Why do some clients insist on being the first client of the day?

Status
Not open for further replies.

bigballs55

Active member
Jan 2, 2014
85
150
33
There is something special about being the first in line plus the whole starting the day with a little play time is just soooo damn good! šŸ˜€
 

kelcaine

www.kelcaine.com
Supporting Member
Mar 31, 2022
550
1,534
93
Surrey
kelcaine.com
Not necessarily. Some women like myself have higher intensity orgasms the more sex they have. Especially being a squirter. Once that seal is broken it back builds, & šŸ’¦ flows harder and further.

So if there’s a good connection with someone & then someone else drops by shortly after, well the engines been warmed, revved & its ready to roll. The right chemistry and connections have to be in play though for this delicate art to happen & when it does it wouldn’t matter if you’re first or last.

I think men like ā€œ being firstā€ because they like thinking that no one else has touched us before them. Maybe we come across ā€œ cleanerā€

Also men who book mornings around their gym routines show up extra pumped for their sessions, and I think by being first they are hoping we can match their energies. Or they take pride or like the thought of ā€œ ruiningā€ us, & hope to leave us weak in the knees so no one else will compare to them the rest of the day.
I am one of these women too! I can have more intense and more orgasms often the more sex I have. This is also why in my personal life on the weekends if I have sex I can’t get enough and my orgasms can be more intense too. I have had to explain this to friends I am intimate with when they are surprised how much sex I want after working all week. But I also have a crazy high sex drive too.

Thank you for your input, it’s much appreciated.
 

PuntMeister

Punt-on!
Jul 13, 2003
2,292
1,484
113
Whatever in life doesn’t work right, POWER CYCLE it. Turn it off, then turn it on again. Solves 96.8% of the world’s tech problems. Do this first. Then post. Lol.

So why not Power Cycle your sex drive?

I like early appointments for the ā€œFreshly Rebootedā€ vixen of my dreams.

It’s a new dawn,
It’s a new day
It’s a new life….for me,
…….and I’m feeling GOOD 🄰
 

HunkyBill

Well-known member
Jun 8, 2008
1,441
176
63
Not necessarily. Some women like myself have higher intensity orgasms the more sex they have. Especially being a squirter. Once that seal is broken it back builds, & šŸ’¦ flows harder and further.
To quote Michael Buble, "I haven't met you, yet". :)

Any how, we naturally base our opinions on personal experiences, though that’s becoming rarer. These days, most people form opinions based on others’ views from social media and echo chambers.

In my experience, I’ve never encountered a provider who seemed genuinely orgasmic after seeing multiple customers. For me, it has always been in the morning or when I am the first customer. That doesn’t mean I avoid seeing providers at other times—in fact, I mostly do now—but I’ve been around long enough to know what’s real and what isn’t. And that infamous scene from When Harry Met Sally comes to mind, lol.
 
  • Like
Reactions: Harmony-bc

LADY-LYRAH

JUST A WILD CAT.
To quote Michael Buble, "I haven't met you, yet". :)

Any how, we naturally base our opinions on personal experiences, though that’s becoming rarer. These days, most people form opinions based on others’ views from social media and echo chambers.

In my experience, I’ve never encountered a provider who seemed genuinely orgasmic after seeing multiple customers. For me, it has always been in the morning or when I am the first customer. That doesn’t mean I avoid seeing providers at other times—in fact, I mostly do now—but I’ve been around long enough to know what’s real and what isn’t. And that infamous scene from When Harry Met Sally comes to mind, lol.
That is a great scene.😊
 

masterpoonhunter

"Marriage should be a renewable contract"
Sep 15, 2019
3,177
5,421
113
I am one of these women too! I can have more intense and more orgasms often the more sex I have. This is also why in my personal life on the weekends if I have sex I can’t get enough and my orgasms can be more intense too. I have had to explain this to friends I am intimate with when they are surprised how much sex I want after working all week. But I also have a crazy high sex drive too.

Thank you for your input, it’s much appreciated.
Jesus Christ
He mutters noting "find this woman"
 

LADY-LYRAH

JUST A WILD CAT.
I am one of these women too! I can have more intense and more orgasms often the more sex I have. This is also why in my personal life on the weekends if I have sex I can’t get enough and my orgasms can be more intense too. I have had to explain this to friends I am intimate with when they are surprised how much sex I want after working all week. But I also have a crazy high sex drive too.

Thank you for your input, it’s much appreciated.
this is why touring can be fun for some of us. I enjoy switching up the steady but lower volume days to action packed Grand Slams!!!
 
Last edited:

GeeBeeP

On a secret journey through PleasureTown.
Dec 28, 2019
593
1,190
93
I like morning sex, what else can I say? :)

Mornings are my preferred time to see an SP, so the first appointment of the day just makes sense. I’m freshly showered and shaved after some exercise and feeling my best with a clear head and no distractions. Later in the day or evening I’ve had a day of real life, some 5 o’clock shadow, and not feeling nearly as eager to get naked. I’m also a longer session guy so that’s often easier to fit into a morning.

*** yes of course I’m going to shower at the incall, but it’s still not the same feeling of refreshment.
 

bjl85

Active member
Jun 1, 2016
105
77
28
i'm a morning sex person. That said, I know of one agency that has 15 minutes between clients, so I would want to be first in that instance. With indies, it wouldn't matter.
 

LADY-LYRAH

JUST A WILD CAT.
Best way to start a day off. I'm distracted by the upcoming session until it happens, giddy with anticipation can't do anything else. Don't get me wrong, some of that is nice, but waiting until 3pm would be a lot to ask.
It’s a great way to start the day, and I’m a morning person so I appreciate morning guys.

My ideal booking hours are : 8am -1pm or 7-10pm
Ifyou can’t do a morning then it’s after dinner, unless you’re taking me for dinner first. 🄰
Apparently my night owl self is missing out on almost everybody! There seems to be a lot of you! Sleep vs money. Sigh. I’ll pick sleep. One day I’ll be a morning girl 😭 lol
The problem with posting early 5/6/ & even 7am is that you get the party guys asking ā€œ if I’m still availableā€

Have to really sort through the junk to get to the actual men up at that hour for work. Trades men, lawyers, men in finance, brokers, ect & morning gym guys.
 

Harmony-bc

Supporting Member
Sep 28, 2008
2,663
3,515
113
South west vancouver
zensualgirl.net
The problem with posting early 5/6/ & even 7am is that you get the party guys asking ā€œ if I’m still availableā€

Have to really sort through the junk to get to the actual men up at that hour for work. Trades men, lawyers, men in finance, brokers, ect & morning gym guys.
I would happily work until 2am but I don’t drink or party and don’t want that energy in my house so I turn my phone off at 11pm. Plus it’s quiet in my building at that time. I don’t want to be a bad neighbor. No judgments on how people choose to have fun but drunk/stoned guys are unpredictable. I don’t want the head ache
 

kelcaine

www.kelcaine.com
Supporting Member
Mar 31, 2022
550
1,534
93
Surrey
kelcaine.com
I would happily work until 2am but I don’t drink or party and don’t want that energy in my house so I turn my phone off at 11pm. Plus it’s quiet in my building at that time. I don’t want to be a bad neighbor. No judgments on how people choose to have fun but drunk/stoned guys are unpredictable. I don’t want the head ache
I feel this too. I prefer working mornings until 10pm. I like to avoid the party crowd, and those that are super drunk or super high can be very unpredictable, and I’ve had some uncomfortable experiences with party people, plus many want me to partake and I don’t party. I’ve had to put it in my ads too.

As mentioned as well early mornings could also have those who have been partying all night long too, so I usually start 10am, plus I’m not an early morning person too. Getting up at 8-9am works best for me.
 

rinamood

Well-known member
Jun 15, 2022
772
2,338
93
I know this conversation is veering into "do you prefer daytime vs evening bookings", but I would like to comment on the original topic of the thread.

I have never been asked by anyone to be the "first of the day"! Rarely do I get asked for a 10am or prior session, and my bookable hours are 10am onwards 😳 I think it can really get in some guy's heads thinking about the other men as if we are their monogamous partners. It's not intentional.

Many people likely probably grew up with entertainment and social media having them expect monogamy from those we are intimate with, and it takes both experience and internal work to release ourselves from those old thoughts at least with the reality of this industry. I don't think that people actively intend to live in the fantasy of "monogamous-for-the-day" with providers. Some feel squeamish, I'm sure. That's something I've read about many times and such a mindset may be insulting to SP hygiene at best, or the reality in some cases at the worst.

At an extreme level, the most clear-cut fix for the complainers who absolutely require first of the day is to book an overnight or multi-day. You literally get to be the first of AT LEAST one day that way šŸ˜‚ Practically guaranteed. No worries about an SP's personal life partners or if you are really first of the day. If the night time part of the overnight is shifty to someone like "what if she slept with someone earlier in the day", reserve the playtime for morning at peace knowing that 12am has passed and the pussy clock has been reset! Again, this is my extreme level example of what one could do if they want to eliminate as many variables as possible to achieve the crown of FIRST OF THE DAY. In fact, many crowns of first of the day can be achieved this way! Wow 😜
 

Harmony-bc

Supporting Member
Sep 28, 2008
2,663
3,515
113
South west vancouver
zensualgirl.net
I have tried to take prebooked morning appointments in the past and I just can't emotionally do it. I might even stand the person up. A good nights sleep is natures anti aging serum. And now that I have a dog that needs to pee before I start working, mornings are almost impossible. Yesterday I woke up at 10am but after I got home and ready to work, it was after 12 anyways lol
 
  • Like
Reactions: VanCityNewb
Status
Not open for further replies.
Ashley Madison
Vancouver Escorts