Why do i always get attached?

[Jovovop_55]

I can't seem to help but start getting feelings towards SWs. I know exactly what they are in it for and I know exactly what it leads to and what it benefits for myself.

It should really end there. Yet there is always a few that you kind of fall for or get attached to after multiple visits. Scary thing is I have a SO and I may feel guilty for awhile but then im right back at it.

Similar to drugs I'm just chasing the high I'm not sure. If you've got tips to kind of smack the nonsense out I'd like to hear it...as I can't be the only one.

 

[white Ninja]

The advice for single guys from dating coaches is to always be seeing 2-3 women, that way you don’t get attached. It works too.
But if you have a S.O and still get attached then I’m very curious to hear some wisdom from experienced pooners, especially those who have been in the game 20+ yrs

 

[MB Mod]

As it’s been said many times PERB is not the place to look for therapy, go see a licensed therapist. Even though everyone I’ve given an infraction to for dispensing medical advice claims to be a doctor, I don’t ask them how to treat my diabetes!