Why do Escorts hide there faces?

[juniper]

No respectful parent brings his or her child up to be a prostitute no matter how the professional escorts on this forum dress it up. All of the women know this. Rationalizing will not truly alter the situation. That is one of several simple reasons that women do not choose to be publicly identified. It has to do with wanting to guard the relationships they value as well as hiding a certain sense of shame which they indubitaby carry within their psyches. Can not be helped. This is one of the prices professional escorts pay for the money and other indulgences they earn. I know I am not being politically correct but sometimes the prevarification in this forum stuns me. Here is a test case: Regarding those women who have daughters or nieces whom are loved and valued, which escort on this forum would actually feel fullfilled and positive about prostitution and escorting as a full or even part-time job or profession for their young loved ones. I believe most mothers who do this work do it so that their own daughters (if they have children) will not have to demean themselves in such a manner. An intelligent and capable mother does not wish for her daughter to prostitute herself as a life goal.

 

[AubreyKisses]

I think that's a fairly narrow minded view of it, would a mother rather raise a child to work at McDonalds for life? Or use a platform like this get to higher goals faster as long as they maintain safety? I know that I am not ashamed of my job but other people certainly try to tell me to feel that way or guilty or that I fall under the other mass catagorized issues of escorts. I am a strong, happy and intelligent woman and I feel nothing but pride and and satisfaction with my choices. I also know when I plan on leaving permanently and what I would like to do once I have decided to move in a different direction. So if you would allow please refrain in the future from telling us all that we are ashamed in our own psyches when you clearly aren't sitting in our heads.

 

[juniper]

So Aubrey, will you have children some day? And will you proudly reveal to your daughter that you were n escort (prostitute) and will you suggest to her that she do the same? Just wondering.

 

[AubreyKisses]

My old best friend suggested something along those lines when I last saw her, her exact words were 'So will you still have children one day? and if so what would you say to them?' I feel like that it is my choice with my body and life at this time and that it is also my discretion to disclose what information about my life when, where and to whom I choose. I wouldn't have that answer until I had a child to actually face it, they say make the plan don't plan the outcome. My problem with your post was inferring that all escorts carry a secret inner shame when in reality you don't sit inside of our body, minds or souls at any point in time and have no ability to accurately say that. I would never promote any type living to fit every person, we are all very different and live our lives differently, what works for me won't work for someone else as easily and so I would never suggest becoming an escort to anyone I would simply lay out my experiences and let them draw their own conclusion from it. I am still to this day a year and a half almost down the road of this journey NOT ashamed of my choices and happy to be a service provider. My talents go beyond just this job and I have no doubt I will move on eventually like most the women I have met in it and will not be ashamed to own up to my past should it come up in the future.


I would like to add that I did not miss the expansion of labels in your post from escort to prostitutes and to me they are just that, labels. I don't care much what someone says in referral to my job title because at the end of the day they all have the same core meaning which is sex for money. I would just as proudly stand up and say I work as a prostitute as I would exchange that word for escort. Would you proudly stand up and say that you are a pooner to people or do you have a secret inner shame regarding that, that you are hoisting on us ladies?

 

[Cock Throppled]

So Aubrey, will you have children some day? And will you proudly reveal to your daughter that you were n escort (prostitute) and will you suggest to her that she do the same? Just wondering.

So, juniper, will you have children one day and will you proudly tell them you see escorts (prostitutes) and were on an escort review site for over five years and suggest they should pay prostitutes? Just wondering?

 

[MikeyUFC]

So, juniper, will you have children one day and will you proudly tell them you see escorts (prostitutes) and were on an escort review site for over five years and suggest they should pay prostitutes? Just wondering?

That's hilarious and both you and Aubrey made alot of sense. I doubt I will ever talk about paying for sex with anyone in the open but I have a marriage to consider though I don't think that there is anything morally wrong with this unless you get down to the one's held against their wills....I have only seen one escort so far though.

 

[juniper]

I've used prostitutes frequently throughout my life and, frankly, find it a good means to deal with sexual needs without complications. I have told a number of friends about what I have done. I recall that when I was a young man, working in a hotel in France, an older man who had moved to Australia from Europe explained to me that the woman he was vacationing with (much younger) was paid for by him. He said that it allowed him to have company and sex without needing a relationship. At his age, he said, it was a reasonable thing to do. I always recalled that and also find the hiring of prostitutes a reasonable thing to do. No, I would not tell some people, such as my children, about that as it would cause them embarrassment. In fact, there are a number of past activities in my life I keep to myself for fear of causing embarrassment to friends and loved ones. And there are some actions I remain absolutely ashamed of but not in hiring sexual providers. I hope that answers your questions about me.

Now, where were we. Oh, yes, one reason a woman would not reveal her photo is all the hassle it would cause her and therefore she makes a decision to avoid embarrassing friends and loved ones. The other reason she would not want her occupation known is regarding the shame she may feel. Let`s put it this way, when you have the responsibility of a child, a levelheaded woman would not want her child to grow up to become a prostitute. Working at MacDonalds is not at all comparable. It`s menial but does not carry anywhere near the same degree of shame even in families where much more is aspired to. With respect to the lovely Aubrey, until and if you are actually a parent, you cannot realistically answer the question. But if you lay aside your rebellious nature for a moment, ask yourself the following: How would you feel if you discovered that your own mother performed as a prostitute for a good deal of time in her adult life.

 

[AubreyKisses]

I sent you a pm to answer your question so we no longer hijack this thread.

 

[laurel love]

I notice that most of the women on Plenty of Fish don't show their faces either. I would be interested in your perspective on why that is and how it differs with us?

I would begin with the assumption that to be a single woman is a shame we carry 'indubitably within our psyches..", that, to be discovered on a dating site would cause embarrassment to families and friends. What could be more embarrassing than a spinster who cannot get a date?

Although you have used prostitutes frequently throughout your life, and, you are not ashamed of hiring sexual providers, you do believe that prostitutes demean themselves by having sex with you, and, you believe they (we) carry a deep sense of shame in having had transactions with you (and other men).

Well, I don't. Not one little bit. I hide my face for the same reason the women on POF hide theirs, not because I am ashamed of liking sex.

"...lay aside your rebellious nature..." ??? Now, that is a paternal statement!

 

[juniper]

Dear Laurel (paternal again): Women on Plenty of Fish may feel ashamed that they must advertise to find a man and therefore do not show their portraits but that is a good deal different than selling their bodies to strangers. A spinster who cannot get a date is still not a prostitute. So the comparison you have employed here is really is really not equivalent and logically without merit.

As to your saying that you are not one bit ashamed of what you are doing (providing sexual services), kindly tell us whether you have a daughter and whether you would want her to sell her sexual services when she gets older. Also, kindly reply: How would you feel if you discovered that your own mother engaged in prostitution of her own free will (as you do, I suppose) as an adult. I'm not much a philosophical type. I prefer to deal with situational events and I have come up with two situations here which you are free to discuss. I will give you one hint: In most cultures, prostitution is really looked down upon and, even in the cases where there is a certain aura about such activities such as amongst the classical Japanese, such women are still isolated and marginalized. So, are you truly the "new woman", the one free of all shame and looking forward to introducing your own daughter into the art of prostitution when she comes of age?

Please let me know if I've replied to your concerns satisfactorily.

 

[Cock Throppled]

Juniper, you are not only a hypocrite, but can't seem to understand your own hypocrisy. You fail to see that the women you feel are demeaning themselves are doing so because of clients - like you. YOU are the one doing the demeaning. Do you plan to introduce your son to prostitutes? If not, why not? If it's good enough for you, your son should be able to purchase the services of women and your daughter should be able to choose to be a prostitute.

You also seem comfortable in disconnecting the fact you feel THEY are demeaning themselves, but you, apparently aren't in any way demeaned by participating in their services.

 

[juniper]

Thank you for the exciting descriptions of me, Jamie ('bored, parasitic troll"). You are the one (talking about "parasites") who used to hire girls, some of them quite a bit younger than yourself (but who in this business isn't?), to work as sexual providers for you and your business until, well, should I say it delicately, it fell apart under your tutelage. Now, who is the "parasite", having hired young, inexperienced females, failed businesswoman though you may be?

 

[juniper]

Hello "cock throppled": It's more than my poor mind can handle trying to deal with your pop psychology of socalled insights and ridiculous insults.

Most young men are introduced to prostitutes by an older man, a father, an uncle, and older cousin (as in my case) or a friend. Try not to be so thickwitted and "moral" about this. As I noted in a previous post, I learned from an older man how conducive to one's well-being paid-for sex and companionship can be. I hold no shame about seeing prostitutes and have advised others, depending on the circumstances, to do the same and, furthermore, have often discussed it openly. Were I to have had a son, I would be gratified if we could discuss the subject. No, according to my logic, it is not shameful for a man to visit a prostitute but it is shameful for a woman to charge for sex with strangers and, I think, most women also secretly feel that way. I have continued to ask the question: Would you bring your daughter up to be a prostitute, even a highclass one? How would you feel if you discovered that your own mother willingly engaged in prostitution with strangers in order to make an elevated living? Perhaps "cockthroppled", you could actually try to engage in discussion as opposed to what I would identify as semi-sophisticated name calling.

 

[dizzybiker]

Face???

I agree really stupid question!! So if they showed their face and not there ass or boob , would only go see them? Of course not !! In my experience somewhat very selective.. I do try and get an idea of what to expect. 9 out of ten if a lady has the bod to be on this site and expects to stay in this bus, well she needs a few special features! What they may be is so different for all of us, but it does come down to a few simply requirements...
1) general body type... Tall / short / racked!/or not racked/
2) services offered.
3) reviews ???
4) price
I made price last because in my mind and in my lucky ways... I will wait and save for that one special meeting! As opposed to running up a list of "hits" in so many days or hours.
Ladies... Stay smart! Yes once on the Internet it stays there forever!!

 

[Cock Throppled]

Hello "cock throppled": It's more than my poor mind can handle trying to deal with your pop psychology of socalled insights and ridiculous insults.

Most young men are introduced to prostitutes by an older man, a father, an uncle, and older cousin (as in my case) or a friend. Try not to be so thickwitted and "moral" about this. As I noted in a previous post, I learned from an older man how conducive to one's well-being paid-for sex and companionship can be. I hold no shame about seeing prostitutes and have advised others, depending on the circumstances, to do the same and, furthermore, have often discussed it openly. Were I to have had a son, I would be gratified if we could discuss the subject. No, according to my logic, it is not shameful for a man to visit a prostitute but it is shameful for a woman to charge for sex with strangers and, I think, most women also secretly feel that way. I have continued to ask the question: Would you bring your daughter up to be a prostitute, even a highclass one? How would you feel if you discovered that your own mother willingly engaged in prostitution with strangers in order to make an elevated living? Perhaps "cockthroppled", you could actually try to engage in discussion as opposed to what I would identify as semi-sophisticated name calling.

How's this for semi-sophisticated name calling - fuck off you lazy-ass troll.

Let's please let this thread die.

 

[juniper]

"cute angie": Ted Bundy's mother was devoted to him even after she discovered that he was a serial killer and sadist. It isn't always a virtue that a mother sticks by a child's side, is it?

I note that you say, "cute angie", that your daughters are moving on to better themselves. You obviously didn't bring them up to be prostitutes, did you? Your daughters may accept you, as you suggest, but are you aware of how difficult you have made it for them to be "accepting"? I think you are doing a good deal of self-deception here. I have been witness to similar cases. Frankly,it must be a tremendous burden for your daughters now that they know. I think you would do well to cease operating like this and obtain a job which won't confuse your offspring so. There is something pathetic in how you have described this situation. I feel a certain sadness for your daughters, Angie.

 

[AubreyKisses]

I thought what you wrote was beautiful Angie and its obvious that you just won't open your mind juniper or maybe you simply are just a troll. Either way I think the posts after this very sensitive topic was broached, minus junipers, have been really insightful and heartwarming, especially Angie's for me. I do have to say that the ted bundy comment is very interesting though it did make me think a bit, regardless it is obvious that laurel and Angie and myself alike aren't expressing shame just frustration that society is so close minded and thats why we hide out faces.

 

[AubreyKisses]

You betcha You have a beautiful way with words Angie I enjoyed all of what you had to say so far.