Why do SPs usually prefer older guys?

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

Maybe because we only have one round in the chamber typically that we tend to slow it down and truly savour the experience.

I have met many women that, never or seldomly ever, come with a client. They are very happy, and sometimes surprised, that someone makes the effort to take care of their needs. It takes patience, experience and a desire to want to make this happen. I look back at my younger days and realize that a woman's pleasure was, shall we say, not as front and center with me as it is today. Women came more as an accidental result of sheer endurance rather than finese and technique. lol. With us older guys, I think, the later is our trump card, and it is much much more reliable. lol.

Definitely, for me at least, it is about intimacy and connection. With great connection you can together really make amazing things happen!

All I know, and my ego enters here, is I like to leave a girl with a smile on her face and know that is not all about the chubby envelope on the dresser.

pb

Ding ding ding....we MIGHT just have a winner!

Not too long ago I met a younger man who said after a 2 round romp "I find I just can't do it like i used to. I used to be able to cum 4 times in an hour!" I suggested, kindly, that perhaps it was maturity, & he was learning that maybe it wasn't JUST about his orgasms. Maybe, just maybe, it was about learning how to make HER orgasm first so that HIS would be even better. Usually, the guys over 40 have figured that out already...

 

[hornygandalf]

Definitely, for me at least, it is about intimacy and connection. With great connection you can together really make amazing things happen!

All I know, and my ego enters here, is I like to leave a girl with a smile on her face and know that is not all about the chubby envelope on the dresser.

Absolutely. Maybe I'm a bit strange, but I see the transaction in part as the lady giving me the 'privilege' to make her feel really good.
Seeing the rapturous joy on their face gives me more satisfaction than my own release... and to have both happening at the same time... superb.
And the intimacy and connection before and after.... essential.

 

[pro-boner]

Yes indeed, the coin is just the entrance fee, and gets her attention. What you do from then on either separates you from the pack or puts you in the income column. It's very nice when ladies give you a personal heads up as their travel plans and your priority inclusion there in. Nice when they give you the little bonuses and such. A reward if you will for making their job more fun and less like work.

Regards
Pb

Old Guys....Fatter Wallets and Longer Tongues....LOL!

 

[paprides]

Maybe, just maybe, it was about learning how to make HER orgasm first so that HIS would be even better. Usually, the guys over 40 have figured that out already...

Old expression, "Nice guys finish last." Unsure of the origin.
Fits rather well in an intimate encounter in my view.

 

[Dickson]

Absolutely. Maybe I'm a bit strange, but I see the transaction in part as the lady giving me the 'privilege' to make her feel really good.
Seeing the rapturous joy on their face gives me more satisfaction than my own release... and to have both happening at the same time... superb.
And the intimacy and connection before and after.... essential.

Oh good. I am not the only one.

I was starting to think it was his just me.

It does sound crazy that I pay just to make them feel special. So I can enjoy the experience of watching her with a tear of joy. I crave the opportunity to see her smile. The sex lasts a hour or so but the weekend of watching her smile and know someone can enjoy my company is what I seek. Even I it is fake. It is better than paying money so I can hear a so called "real gf" complain about how terrible everything is.

That is why a Ms James is an amazing travel companion she is always so happy. She makes me feel that all the work that goes into the event is appreciated. She always says Wow! She appreciates my uniqueness and lets me please her.

So I feel better knowing that my desire to please my SP and do something special makes her say she she enjoys me and wants to be with me.

Maybe it is not so rare after all.

Looking forward to my next adventure with Ms J and I am so looking forward to taking her breath away!

So call me crazy guys but I am not alone.

 

[Lavinia]

I prefer more mature gents because we tend to just have more in common and better chemistry. I have always been attracted to men much older than myself. Now that I am closer to my preferred age group, the gap seems much less extreme. I find the older men to be more worldly, respectful, and usually know what they like in bed and how to express it. They also tend to appreciate my enthusiasm and passion more than the younger guys. The young guys tend to party more, are more insecure, and generally see me as a notch on their belt. Now, no disrespect to young guys. I have seen plenty that are totally amazing and fun to be with. For me it's all about the approach. If someone sends me a polite, mature, and genuine email or message, it doesn't matter how old they are. (As long as they are legal) I will be far more likely to see them and connect well.

 

[badbadboy]

Younger guys tend to have had less long term relationships with non SP's than mature guys. The mature guys have been through usually numerous LTR's and with that comes mutual satisfaction for both partners in successful relationships. They tend to actually care if their partner has as much fun as themselves.

Younger guys growing up watching too much jack hammering porn (usually) does not equate to having a mutually beneficial tryst with any partner. Obviously in any LTR there is a time for sensual GFE, spontaneous fucking on bathroom countertops and many porno style flavours too.

Also with respect to younger guys with SP's, I note in many reviews they typically like to have 30 minute (or less) dates; get in, get on, get your gun off and get out. Presumably they get the 30 min dates because of less cost and are not really interested if the SP also enjoys herself.

When requests for dates come in and one guy asks for a 30 minute date and an older guy asks for a 90 min or two hour date; which one do you think an SP would choose? Monetarily and potentially enjoyment wise, I'd say the mature guy would get the time over the younger guy.

 

[uncleg]

...cause a 25 year old sayin' who's your Daddy just doesn't cut it........

 

[badbadboy]

...cause a 25 year old sayin' who's your Grand Daddy just doesn't cut it........

Fixed it for yah ound:

 

[hornygandalf]

Oh good. I am not the only one.

I was starting to think it was his just me.

.... So call me crazy guys but I am not alone.

Nah, you're not crazy Dickson. And I'm sure it is more than just the two of us. But then, neither of us are young bucks either.
And I'm saving my shekels to enjoy the Ms. James experience for myself a little later in the year, so will see how my experience compares with yours... though I won't be able to pull off do the kind of total experience you pull off.

 

[uncleg]

Fixed it for yah ound:

Actually I was going to go there, but I didn't want to go all Dicksonesque on all the young bucks.......

 

[Seraphina]

Because their more gentlemenly. have manners and are mature most the time and they treat us like ladies and respect us

 

[Riza]

What she said :nod: