone else. But it also taught me a lot about my own psychology and the damage that was done long before I even had a chance to figure out my own self. Lots of work helped me to recognize where those feelings came from and then more work to deal with those as well.

The more work I have done the less interested in relationships I've become. Main reason is that there are simply so many people out there who simply refuse to do any work at all on understanding themselves and how to deal with their own issues. Am I still fucked up? Hell yeah. But at the very least I am aware of how and why and ways to constructively deal with my issues.

And I've found that I really prefer the basic honesty of the transactional nature of this business. I can simply ask for what I want and if it's available, simply enjoy it guilt-free.

I agree with your other statements -- particularly concerning the trolls. Not a fun part of PERB at all.

 

[Jarritos]

Great resource for knowing which girls are legit and how good their service is.

Also love me a classic forum board, brings back the nostalgia 😍

 

[E.H.]

I like having a receptive readership,for my literary arts creativity.

Engelbert Humperdink

 

[Flic]

First of all thank you Flic for starting this thread.

Perb is a community. A fucked up one at times, by a community nevertheless. (Honestly, I could do with less of the bro trolls and their incessant misogyny, but oh well).

And what we do is really, in the grand scheme of things, fucked up. The majority of us are cheating on our significant others (me included). In a perfect world we would have the courage to resolve why we’re not having sex with our SO, but it takes two to tango (or two to not tango as the case may be). So we come here to the Perb watering hole to commiserate with the other jackels to slake our thirst for sex. For the most part forgiving each other, without judgement (except for the troll bros who love to cast the first stone) for our kinks and sins. Where else in our pathetic lives (and I mean this with love and no malice because we are all pathetic in our own unique ways) can we do that?

I’m also grateful to Perb because over the years I’ve met, in person, a number of blokes who have become Perb friends over lunch or coffee and we just talk shit. It might be about investing or it might be about the hottest SP we’ve banged; or it might be about some unspeakable kink that can’t even be shared on Perb. But the bottom line is that it is fucking liberating to be able to share with an other human our experiences in this shadow world where no one else would understand our peculiar addiction without judgement or admonishment.

So, yes, Perb, I raise a glass to you, and all the rogues, and charlatans, and miscreants who huddle in the shelter of your bosom.

PS. And I also raise a glass to the Mods, who put up with an inordinate amount of shit from clearly dysfunctional humans and keep Perb from descending into complete chaos.

PPS. And I raise a glass to all the SPs who put up with our bullshit on Perb and elsewhere. I worship at the altar of your breasts and kitty kats, but more so at the compassion you show wretched souls like me. I love all of you without reservation for allowing me (and my compadres) - even if only for payment and in 60-minute increments - a fleeting taste of the oxygen of intimacy that we would otherwise suffocate without.

I hadn't planned on responding initially, but your comment continues to bother me. I want to express this respectfully: it's sad to see you feel this way about yourself. What's even more unfortunate is projecting that self-image onto others. Each person has their own reasons for choosing their hobbies, and it's not for anyone else to judge.

Speaking for myself, I enjoy meeting new girl, and I prefer not to limit myself to a relationship. I believe it would be dishonest to pretend interest in a relationship when I am not. In my opinion this industry operates on mutual expectations, where no one is coerced into anything they don't want to do.